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AutosRe: SOLD quick Sale Of A Foreign Used 2004 Corolla SOLD by notobiafrababe(f): 7:35pm On Feb 28
8.5 million 😲😲😲

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AutosRe: SOLD OUT Toyota Rav4 Registered First Body In Ibadan 08069992556-whatsapp-5m by notobiafrababe(f): 11:11am On Feb 27
5.5 million 😳😳😳😳


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PoliticsRe: Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour Visits Eleko Community, Condemns Planned Demolitions by notobiafrababe(f): 7:03pm On Feb 24
ceejay80s:
Contest not content, no lie say na typo error,
Go school u refuse, speak pigeon English,
U dey nairaland dey abuse person wey dey million times more educated than u
See this nincompoop

That's typo. Was it that difficult to detect. Ode
PoliticsRe: Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour Visits Eleko Community, Condemns Planned Demolitions by notobiafrababe(f): 5:17pm On Feb 24
keemsleek:
100 trs to come he can never win. I dey laugh someone up say lagos are tired of sanwo olu. You go just laugh when some people talk. The guy will loose again and again
With the way they love him. You know the they. I can't mention it because of the they mods. He should win the election by landslide in Anambra or Imo.
PoliticsRe: Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour Visits Eleko Community, Condemns Planned Demolitions by notobiafrababe(f):
Curious to know

With the way these guys love Gbadebo Chukwu Road, why can't he contest for Anambra election. He will win by landslide. My opinion though
AutosRe: Distress Sale Of Reg 2010 Hyundai Sonata by notobiafrababe(f): 3:32pm On Feb 24
I don't think it's distress with that price
AutosRe: Registered 2004 Toyota Camry by notobiafrababe(f): 3:28pm On Feb 24
This car for 2.2 million. It is well
BusinessRe: Onitsha Apprentice Sent Packing After Boss Discovered ₦72M In His Account by notobiafrababe(f): 9:58pm On Feb 23
webincomeplus:
This is purely editing. In the oPay app, the naira sign and the accompanying figures are of the same font size. In the shitty screenshot up there, the naira sign is much smaller.

Also, is it coincidence that both the balance and business service figures end in ".00" and not some random kobo value?
Detective 😁😁😁
AutosRe: First Body 2007 Honda Accord DC by notobiafrababe(f): 9:36pm On Feb 23
I
tsnoop:
Super clean, no single issue
3 million

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AutosRe: Sold ! Sold !! Sold !!!Few Months Registered Toyota Corolla For Sale by notobiafrababe(f): 6:05am On Feb 20
5.8 million

Nairaland sha

How much you buy am that you wan sell am 5.8 million

Well one aboki will buy it sha

Your price is too steep
AutosRe: Registered 2007 Toyota Camry LE °°° 6.3m Distress Deal!!! by notobiafrababe(f): 6:03am On Feb 20
davidtuzy:
Very Urgent Distress Deal 💧
This is not a distress sale. Your price is too steep for a used car.
PhonesRe: Itel City 100 by notobiafrababe(f): 5:58am On Feb 20
I'm interested but in Lagos
Technology MarketRe: Hisense 50 Inch A6k Series Uhd TV | 320k | Lagos by notobiafrababe(f): 6:40pm On Feb 18
Ajoray:
Okay o smiley
So you’re saying 160k for this tv grin
Everyone is free to have their own opinion though
You say your last price
Technology MarketRe: Hisense 50 Inch A6k Series Uhd TV | 320k | Lagos by notobiafrababe(f): 4:53pm On Feb 18
Ajoray:
What price do you propose?
Scared. Make I no lie, half the price
Technology MarketRe: Hisense 50 Inch A6k Series Uhd TV | 320k | Lagos by notobiafrababe(f): 3:30pm On Feb 18
That price na ish.

Na used product you wan sell 320k

How much is the new one on CD care
Phone/Internet MarketRe: Xiaomi Mi Max 2 Without A Single Scratch For Sale@35k last price by notobiafrababe(f): 11:11am On Feb 15
Refurbish phone for 50k cheesy
CelebritiesRe: Queen Dami Opens Up About Relationship Drama Involving Portable And Close Friend by notobiafrababe(f): 7:27am On Feb 15
Let’s be honest, situations like this expose a harsh reality of the celebrity economy, where proximity to money, clout, and attention becomes a currency of its own. When fame enters the room, principles often slip out the back door, and what should be about character turns into a contest of access.

It’s not romance; it’s power dynamics dressed as affection. The spotlight can make even obvious red flags look like opportunities, and loyalty becomes negotiable when status is involved. In that world, the question is rarely “who is he really?” , it’s “what comes with him?”
Fame doesn’t just attract admiration; it tests integrity. And too often, the test reveals how easily values can bend when the promise of visibility and advantage is on the table.
SportsRe: Despite Crowd Trouble, Nigeria To Play Morocco In Davis Cup Match. by notobiafrababe(f): 7:32am On Feb 13
Normally, anything North Africa host, if Dem no win am, na trouble... always wondering why they always get hosting rights
FamilyRe: What My Married Ex Told Me. by notobiafrababe(f): 6:26pm On Feb 11
This is my honest take on this matter.
First of all, you handled it well by telling her clearly that you shouldn’t be the one she’s complaining to. That was mature. Once someone is married, especially to another person, emotional boundaries must be respected. No matter the history, you are no longer her safe space.
Now let’s address the real issue.
Marriage is not Instagram. Marriage is not wedding pictures. Marriage is not matching outfits and anniversary captions. Marriage is two imperfect people managing expectations, responsibilities, finances, personalities, family pressure, and sometimes regret.
Some people marry for love.
Some marry for money.
Some marry for pressure.
Some marry for security.
And some marry thinking “it will get better with time.”
But marriage only amplifies what was already there.
If she married a man old enough to be her father because she thought he was “gold,” then she made a choice. Whether that choice was influenced by comfort, pressure, or glitter it was still her decision. Regret after marriage does not automatically mean marriage is bad. It simply means she may have chosen wrongly or for the wrong reasons.
Now, to your question:
Are married men not spending time with their wives?
Some are. Some aren’t.
Are all marriages enjoyable?
No.
Are some marriages peaceful and beautiful?
Absolutely yes.
The difference is not age gap alone. It is compatibility, communication, emotional maturity, shared values, and realistic expectations.
A happy home is not built on: • Money alone
• Social media validation
• Age difference
• Pressure to “secure your future”
A happy home is built on: • Friendship before romance
• Emotional safety
• Mutual respect
• Financial understanding
• Honest communication
• And choosing your partner daily, even when feelings fluctuate
The bigger red flag here is not her unhappy marriage. It is her constantly coming back to you emotionally. That is emotional cheating territory. Whether she realizes it or not, she is trying to reconnect with a past comfort zone because her present is uncomfortable.
You are wise to consider blocking her if she continues. Protect your peace. You are not her therapist. You are not her rescue mission. And you definitely are not her backup plan.
For those planning to marry in the future:
Don’t marry to escape your current life.
Don’t marry because of pressure.
Don’t marry because someone looks financially secure.
Don’t marry someone you cannot talk to freely.
Don’t ignore red flags because of “benefits.”
Marry someone you can laugh with on a bad day.
Marry someone who listens.
Marry someone who respects your growth.
Marry someone whose values align with yours.
Marriage is enjoyable when two people are intentional. It is miserable when one person is pretending.
And lastly if someone leaves you thinking another place is greener, let them stay where they planted themselves. Don’t water what walked away.
Protect your single and peaceful life until the right person comes.
That’s my two cents.
SportsRe: Franck Ribéry Mentioned In Latest Epstein Files by notobiafrababe(f): 9:10pm On Feb 10
Epistle file abi na Philippines files go cause more Wahala than good
Nairaland GeneralRe: BREAKING: Enugu Govt Shuts Down Bet9ja Operations by notobiafrababe(f): 5:40pm On Feb 10
Space booked


The Enugu State Government has shut down the operations of KC Gaming Networks, operators of the Bet9ja brand, following alleged persistent violations of the Enugu State Gaming and Lottery Law.

The enforcement action, which led to the sealing of the company’s head office in Enugu on February 10, 2026, was carried out by the Enugu State Gaming and Lotto Commission, acting on a court order issued by the High Court of Enugu State.
EducationRe: Reactions As Soludo Suspends Nine School Heads Over Sit-at-home by notobiafrababe(f): 8:51am On Feb 10
Space booked first. Comment later

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PoliticsRe: Nigeria not Lacking In Talent, but Have Poor Leadership - Peter Obi by notobiafrababe(f): 7:14am On Feb 09
Definitely we lack poor leadership though to be honest, he is part of the poor leaders
PhonesRe: Super Clean Iphone 13 Pro For Sale by notobiafrababe(f): 5:03am On Feb 09
You already talk make we no price am.
Na Nairaland sellers go advertise products and put price tag with a non negotiable option... Wish you well
SportsRe: Who Are You Picking To Take The Free Kick by notobiafrababe(f): 6:27pm On Feb 07
Omoawoke:
How dare you underestimate Ronald like that??

Some of the best free kicks in the world was taken by Ronaldo

In fact, the last minute free kicks that saved the world were taken by Ronaldo
Lies in the pitch of hell. When Ronaldo turn free kick taker

Almiron come and see your meat
SportsRe: Who Are You Picking To Take The Free Kick by notobiafrababe(f): 4:55pm On Feb 07
How do you expect Indomie fans to know Juninho. One otondo even picked Ronaldo. Infact Ronaldo is the poorest FK taker in that list. It's Juninho. That guy see free kick as Penalty kick
CelebritiesRe: Tiwa Savage Celebrates Her 46th Birthday Today by notobiafrababe(f): 8:50am On Feb 05
Space booked. Someone argued that her sex nude is no longer on the Internet but surprised to see it on about three different sites. Internet never forgets
AutosRe: Toyota Camry 2005 For Sale by notobiafrababe(f): 10:41pm On Feb 04
Four point two. At this stage, my papa Datsun fit cost 3 million shocked


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Nairaland GeneralRe: Closed thread by notobiafrababe(f): 8:21pm On Feb 01
Did you mean 17k


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