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Imagine being so tainted that you are rejected by the Tinubu administration.

Turns out the bulk of people on this page don't understand the separation between the Judiciary and Executive.

I only came here to see the reactions of the Reno haters.

Who's paying him this time?

Why's everyone assuming it's a forced marriage?
Trying to blame the victim as always.
Why can't she just be evil or bat shit crazy?

Pay attention in school.
E sey na brother wants sister!

We're starting to hear from the sponsors of the movement.

Another reason why he isn't.

Children of hate full this website now, always the victims.

Anyone else notice the middle finger where he was standing behind DJT

Solving problems you created 😏

When their priority is securing illegally obtained land

You all lauded them for signing a peace pact with the Katsina government, maybe part of that deal was free movement to other states. Expatriates 😔

When there was a confirmed genocide in Gaza, Kosovo, Rwanda, it wasn't the people being oppressed that were protesting. E reach Nigeria turn, they're shouting genocide but at the same time protesting freely on the streets.

Rashduct4luv:
In Surah An-Nisa (4:129). Allah says what means:
"You will never be able to do perfect justice between wives even if it is your ardent desire, so do not incline too much to one of them (by giving her more of your time and provision) so as to leave the other hanging (i.e. neither divorced nor married). And if you do justice, and do all that is right and fear Allah by keeping away from all that is wrong, then Allah is Ever Oft­Forgiving, Most Merciful."

Navigating the complexities of an Islamic polygamous home requires understanding, compassion, and adherence to Islamic principles. Here’s a guide listing ten dos and ten don’ts to help couples maintain harmony and fulfill their responsibilities in such relationships.

10 Dos in an Islamic Polygamous Home
1. Ensure Financial Stability
Make sure you have the financial means to support all wives and their children adequately.
Qur'an Reference: Surah An-Nisa (4:3) - "And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four..."

2. Treat All Wives Equally
Strive to provide equal time, attention, and resources to each wife.
Hadith Reference: Ibn Majah - "He who has two wives and does not treat them equally will come on the Day of Judgment with a side of his body hanging down."

3. Communicate Openly
Foster an environment of open communication where all wives can express their feelings and concerns.

4. Respect Individual Needs
Recognize and respect the individual needs and preferences of each wife, ensuring they feel valued.

5. Seek Knowledge
Continuously educate yourself about the rights and responsibilities of polygamous marriages through Islamic teachings.

6. Involve Wives in Decision-Making
Include all wives in important family decisions to promote unity and respect.

7. Maintain a Supportive Environment
Create a home atmosphere that encourages cooperation and support among all family members.

8. Be Patient and Understanding
Understand that emotions can run high in a polygamous setting; practice patience and empathy.

9. Encourage Family Activities
Plan family gatherings and activities that include all wives and children to strengthen family bonds.

10. Pray for Guidance
Regularly pray for wisdom and guidance in managing your responsibilities and relationships.

10 Don’ts in an Islamic Polygamous Home
1. Do Not Favor One Wife Over Another
Avoid showing favoritism, as it can lead to jealousy and discord.
Hadith Reference: Ibn Majah - "He who has two wives and does not treat them equally will come on the Day of Judgment with a side of his body hanging down."

2. Do Not Neglect Emotional Needs
Failing to address the emotional needs of each wife can lead to feelings of inadequacy and resentment.

3. Do Not Hide Financial Matters
Transparency in financial dealings is crucial; do not hide financial issues from any wife.

4. Do Not Ignore the Children’s Needs
Ensure that all children receive equal attention and support, regardless of which wife they belong to.

5. Do Not Engage in Gossip
Avoid discussing one wife with another in a negative light, as this can create mistrust.

6. Do Not Rush into Decisions
Take your time when making decisions that affect the family; hasty choices can lead to regret.

7. Do Not Allow External Influences
Protect your family from outside opinions that may disrupt harmony within the home.

8. Do Not Forget the Importance of Intimacy
Ensure that all wives feel loved and cherished; neglecting intimacy can lead to emotional distance.

9. Do Not Overlook Islamic Teachings
Always refer back to the Qur'an and Hadith for guidance in your actions and decisions.

10. Do Not Lose Sight of Your Responsibilities
Remember that with the privilege of polygamy comes the responsibility to treat all wives justly and fairly.

Conclusion
Polygamy in Islam is a significant responsibility that requires careful consideration and adherence to Islamic principles. By following these dos and don’ts, couples can create a harmonious and loving environment that honors the teachings of Islam. Remember, the key to a successful polygamous marriage lies in justice, compassion, and mutual respect.

Exactly where did you come up with this list?

DOUBLEBARREL:
What's the ruling on bandits and terrorists. . I thought lions shouldn't bother about opinions of sheep. Bothering is being petty.
Ps: there's nothing religious about the hijab , the uniform is a mode of dressing among the Arabs, it's like asking the ruling on a Caucasian male wearing agbada... the man wasn't made for the cloth, Rather the cloth was made for the man . If u re abused for something, it's due to their ignorance. It isn't your ignorance. No need to get emotional about ignorance of another due to a choice you made out of ignorance you assume was a religious pious dresscode. The dead worrying about the dead

Its not religious but it's also the dress code of Nuns and even Mary, mother of Jesus.

You sey meet the students, then just post random stock pictures.

Piers Morgan has zero integrity, that's why he always runs to Ronaldo to bail him out periodically.

yinkus6750:
If a Royal family can protect their children from internet usage at those ages in this digital era, means they are very protective and concerned about their children.
But black man mentality here, parents are busy doing competition on which of their children uses the most expensive phone, not minding what they access only ne.
Good idea, kids should majorly have access to calls and SMS.
But when they enter high school, internet will assist towards improving their educational knowledge,but should be well monitored.

You sound like the one with an Inferiority complex.
The only reason those kids don't have phones is CONTROL. Same way they controlled Diana, Kate, Harry. They can't afford another scandal no matter how small.

From " I can't marry an old man to " never say never🤣"
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Stable home before multiple siblings.

Hahahaha hahaha hahahaha

Why didn't he post all the contracts that have been awarded since this government came into power.
This list is a revised/ new list.
Ex-aides bank account seems to be dwindling.

Why wasn't something like this coordinated with Hilda's last attempt.
And is this the reason the president wants to borrow almost 2 billion naira?

HighQue007:
How much is 400 million with today’s inflation in regards to what these people stole. We are being taken for a ride in this nation. 400milliom naira can’t be up to 0.5% of what this guy stole and I can bet on it.

You people need to take a few minutes to read the full article.

They are majority Christians being genuinely persecuted btw.

Beaten not beating zzzzz

You see them, how does a "Christian genocide" correlate With an Igbo referendum.
Perennial victims, not even raising concern for the people of Benue who are bearing the brunt.

So she just announced to the world that she was born out of wedlock.

CAN is now the spokesman for DJT.

If the caption has read " Christian predominant Igbonla community" attacked by bandits, I'm sure most of the miscreants on this page will give a different impression.