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U should concentrate on how shameless ur country is and how soldiers are on par with beggers in other countries ...the us guy did well .. N

Lithiumite:
It's funny how this people who get oppurtuned to leave the shores of this country are always quick to lampoon their country as they revel in the glory and grandeur of their host western country..... their condescending attitude is disgusting mainly because they are apparently ignorantly oblivious of the hideous fact that these countries they are always praising for their development and organisation are in fact the ones responsible fir the underdevelopment and economic mess sub Saharan African countries are going through.......someone messed up your father's house ,you move over to his house which is better and then you start abusing your own house destroyed by your oppressor.

A no nonsense man that only prosecute political victims is simply a state puppet and yes elrufai has committed but he is only prosecuted for falling out with the agbadorian and leaving apc so this is just a media persecution ...

Putindbutt:
My mind just dey relax as na ICPC dey in charge of this case. Abeg make EFCC consolidate all the charges and hand over everything to ICPC to prosecute.

That man in charge of ICPC na Mr no nonsense, a lot of people do not even know him, you hardly see him talk in the media like EFCC Chairman does. A very brutal man.

That ICPC Chairman has been looking for a high profile case to use as a scapegoat. And no way Elrufai is escaping this. If a former Accountant General could get 72years for 800 million fraud, Malami and Elrufai will get at least 1000yrs imprisonment each.

Then as ICPC dey drag am, DSS dey wait to grab hin blokkos.

very funny guy ...pastor ke ...so even as u hear pastor ur sense no remove that mumu bottom for ur mind to go us and look for a woman that wants u ...so u want make u and pastor dey share ur kpekus abi ..May God help u

Toolegit123:
Good day everyone.

So recently I've been thinking about marriage. Tho I'm in a relationship but the woman I've been dating doesn't really seem to have the same serious interest and intentions like me. I've talked to her severally but it seems she isn't ready to settle down yet. Imagine this is someone whom I've gone to see her people and they know me well. My own people know her too. I've equally talked to her mom since she's the one parent she has . And had also talked to her best friend about it too.

But one thing I've noticed about her is that she's over religious and seems to be too close to her pastor. The last time I talked to her about the marriage stuff,she directed me to go and talk to her pastor. Tho I was initially furious about it but I just had to man up,kill my pride and decided to pay her pastor a visit.

From the conversation I had with her pastor,it seems he's one of the major stumbling blocks. Because he was only curious about my financial status he was even asking me what was my source of livelihood,and of which I told him. Afterwards,he then asked me what was my monthly salary. Saying if I'm sure I can take care of my fiancee with that amount,or if I'm planning to have a side hustle. That he doesn't want a case where any of her spiritual daughter will go into a marriage where she'll be suffering. I told her categorically clear that I'm not a lazy man and I don't intend to put anyone's daughter into suffering in the name of marriage.

It's been over a week since I left the pastor's office, and since then,my fiancee has been behaving so cold towards me.

So I don't know whether to continue with my proposal or I should just kindly look for another lady to marry.

Yes he is a man if he has a responsible mother ...is the same as listening to ur father but people who don't have respect for their parents will see it as weakness

HeatSeeker:
Mummy's boy 😒

A man that does only what his mother tells him to do. That wan na man?!

The people prosecuting him would have already been in the gallows long ago if we are in a working country so he is not an idiot but people like u who thinks otherwise are ...cos those prosecuting him has done worse and have no single right to prosecute him while shielding their own friends ...like Jesus said let him that has not sinned cast the first stone

Kingosytex:
This idiot would be in the gallows if we were in a working country like China but here he is being celebrated by some. The truth here is that; even those who are prosecuting him aren't saints either, they are all entangled in same web of greed and looting.

Deji is the number one person working for tinubu ,followed by sowore and others ...we know them ...always making predictions tommoworw now they will give media spokesman like bwala and he will tell u it is all politics ...shameless lots ..who should never have a voice in this country

A christian Igbo president ....a very mumulistic statements ...because last I checked ...a Muslim president or presidents have been overseeing the raping and killing of northerners so an agbadorian like u saying a northerner hate a christian is mumulity and iberiberisim of the highest order because u are simply trying to create religious and tribalistic sentiments which do not exist cos a northerner don't hate a Christian ,never ..only agbadorian zombies and their online slave bandits who support their stealing of Nigerian resources and borrowing and looting do ...

McLizbae:
The SE politicians must unite in agreement that alignment with Tinubu is a promising pathway to future presidency.

What is simple and clear is: Tinubu currently has strong political control and followership in the SW and SS. SE presidency's alignment with Tinubu now, clearly promise entire southern support. Furthermore, the loyal support for an Igbo presidency can be more guaranteed in the entire south, because the southern region shares more than just the region. There are also fair share of culture, religion, ethnicity (especially through inter-marriages and inter-migration).

For the northern regions, even Tinubu is still struggling right now for sufficient and sustainable control. Personally, I think it will take a lot (much more than simple politics) to convince a core Northerner to cast his vote for a Christian Igbo president.

A full southern support may only require less work from the Northern regions, to achieve Igbo presidency.



Thats not nonsense talk if SE is still seriously interested in the presidency.

We associate with criminals now because it is not only u that know criminality but the difference is u an average agbadorian is a hungry rag tag brainless online bandits who has no other reasoning apart from his tribalistic or religious chains

Richtaiwo:
Wait, is this not the same Abubakar Malami who is currently facing prosecution over allegations of embezzling hundreds of billions? I thought Peter Obi doesn't associate with criminals. So Malami is his political associate?

If anyone is in doubt if this man is truly a neatly packaged fraud, this should remove those doubts.

The guy should concentrate on freedom fighting and leave politics alone ...he is a kid in politics even vdm will get more votes than sowore in an election ...politics is not fresok fighting ... And he can never win anything as a freedom fighter unless he joins politics

In reality bandits are more serious and better people than the average Nigerian ...because bandits demands for their own share of their countries loots from the crooks while tye average Nigerian like hell nus and his crew prefer 30k to be an online bandits ...so I support them the crooks should pay them because it is their money

Ok for criminals and their headless 30 k suffering and smiling agbadorian online bandits and not Nigerians...so be guided

Freshtruth:
This desperate man will never be president we will not allow him to contest



Atiku can contest not him



Tinubu or Atiku is ok for Nigerians

No one is arguing about rights but mental religious slavery ...despite Nigeria being overly religious ...they are still the most evil and corrupt individuals on planet earth a good example that religion in Nigeria is a sham and has contributed nothing meaningful to the progress of the country

CodeTemplarr:
Good if by his personal money.


1. The dead don't grow or shrink. They already dead.
2. They were conquered and you in all your education, still remain conquered as evident by your posts.
3. He didnt kill or harm anyone. He has right to touch that stone one trillion times.

Biggest lies of the century ..a lot of people definately benefit from wars ....ur stsensts shows u don't understand wars ...u only think of victory and defeat

Stephen0mozzy:
If you're salivating about the current war, you have no idea how the war can mess up the world you're living in right now.

Nobody wins in war.

A country built in Fraud and continues to do so ...how is an exam question in the same sheet with answer ...if not fraud

Russia ,libya ,Algeria ,Angola ...because u guys are quick to point hands where una no reach ...or u think u are the only major African oil exporter

EKONGKING:
Which part ,is it saudi ,Iran , Kuwait or Qatar .

No it is not society or church it is the fact u are a weak man and don't know ur worth ....if a woman don't show u enough respect ..divorce her ,dont make any woman special unless she is special and special women respect ,cherish and treat their hubby as kings, if she don't treat u so and u let her be then u are a terrible man that deserve what u get or maybe u have a very terrible character that doesn't demand or deserve respect or maybe u don't know ur worth and a simp ..society doesn't change nothing and no church has power to direct your home .the sole power lies with u as a man...know ur worth and protect it ...not even having children prevents u from sending a disrespectful spouse parking and getting someone else ..don't let anybody tell u all men or women are the ..the biggest lie of the century

Pukkalolo:
As a Man, You can pay her bride price with blood, sweat… You can slave 12-hour days, six days a week working to provide for her, to fund the house bills, the kids' school fees and feeding, take care of her expenses, send money to her family back home….

You can literally stand in front of a truck to save her life, die for her without a second thought…

Regardless of that… She'd still raise her voice at you in your own house. Still roll her eyes when you open your mouth, as if your words are already beneath her notice.
Still talk back to you with that sharp, cutting tone she’d never dare use on her boss, her pastor, or the gym instructor who barks orders at her. Still dismiss your opinion mid-sentence, like it’s background noise, like you’re her annoying younger brother instead of the man who carries the roof over her head.

And worse…sometimes even straight-up punish you by locking her legs and denying you sex for days, weeks or months, just to prove a point.


Meanwhile, the same woman walks into her boss's office, softens her tone, nods quickly, says "Yes sir" without hesitation, stays late if asked, absorbs criticism from her Boss calmly.


The same woman sits in church, hangs on every word her pastor drops, kneels down for him to lay his hands on her, calls him "My Daddy in the Lord," never dares interrupt or question his authority.

The same woman shows up to the gym, lets the instructor bark orders, correct her by sexually touching her hips, ass, thighs, laps… and she obeys, sweats, smiles through the pain, says "Thank you sir" after.

Why?

Why does she highly respect her Boss, Pastor and gym instructors but disrespect you her husband/ loyal boyfriend?

Because her Boss, Pastor and gym instructors occupy frames of unapologetic dominance, consequence, and zero emotional neediness…

Her boss doesn't need her approval to exist. He doesn't plead for her respect. He demand it with consequences baked in: miss a deadline and the salary vanishes… He can fire her tomorrow. Demote her. His world doesn't collapse if she walks away angry. So he gives orders, expects compliance. She feels his dominance. That dominance triggers respect, and subconscious attraction in her.

Her pastor doesn’t need emotional support from her. No “honey, do you think I should bla bla bla?”. He doesn't need her approval… He stands on a pulpit and speaks with confidence, as if he and God just ate breakfast that morning.

Her gym instructor… Same thing. He pushes her limits, doesn't care if she likes him… he cares if she progresses. He punishes laziness with more reps, more pain. No negotiation. No "please babe, can you bla bla bla?" He literally just gives raw directive energy.

Lions roar and the pride moves. Sheep bleat and hope someone listens. Most husbands bleat. Most husbands are Sheeps.

Here's the bitter truth…

The moment you become her "husband," is the moment you lose the very polarity that made her wet for you in the first place.

Why?

Because society, church, media, aunties tell you "husband" means:

- Provider first, leader second (or never).

- Soften your masculinity to "keep peace."

- Avoid conflict at all costs ("happy wife, happy life".

- Seek her agreement before making any decisions.

- Apologize even when you're right.



This is how a husband becomes predictable, needy for her sex, her “yes.” You trade being a demanding lion for being her accommodating sheep… and then act surprised when the jungle laws still apply.

Remember, lions sit at the top of the food chain. So lions get the best food. That’s exactly why her pastor, her boss, and her gym instructor get her best behavior: submissive, eager-to-please version of her… the soft voice, the quick “Yes sir,” the bowed head, the extra effort…



Look, Men…

Women are wired (evolutionarily, psychologically, call it what you want) to feel a raw attraction toward men who demand… not beg, not negotiate, not explain themselves...

Demanding men create tension. Tension creates heat. Heat creates sexual attraction or submission.


Boss demands output… she delivers or loses income. That create tension and heat. So she works hard to please her Boss.


You: the husband or the loyal boyfriend , demand nothing real from her.
Or when you do, it sounds weak like this:
“Please don’t talk to me like that…”

No consequence. No grounded dominance.

So she frustrate you,. She pushes. She argues. She gives you attitude.

Not because she’s evil. Not because she’s a bad wife. But because something primal in her is whispering:
“Why does this man feel so weak?” or “Did I marry a man… or a boy who needs my approval to function?”

And every time you fold, over-explain, bribe with gifts, or avoid confrontation to “keep the peace,” you don’t create peace.
You confirm your own weakness.

And female attraction doesn’t attach to weakness. It slowly detaches from it. Then she starts cheating on you.

Be wise, brothers...

Stay blessed

Ur wife denying u sex and u still leave with her makes u a very weak man or an equivalent of a woman ...if u like sex so much ...if she is not interested in sex with u divorce her so she can continue her oloshoic business fully while u get urself another woman asap .. stop simping around and saying u hate adultery util she gives u aids

Fuckallmods:
Imagine!
My wife has staphylococcus but still denies me sex??

Oh I was good man! I admit today. But good men are foolish when it comes to being good to women.

We’ve been married for roughly 11 months now, you know the kind of Christian marriage where you don’t test your products’ output before purchase.
Before marriage, we did the important medical tests like hiv, genotype, blood group, etc.

One thing I observed about my wife is I always have to initiate sex; but 7 of 10 times she denies me sex, before and after marriage. We’ve been together for 3+ years now.

Recently I observed skin breaking in her vaginal area while we were bathing together, so I asked her to do an std/uti test. She did the test and result came out with staph positive.

I was really pissed, because I don’t sleep around. Her response was that she got it from public toilet… I didn’t even argue. At this point I was just thinking of myself.

I did mine, (swab, urine and blood ) and it came out negative.

All these happened while she was denying me sex as her husband, all because I was being good to her and giving her every attention she needs.

It turns out women don’t value men that are good to them, or who plays and offer them attention. This is so because I’m focusing on my friends and giving them more attention than her now, and I’m noticing changes.

Currently I’m not drawn to her emotionally anymore, not because she has uti, but because she will deny me sex for no reason… and she know how much I fear adultery
She’s my wife, when sex comes I take it. If it doesn’t, I have my friends to chill with.
Even if I cheat now, I won’t feel remorse
Even if I impregnate another woman outside now, I won’t feel guilty.

I want her family to perceive me as a bad person now… maybe this is the kind of man I am, maybe this is the kind of man their daughter has forced me to become… but I won’t be a slave to any woman because of sex.

I know y’all must be asking why I’m sharing this information now… I’m sharing because before marriage, I expected unlimited intimacy, I expected love. And just like some of you reading this my post, you’ll be feeing the-same, maybe yours will be different from mine.

Women always want to control situations… she expected a man she could control with sex, not knowing there’s unlimited sex out there, even before I decided to get married. I was the fool, I was the good man, and just like everybody else, you will regret why you’re good to women.

Mattswaggz:
So he was tapping the call truly......Damn this government is too exposed if one individual can be tapping NSA call easily.

no u will be too dumb to believe a politically motivated icpc that ajs failed to jail any criminal politician apart form the political opposition of sitting governments

Any Nigerian should take their suffering in good faith and accept the reality that bandits are now the new sheriff's in town ...so avoiding bandits territory is the wise thing to do ..no one will save u ,if u are kidnapped u are doomed ...the country is a self centered country who don't care and deserve what is happening to them ....more deaths and kidnapping will continue because they oloshis at the top are here for their enjoyment and Nigerians are too busy with religion and tribalisim and selfishness to care