Dpharisee:
Anything you do for a woman just don't expect her to reciprocate or be always there for you.
As a boyfriend I bought a car for my then girlfriend who later became my wife with all my savings just for her to be happy and fulfilled, I made sure I filled her tank always without bordering where she drove to.

Years later after getting married to her my economy suffered a downturn while she got promotion in her work place and a big salary package.
She bought a new big car while I am still managing my old car.
Anytime I ask her for keys to her car to go out or go see a potential client whom I needed to display a little affluent packaging because of my line of work, she will remind me how I am a car spoiler, how I plan to use it to go pick up a girlfriend, how her car will be in danger of being snatched, how my eyes is always on her car, how I don't buy fuel for her, how I overspeed, how the last time I drove her car she spent N1m at the autoshop to fix things even though its a lie, how she dreamt where the devil was following me when I was driving her car, hian!🤧🤧
This was someone I spent my last money to buy her first car as a bachelor even when I tried to force her to do my bidding she reported me to relatives.

When I met our relatives virtually every one of them will tell me "abeg leave am na woman, in marriage you have to tolerate, since she doesn't want you to use her car just let her be, na so God take woman"
I realised that as a man you are alone in marriage.


Joking ke?
If many married men tell you what they are silently passing through and the betrayals they have had to endure from their wives at various times you go fear to get married, but in order not to discourage younger people from the marriage institution we just endure and move on which is actually not easy as it takes emotional toll on many men.

sir we are discouraged already, the women of now sef are worse. We are happy without women in our life sadly

Chibuezem:
I see you only offer insults and jokes to a rational discussion in a bit to cover your ignorance and callousness.
It's only a matter of time you will realized that nigerians are slaves to the political elite who's earnest desire is for the elimination of the middle class.

a coward will run away many times enjoy your journey to obodo oyinbo packaged modernised slavery lol

BOSSkesh:
The obedient people I hail ohhh

mugu na everything be politics? Prof agbado welldone

Rubyjade:
No protest will happen because Nigerians are cowards.

it will happen even a coward lives to fight another day.

Bendeco2020:
If you check well, this was posted by a Yoruba man

These people dey fear Igbo like madt

mugu what did yoruba people do to you? Mind you i am not even Nigerian.

koondog:
Ibibios, please do not fall for this. The people from the West have started their divide and conquer again sensing the strong bond between SE and SS now. Most of the posters here using popular Ibiobio words like Ayaya unnecessarily and Google translate are impostors from the west, in their typical divide and rule fashion.

These people from the West do not understand how related Igbos and Ibibios are, they don't even know Abiriba people are more related to Ibibios than Igbos. They don't know they are native Igbo/Ika living in Akwa Ibom. They don't even know Aba and Ikot Ekpene are border towns with people living across for hundreds of years and speaking each other languages.

Understand these appointments were made by Akpabio himself after he took office as senate president. This has nothing to do with Igbos but Akpabio. Same way GEJ and Obasanjo for whatever reasons, felt comfortable surrounding themselves with Igbos, than their own people.

Ibibios, keep in mind SE senate president candidates like Orji Uzor Kalu, Umahi and Ifeanyi Ubah later step down to support Akpabio as their brother and inlaw. They did this because of the bond between SE and SS, like they supported GEJ.

As stated already Akpabio made these appointments himself in June 2023 below few days after he was elected. If Ibibios want these positions, please go to Akpabio and ask him to change all of them to Ibibios, Igbos don't care, has nothing to do with Igbos. Don't allow people from the West to cause unnecessary division between you and Igbos. This is a none issue but Akpabio decisions.


Akpabio appoints Aides June 2023. One of the appointments has Igbo name but actually from Akwa Ibom. The Deputy Chief of Staff, Saviour Enyiekere(PhD) hails from Ika Local Government Area of Akwa Ibom State.
https://www.nairaland.com/7742801/akpabio-makes-first-appointment-names

mugu you will always blame the west for your woes, cry a river, you are the real division as if you even love the akwa ibom people

Lalami3232:
Congratulations to you and the community. The effect of tech can't be over emphasized in the community. I always advise old and young to switch to tech because it's the new oil in Africa.

Before I drop my phone, I wish to preach the good news to all men worldwide.
Oga if you no meet your wife as a virgin, oga go for DNA test oooooo because boreholes aka non-virgins can't be trusted

are you a cannibal? Do you eat the hymen of virgins?

Why do naija women worship materialism too much? Other African women are just so different from them. No wonder naija guys in SA hardly marry naija women.

obiekunie01:
Aisha mba kwaoo!!!

we must teach igbos a good lessonoo!

in fact! igbos are already learning a serious lesson!

in fact, even in the market, foods are sold very expensive to the igbos while other tribes are getting it very cheap!

same thing with fuel, electricity - they are sold very expensive to the igbos!!

WE MUST TEACH IGBOS AND PETER OBI A VERY BITTER LESSON!

can you guys stop this rubbish, who did your igbo elites vote for? The ones you worship, keep on deceiving yourself when its inec and EU who put tinubu there. A clown like you left mazi nnamdi kanu to support a fraud like obi who kanu does not like. Make una continue to fool unaselves no be dis naija all of us dey 😂

Chibuezem:

Lol I don dey expose you small small
Na better werey you be, A fool that does not believe in God, always blaming the whites for your problems meanwhile you refused to remove the log in your eyes.
Claiming that Christianity is a white man religion that has enslaved us. Keep on racking up delusions. FYI you are nothing more than a mumbling pained Nigerian tribalistic who believes in backwardness, suffering with a blot of entitlement mentality.


God bless you in your foolishness.

sharap your jehovah and co no be white man for your mind ewu continue in your delusions as if your father's or mother's village is in the bible lol 😂 see slave calling me fool, you wey be mugu dey follow religion wey no concern you. Africant like you dey go your saviour land go wash plate, okpo pikin and amumpama

JoeEeL:


Haha, na mistake. But u get d point, don't u?

yes o 😁

hotwax:


You must be a foreigner.

Top Military guys are well rewarded. They have oil well.

They won’t to distabize the country

did we ever imagine Nigerians who loved life so much will start committing suicide? E go shock you, who are the real military, you think its the senior officers? We are getting there just tell your slave master tilumbu to keep naija hot we will get there soon!!!

Chibuezem:
Calling me a coward would not mask your ignorance bro,In abroad everyone is given the basic social amenities but here you must have a connection to the elite before you benefit from your civil rights. Like I said make Nigeria no jam you.
Happy Sunday, make sure you go to church and ask God to forgive you for the stupidity you displayed this morning.

May God have mercy on you.

e no go better for you and that useless pastor, Jesus and your oppresor god jehovah, ewu i dey educate you make you get sense. Keep on romancing your oppresors. Abroad wey be say na dere African problems start from. Who are your elites? Are they aliens from mars? You are just a double coward. If the oyinbo masses didn't tackle their government will it be okay for you to travel? Nkapi and oluku!!!

EponObi:


Idiot. I'll feed your you and your family.

Trolling Epon Obi is what I do for fun. Don't play.

eru amoda onikure even seyi tilumbu will give you crumbs to feed your wretched family, ashiere!!!

Loverboi2cute:



Abeg make eem load faster on
motivate boys to fall out to d streets

yes o we are ready!!!

EponObi:


That's the purpose of restructuring. States that abuse their power will wither away.

which kind name you get? Naso you hate obi reach 30k Apc elebi!!!

benuejosh:

Those that will do the worst with rigging elections will be PDP controlled state. PDP did the worst with rigging under President Obasanjo during the time Prof Maurice Iwu was the chairman of INEC. I don't know if you were old enough to understand those times, but if not, election rigging is always a part of the PDP and NEVER has APC rigged elections. Creation of State police is what you people have been crying for since the days of President Jonathan now that President Tinubu wants to grant you your heart desires, you still want to bring up another useless statement. APC had never rigged elections and will NEVER use the police to do that.

stocholm syndrome 😭 you guys will defend even satan, Apc or what did you call them? Whats the difference between them and pdp? Chai in naija we just have so much evil people than Good. Only revolution will wash people like you away for good!!!

JoeEeL:
I don't like Tinubu o. In fact, I don't like One-Nigeria as a construct.

I like the tribes and the indigenes respectively, but the composition of all these to form one giant country created by an european terrorist is just a worry to me.

That said, if Tinubu can fully pursue state police and find ways to influence the Senate, that's a step in the right direction. That's the beginning of devolution of power.

This new CP of a guy named Lagbaja is a Yoruba man. If there is unrest in the South East, a Yoruba man will now go there and bring in forces and you know na, some South East indigenes may be killed or arrested. Before u know it, it may look like victimisation. If Nigerian police forces were very professional, maybe it would have even been better. All these make me cringe.

Just like if a white police officer roughhandles a black man. As blacks, we have this feeling that we are being victimised even though the white police officer may truly be professional. But in this nigeria, our case is even better than blacks and whites of countries like U.S.A etc. because we are indigenous by nature. We have our ancestral lands.

So let everyone face their own lane. Let Ijaw police officer police ijaw community. Let Berom do the same. Same goes for Igede, Urhobo, Ejagham, TIV, Baruba, Bini, Igbo, hausa, beri, Kamuku, Zabarma, Bussawa, and of course, the gallant Yoruba nation.

lagbaja police oga? Which igbo you dey smoke? Person wey be Army 🪖 oga!!!

Carlylepneuma:
Where is David hundeyin he should act very fast... He d bastard face no conscience at all... If i talk region that are known for acts like dis both home and abroad them begin they spew trash. See d nose sha and do d math.

until it happens to someone in your family, don't you guys get tired of this rubbish. Oh i forgot some of you were paid to cause disunity on all nigerian platforms.

vickydevoka:
If woman mean to destroy u. She go do anything

mugun until it happens to your sister!!!

Chibuezem:
. Them never kidnap you for this country na why you get mouth they speak grammar, I pray you don't experience Nigeria. The Kanye you are worshipping, singing his songs has never for once gone to search for his African roots, he's there dating white and being controlled by the West.

A bag of cement is 15k...... Nigeria is doing well.

abeg shut it, coward, so abroad na heaven, people no dey miss for there abi? Make una dey run all around the world like headless chickens. When you reach the abroad your mind go touch down abi!

toujurs:
that guy is a fool, an oshogbo under bridge native doctor. Claiming to be a medical doctor. He opened an account as a female, and later changed it to a male. Some people are just mentally sick, and they don't know.

you can imagine lol a very sick dude no wonder.

Chibuezem:
Slavery is not a choice when your slave masters have power over you.... Why would I travel out of my country to start life from scratch if my country is good.

For those who have the fund to japa, pls do the needful as for those who don't shut up your mouth and face the heat in the country.

you have stocholm syndrome na una type kanye dey refer to! Just imagine keep on worshipping your oppresors.

Ekakamba:
It's thier policy! You sign up or let it go.

slave mentality no wonder your president is tinubu

Naija president resign if wishes were horses. We need a revolution there's no way we can escape it. We are being ruled by gangsters.

My igbo women what's going on now? This is too much!!! What could be the issue? Igbo women the most pampered women in naija should be the nicest now

unclothedness lol Africans focusing on irrelevant things. When are we going to fight our leaders for accountability? Werin concern us with your fake morality