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Hi y'all! I'm new here.

Godson201333: You playing Hard to get walahi...By the way could you please emphasis on "More than a friend relationship without sex"

We're more than friends but we are not having s.ex.

Thanks guys. God bless you.

ifihearam: Then you must really be a very young girl.

Lol....I'm young but not very young. In my early twenties and he is 4 years older.

Ab025: U and dis guy shud stop beating around d bush, make una talk una church-mind..

But it seems d guy is scared of askin u out

And u are also scared of givin him that heavy green light that will motivate him to believ in u.

My advice: give him that greenest light that shows u re trippin bt do it in a matured gal's way sha, dnt throw all of ursef on d floor for him,......he shud ask u out properly after that kind of green light, if he doesn't, then move ahead, Maybe he is just not for u....

Thank you.

berem: Since he's a friend to your cousin, your cousin should know more about him. Ask your cousin if he's the type who keeps numerous girlfriends. Whatever your cousin tells you will determine how you'll build your relationship with him. You can still give him a try, who knows what the relationship has in stock for you. it might work out when you least expect.Good luck!

Thanks a lot. I would.

Enegod: you deserve to be flogged...

Like seriously oo! I just can't help it.

ifihearam: This is the problem i have with Nigerian girls,you like him and he likes you so why the"hard to get packaging"? do you think he has all the time in the world to chase after you? yes the distractions he has are other girls who are so involved with him and does not give him hard times like you do,if i were to be the guy i will just forget about you and why did you emphasize on "i visited him just once" what are you girls feeling like? he has not asked you out yet he calls you his wife and you are cool with it.

What i can deduce from this your episode is you are a confused girl(insult not intended),you really dont know what you need,if you like him as you claim then give him the green light and hold him to yourself otherwise if he tries this third time and he does not have you then its segobe and you never told us if you were seeing other guys because if you were single i mean boyfriendless you wont be giving a guy you like stress like this.

Unnecessary shakara.

1) I was single and I am atm.
2) I wasn't playing hard to get and I don't. I liked him so why would I.
3) I laid emphasis on 'I visited him just once' to show that he did most of the visiting and why he should have doubts (and not to feel like anything as you said).
4) I'm actually confused. Like hello, why would I be asking for advice if I wasn't.
5) I don't need him. I want him. I could have dated other guys if I wanted to but it's him I want.
6) Thanks for the advice. You've of great help.

.........all forgotten.