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Family / Re: Fantasising In My Marriage. by Odani: 8:37pm On Nov 02, 2021
Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.



When dem say make una de nack b4 comitting to marriage una go de do holier than thou now look where u r
Travel / Re: This is not Dubai, this is kano state (photos) by Odani: 7:51pm On Mar 21, 2021
ContentedK:
OP it's obvious you haven't been outside this country before, how on earth can you compare that rubbish with Dubai. Please stop insulting that great place with this rubbish pics.



And d mumu even over photoahoped d pictures
Celebrities / Re: The Interior Of Don Jazzy's New House In Lekki (Video, Photos) by Odani: 10:37pm On Feb 27, 2021
Zzor:
Agbaya,his mates are showing off their cute kids and family.


Sebi if person insult u now u go run call OP smiley
Politics / Re: President Buhari Meets New Service Chiefs For The First Time by Odani: 1:15pm On Jan 28, 2021
yahmohy27:

Are you sure?

Google him his names is admiral Usman jibrin
Politics / Re: President Buhari Meets New Service Chiefs For The First Time by Odani: 8:40pm On Jan 27, 2021
Gisborne6:
why is navy cheif short like the previous one

Even d one before d last one was short too grin grin
Politics / Re: Umahi Completes Ebonyi International Mall (Photos) by Odani: 7:50pm On Jan 26, 2021
Wow it's a beautiful structure. But wait o y igbo like colour colour like this.
Properties / Re: 31-Year-Old Landlady: 'I Built This House With My Money, Not With My Body' by Odani: 11:29am On Jan 23, 2021
Aunty but u r pregnant without a ring. Pls just tell us to congratulate u and we will be happy for u.
Celebrities / Re: Nkechi Blessing Sunday Acts In Igbo, Yoruba And English Movies by Odani: 11:26am On Jan 23, 2021
This one say she was born 1989 if I tear u slap
Family / Re: Man Tries To Eject Wife From Her Own House For Rejecting To Live With Co-Wife by Odani: 5:37pm On Jan 18, 2021
neonly:
D woman should just sell d house and divorce the man and come and meet us here in eruop otherwise na d man go kill am

Am telling u d lady has to be careful cos d man can plan her kidnap and eventually get her killed
Celebrities / Re: Top 10 Most Followed Nigerian Musicians On Instagram by Odani: 5:13pm On Jan 18, 2021
illicit:
Airforceone no dey


Andyblaze sef no join


Na wa shocked


this list is somehow


Hahaha do yemi alade and tiwa both have more followers than burna boy and wizkid�����
There are just somethings u cant shove down pipo's throats
Celebrities / Re: Top 10 Most Followed Nigerian Musicians On Instagram by Odani: 5:00pm On Jan 18, 2021
Stfujio:
This life no balance, when talented artistes like @iamdbull no get up to 2000 followers


Wats ur definition of talent? Remember this is music and entertainment and wat I enjoy shudnt be determined by anybody but wat appeals to my personal self. Wat genre or rhythm of song people enjoy is not cast on stone. Let pipo enjoy wat appeals. But I personally believe d numbers speak for themselves at d end of d day
Education / Re: Reps Oppose School Resumption, Propose Three-Month Postponement by Odani: 1:16pm On Jan 17, 2021
adenigga:
9
https://m.punchng.com/Featured/Reps-oppose-school-resumption-propose-three-month-postponement

These our reps are evil. So they can put a stop to school resumption cos of covid but can push for citizens to go and expose themselves at NIMC center for registration without regards to d risk involved abi, and its cos of d money being generated. Na thunder go fire all of them

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Romance / Re: Top 10 Nollywood Actresses With Highest Followers On Instagram. by Odani: 12:12am On Jan 17, 2021
Enudapan:
Nah eh! No qualms
Some bought there own followers
But no qualms
It's part of the hustle


But people like Genevieve, funke and Rita merit there own
Buh I no sure for others especially, that mercy Aigbe

Get ur facts right. Mercy paige us very engaged on Instagram and she does a lot of giveaways which attracts followers to her page
Family / Re: I Found This Pseudoscorpion Dead at the Corner Of My Bed. Jesus Is Lord by Odani: 3:34pm On Jan 09, 2021
JidennaJason:
What has Christ got to do with this teenage scorpion who lost his/her way to your room?


U will not understand. Let's just thank God for him
Politics / Re: Tinubu Is Ill & In Paris Hospital - Femi Fani-Kayode by Odani: 6:31pm On Jan 05, 2021
Marine54:


https://mobile.twitter.com/realFFK/status/1345819324859240450

Apostle Suleiman said there will be no cabal by 2023. I pray BAT gets healed in jesus name.
This weapon shall not prosper
Celebrities / Re: Chike Searches For Lady He Met During Performance (Video) by Odani: 12:29am On Dec 31, 2020
Kzinne:
This Chike sef doesn't have taste. Look at the chic he's dying for


Una don start abi
Career / Re: A Month After I Was Sacked, I Was Mistakenly Credited With ₦40,000 by Odani: 12:08am On Dec 31, 2020
gamegear:
But why use an account that you know is on negative balance as your salary account for the company in the first place?.

I smell what is not true (lies)


I dnt think theres anything fishy here. In order to qualify dor another loan he has to keep dat account funded at all time and the beat is to use it as a salary acc dats wat genuine pipo use to access loans
Foreign Affairs / Re: Trump Ends Obama’s 12-year Run As ‘most-admired Man In America. by Odani: 9:20pm On Dec 29, 2020
LoyalHustler1:
You know it's kind of funny how the most admired man in America with a huge % will lose an election to a man in America with just 6%.

I think right now it's now becoming clearer.

The truth will come out, you guys should watch out.

Biden will never become president of America.

Watch what is about to happen In America.

DONALD trump will rule for a second term.

by the order of Ishawuru.


Oga dnt be reasoning from ur *as. Wat is d percentage of person dat took this survey? Even those that took it gaan, some of them casted their votes to their personal relatives. If 90% of trump supporters took d survey as against 10% of dat of Joe Biden wat do u think the result will be?

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Politics / Re: Governor Wike Links Opobo Kingdom By Road, After 150 Years by Odani: 10:18am On Dec 29, 2020
Xucxex1997:
Na only by air or by boat people dey use go there before?
Fantabolous


Only by boat
Business / Re: How Were You Able To Start & Grow Your Business To Profitability? by Odani: 3:11pm On Dec 22, 2020
ehinmowo:


Sorry jawe! I was carried away ni. Yes. And I am throwing myself into it 100%.


U r still not answering the question. It's good to have faith and all but the question he asked is wat alternative source of income have u planned for while u kick off d business. Remember the business cant feed u and pay ur bills until it starts making profit

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Celebrities / Re: White Man Seen Working As Bus Conductor In Lagos State by Odani: 4:24pm On Dec 08, 2020
Ekundayo7574:
A lot is often said about Lagos State and how much of a diverse place it is, some often refer to Lagos state as home of the wise and the smart. One common thing which you will find in Lagos State are Yellow buses, recently a video surfaced of a White man working as bus conductor, for a Yellow bus in Lagos.
Despite the Bus Rapid Transit System (BRT) in Lagos state yellow buses still hold their prominence across Lagos sate as they can be found in various corners and various spots in the state.

In the video, the white man can be heard speaking loudly in Yoruba language, “I cant shout” (multiple times) as he called on people who would like to be transported to Oshodi area of Lagos State.
Watch: https://www.instagram.com/p/CIdlwMmnN4d/

Many individuals reacted to the video, read their reactions below.
Lagos State is one of the most populous states in Africa and it also serves as a commercial Hub and pillar in Nigeria.




Man he is not a bus conductor. He is a comedian coached by broda shaggi
Celebrities / Re: Lilian Afegbai Buys Birkin Bag Worth $22K & Encourages Her Followers by Odani: 12:06am On Dec 01, 2020
nrexzy:
Good for her....
But no vex oo
How dis one take be news??

Na news for some pipo.
Uncle just open thread wey interest u and not ask yeye questions.
Romance / Re: First Date And She Refused To Come To A Cool Place I Suggested by Odani: 9:08am On Nov 24, 2020
On a first date u r already imposing on her then wat will happen if u eventually marry
Celebrities / Re: Temmie Ovwasa Ybnl Princess' New Look - Pictures by Odani: 5:16pm On Nov 15, 2020
tehilah92:
Wetin she sing?

cheesy abeg ask me o
Politics / Re: Saudi King-Merkel Handshake: Northern Social Media Users Attack BBC by Odani: 1:52pm On Nov 11, 2020
Racoon:

http://saharareporters.com/2020/11/10/social-media-users-northern-nigeria-attack-bbc-publishing-photo-saudi-king-shaking-hands


Your holiest man de shake hand with woman and u de cry. I dont get is it ok to shake in private? Abi is d law for d poor only?

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Politics / Re: EndSARS Riots: Sanwo-Olu In TVC, Consoles Management And Staff by Odani: 9:49pm On Oct 29, 2020
vanbonattel:
Someone was instructed to break up the protest and get compensated. That person brought unknown soldier and dispersed the protest, then burnt a lot of infrastructure down, his own investment was also destroyed to make it seem he was a victim.

I didn't mention names o. grin

This ur theory no follow abeg shift
Celebrities / Re: Kiddwaya & Erica Raise Alarm Over 'Attacks' On Their Social Media Handles by Odani: 6:05pm On Oct 07, 2020
Davash222:
Mtcheeeeewwwwwwww



Here, we have a fool with his money and a brainless olosho!


Chai poverty is bitter sha

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Health / Re: I Dont Understand This Feeling Please, I've Never Felt This Way Before. by Odani: 7:00am On Oct 03, 2020
OlawaleBammie:
Pls ignore my grammatical blunders, my diction is not that alluring.


I lives and work in one of the South South states, So this last Tuesday I just decided to pay a very needed visit to Lagos, on getting to Lagos I felt good and feeling alright.

But on Wednesday I noticed I was feeling feverish but I did count it worthy cus I don't normally fall sick and even when I do, I don't take drugs or concoction cus am sure it will peter away.

I was wrong tho, this fever had other idea so I had to buy some drugs (malaria, and typhoid wateva wateva) I used it as directed, I felt relieved a little but not totally.

And to the reason I created this thread .....

My right side of my body is feeling well but my left side of the body is not ok. this is what I mean

1)My left eyeball is paining me seriously .

2) My left ear(tru to the inside) is paining me

3)My teeth are not excluded, the molar, premolar, and the canine are paining me seriously but the right side of my teeth are good.

4) My left nostril , I have catarrh in my left nostril and this mucus coming out from there smells, maybe offensively but I know it smells, thick and yellowish in colour.

Pls doctors in the house what could cus this, who have experienced this before??

Because me am afraid oo.



Since u mentioned that u r never sick it means u hardly visit d hospital for check up,
Am also not a doctor but this symptom is not peculiar to u. It cud be dat u r hypertensive and dont know it and if not immediately treated it cud lead to partial stroke. U r lucky its giving u signs some pipo just collapse without symptoms. Pls rush to d hospital and get tested.
Politics / Re: Lagos Approves 33% Increase In Pension For State Pensioners by Odani: 9:00am On Sep 10, 2020
TV/Movies / Re: Erica To Laycon: Stop Acting Like I Have Done Something Evil To You by Odani: 1:08pm On Aug 19, 2020
Icechillz:
Stupid show for jobless youths

U that is employed why did u open d thread
Travel / Re: Abike Dabiri-Erewa: Chinese Don’t Want Africans In China by Odani: 6:15am On May 12, 2020
Enoch07:
if they don't want you in their country, pls don't go there.

I just tire o

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