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Kobojunkie:
Now I see even clearly the intelligence of the person I am attempting to engage. I refuse to move forward with this at this point. 🥱🥱🥱

You are EMPTY.... INEXPERIENCED and VACUOUS upstairs.....

Kobojunkie:
Like play, we are already deviating from the topic. 🥱🥱

What has staying in a marriage for 21 years to do with the issue here?🥱🥱

I used to know a man who was married to his one wife for over 35 years. He was a deadbeat dad, a womanizer, an abuser, and a drunk. For the majority of the marriage, the wife literally bankrolled the household. Does the fact that the man spent over 30 years in his marriage mean he is more experienced in marriage than you are? 🥱🥱

I am trying to understand why you felt that dropping a number meant you were better at this in some way. 🥱🥱

Yes!

A man that has spent 30years in marriage.. irrespective of paying bills or not bankrolling the family...has more experience than someone like you that doesn't even know what it means to keep a girlfriend talkless of marriage..

How old are you?

Kobojunkie:
Like play, we are already deviating from the topic. 🥱🥱

What has staying in a marriage for 21 years to do with the issue here?🥱🥱

I used to know a man who was married to his one wife for over 35 years. He was a deadbeat dad, a womanizer, an abuser, and a drunk. For the majority of the marriage, the wife literally bankrolled the household. Does the fact that the man spent over 30 years in his marriage mean he is more experienced in marriage than you are? 🥱🥱

I am trying to understand why you felt that dropping a number meant you were better at this in some way. 🥱🥱

That a woman bankrolls her family even when she's married doesn't mean SHIT!

Unless you are NOT someone with Self Awareness..like almost all folks..

So will it be okay if a married man pays ALL his bills and yet keeps another lady outside his home?

What about if he is never around but pays his bills and even more?

Oga...

How old are you?

Kobojunkie:
This is hogwash at best for a response. I asked you a straight-forward enough question, and your response is to run all over the place yet never answering the question asked? Come on! How old are you? 🥱🥱😏

I am 53...will be 53 in I a couple of days...

Have I now answered your question?

Are you now fine and good?

Kobojunkie:
Like play, we are already deviating from the topic. 🥱🥱

What has staying in a marriage for 21 years to do with the issue here?🥱🥱

I used to know a man who was married to his one wife for over 35 years. He was a deadbeat dad, a womanizer, an abuser, and a drunk. For the majority of the marriage, the wife literally bankrolled the household. Does the fact that the man spent over 30 years in his marriage mean he is more experienced in marriage than you are? 🥱🥱

I am trying to understand why you felt that dropping a number meant you were better at this in some way. 🥱🥱

You obviously aren't married..
MONEY is a factor in marriage...a strong one..

But it's just one of the many factors.... because you can't function even as a human in these days without money...and thrs just the issue .and then,how much is "Money"

Infact,it isn't the major factor even when folks that are emotionally unregulated make it so...

It will take someone with deep understanding and experience, unlike you,to get it ...

A lot of married folks don't even get it..

SmallDick99:
go and watch the video. I was shocked that the Inec chairman could say something like that not until I watched the video. If you you're a just little bit intelligent and logical you will be able to spot the difference between the Inec chairman statement and the op headline.

All you Gen Zs sef...

What do you expect the INEX chairman to say?

Or is it you can't remember the Bayelsa and Zamfara debacle?

Maybe you were too young then sef ..

360degreess:
I don't know why tulumbu is so afraid of opposition.with 32 governor'?.He will surely be disgraced out of Asorock

IMPOSSICANT!!!!!!

seunmsg:
The OP is a liar. I watched the video and the chairman never said ADC will not be declared if they won. He said they are trying to avoid a situation like zamfara and plateau where the court rendered the victory of the winners invalid because they refused to obey court order.

What's de difference between 6 and half a dozen?

Dogalmighty17:
An INEC chairman shouldn't be so careless with his remarks. Such a pronouncement can only be made by the supreme court. Amupitan is showing his bias.

Unfortunately,he is right. According to INEC guidelines...

Odin13:
He will set Nigeria on fire and he will be the first to burn ..

E too sure .. I’ve overheard people saying this .. from his camp

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Coward!

NOTHING WILL HAPPEN!

Odin13:
Already he knows that he’s Boss will lose 😂

Jagaban of yorubaland a god .. is a coward . A true representative of his …

Oya bot come ban me

Bola Tinubu can NEVER lose to Jagaban...

Since 2023..

Compliant:
Wish them the best

The only problem with black man is maintenance culture

You mean "mind" culture.....not just for blacks...for everyone mediocre..

Anthonysteven19:
They should all forge a common front. Thats the only way the party will stand a chance. Personal tendecies will split the unity and defeat the aim of mounting a virile opposition and reduce their chances of performing well at the poll

NO CHANCE!

Kobojunkie:
Like play, we are already deviating from the topic. 🥱🥱

What has staying in a marriage for 21 years to do with the issue here?🥱🥱

I used to know a man who was married to his one wife for over 35 years. He was a deadbeat dad, a womanizer, an abuser, and a drunk. For the majority of the marriage, the wife literally bankrolled the household. Does the fact that the man spent over 30 years in his marriage mean he is more experienced in marriage than you are? 🥱🥱

I am trying to understand why you felt that dropping a number meant you were better at this in some way. 🥱🥱

EXACTLY my point..

You will keep trying to understand because of your INEXPERIENCE..

Lovelink1991:
I dey tell you, a lot of women are taking the challenge of standing by their husband

You have to be raised that way to do that...

Kobojunkie:
STorytime! 🥱🥱🥱

It's ALWAYS storytime for "juveniles" that have NOT yet been weened in basic things as dating..... talkless of marriage..

When you have atleast 21 years of marriage experience,I will notice your spews .

Kobojunkie:
Have you been able to influence, say your mother, or cause her to upgrade her mentality? What about your own father? Na another man child you think say you fit influence like that? 🥱

I influenced my wife...

Stephen0mozzy:
You can force a horse to the river, but you can't force her to drink water.

When the zeal is not there, it's not there - see the evidence in Op's case.

You think you have the zeal but you don't..

No difference between the both of you..

Emeskhalifa:
Shey if e think finsh, e no go still need money to pursue the billionaire thinking abi?

You heard someone said to provide basic needs in the house is taking a toll on him, you still dey tell am to think like billionaire. Ok, if hin think finish, help am credit hin aza with 1b naira

Chai...

The mindset of the poor..

Stephen0mozzy:
When you're the only one with Growth and Wealth mindset, there are some conversations you can't have with your wife anymore, because she'll just be clueless - you can't take her to social gatherings with high ranking people, because all she knows is skit and self-acclaimed influencer bhuffuns who give half-baked advice online.

If you're okay with a maid-wife, that's fine - but not this soul.

Influence her...

"Upgrade" her mental state..

Stephen0mozzy:
This right here is what i fear the most.


I mean, there's no harm entertaining yourself with social media - but you're not learning anything, youre not earning anything from it, just giggling and being entertained into obsolescence 🤧.



This is one thing I've not almost given up on. Apparently, no matter how good intentioned you are, you can't force someone to have a vision for themselves and pursue something that can better their own lives and improve the family.

But I think you knew even during dating thay she's a RELAXED person, did you promise her housewife life? Did you always know she was one to not pursue personal development?

I'm very big on partnership and mutual growth; the truth is, if one partner is growing and the other one is just marinating, it eventually leads to disgust.

Sending you my prayers Sir... May you find peace

If you"overthink" on how you are becoming a Billionaire,you won't even notice your wife's not doing anything to add value to anyone or even yourself because you already are value..

Think and act like a Billionaire!

slivertongue:
Fools keep dreaming...

You know the "drill"...

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slivertongue:
I felt sorry watching him eaten alive by Mehdi Hassan on Al Jazeera on Friday, March 6.

Same shall be done to APC at the polls in 2027

Fools keep dreaming...

HacheNoire:
Give Rufai a medal! You can tell dude is not mentally enslaved and conquered.

I a fan of bold Black men. Not those ones that crumble JUST at the sight of a Caucasian.

Getat!

Small pickin wey no Sabi him left from right..

jazzman7711:
So he should address him like he's addressing God because he's a white man?

My friend get out of here.

You lack basic understanding of what "Professionalism" means..