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Hmmm! I think I need another partner!

I am actually thinking of going natural but don't want to cut my hair.

[quote author=Busy_body link=topic=395396.msg5480107#msg5480107 date=1265721921]Egbami, what do these typical backward naija man with a flawed mindset that "omo london girls" are good for nothing, feisty, disrespectful, arrogant, ill-mannered nothing to write home girls doing always doing with one, especially when those supposedly butter wouldn't melt in their mouth naija raised girls boku plenty for UK !!!

Marry this possessive, controlling guy and be ready to give up your life and identity and be prepared to end up emotionally battered and bruised and broken with no sense of selfworth and a shadow of your former self.

If i read this right, your Mum is waiting for him to come and apologise to her but you are petrified of bringing up the issue before him because of your fear he will blank you and not talk to you for a week again.

Luxoire, you've only known this guy a year, bite the bullet and don't keep Mummy waiting.[/quote]This post deserves 5 stars. Well said!

nikkykay:
If u continue with this feeling and see things this way,u will end up getting married to him.Can u test him by getting him angry and whn he raise his voice u raise urs and see the extent of his anger?Be careful woman.

Well said!

Eyah:
@ Nana, that is a very good and witty answer

Hehehe,thanks. I wonder what sort of answer he's expecting tho'

notcommon:
@nana, do u think u are beautiful?

I don't think so but my mummy and daddy have never said I am ugly.

OYINBOGOJU:
nl is full of big mammas and heartbreaking machines

LMAO!

Why are u asking?

Gentleflwr:
O! i didnt say why.
We had been together for a long while and i was being called to a different place in my life, and a different level in my faith, and I felt God was calling me out of the relationship, so i ended it, about 2 days later i walked in on her hooking up with a stranger she'd never met, they were hooking up in the only place i would have had to see them getting to my car,

Oh,Sorry about that.

Hmmm,Lord have mercy! I don't pray to spend a day with someone like ur guy. That said,do u really see urself getting hooked for life with someone who can't control his anger? What will u do if his anger gets out of hand and he beats u up? Forget getting marriage for now. If he can't control his anger,then, I am afraid,u've been dealing with wrong person.

Gentleflwr:
What guy hasnt   
they heartless b*tches!

Oh

Hmmm,u seem to be looking for the 'perfect woman'. Even the 'perfect woman' still has some blemishes. Settle for that which makes ur heart beat faster than usual when u see her, that which even in her absence,makes u laugh/smile,that which ur heart is sure about not to hurt u etc etc. Except,of course,U want a virtual woman i.e u need a robot.

Am good. In school at the moment and do not like it. Considering the fact that it is first week and nothing special/serious happens during first week of resumption.   

Sup Smooth and Pharoh,hope u both are cool?

Arrrgh! Hello Everyone!

Hello Manny