BlindAngel: Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.
Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.
So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.
To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.
So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.
I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.
Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.
Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.
I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.
I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.
you tried, but you for say ok and walk away. No be until then see goat before them go kill chop? Africa is a menace to the world all this nonsense don't happen over sea
Ubongkuda1: Imagine black men complaining of racism. The lowest IQ people. No wonder we're the lowest IQ people and poorest race. In our state you can't even allow one tribe to become a governor cuz he's from a particular tribe. Same with federal government. I wish God could wipe out the black people. They don't contribute anything to the world except problems, hate, tribalism, wickedness, black magic and troubles. I know if table was turned the black would kill white people like chickens cuz of their skin color. Imagine even in UK, USA etc blacks are running away from their fellow black. They even prefer white people 😂
it baffles me if blacks talk about racism when we are more even brutally more racist than the whites, if na you you no go run from fellow black in the UK? Nobody enter UK on vacation o na trouble make am enter o so bro run from trouble asap.
Donald Trump simply had a clean sweep of the election including a capturing swing states with ease. The American electorates are not sway by sentiments or parochial interests but by nationalism. America first!
Every living souls with a conscience knows that the 2023 presidential election was one of the monumental electoral heist ever committed on earth.
Kobojunkie: So, Obasanjo who in fact implemented and sustained the very IMF/WorldBank reforms for at least 4 years, with several gains which he continues to boast of as proof, was a dullard?
Tinubu, like IBB before him, did not implement IMF suggestions. Instead, Tinubu scammed Nigerians into believing the suffering that resulted from his incompetence and severe looting of the Nigerian coffers, is to be blamed on the IMF and World Bank; this is the same tactic IBB used to keep blind millions of Nigerians all while he comfortably stole 10s of billions of dollars of their future away. How often will you allow this same scam to be reloaded against you and your generation by this band of criminals/kakistocrats?
this man has been a fool all along just imagine how they played him, how will he allow outsiders to dictated to him how to run his home. Now he has wrecked the country.
ThugCheetah: You think of something and then open instagram and see content related to exactly what you’re thinking. I didn’t even say talking cos I know microphones and ai can work that. Just thinking!
have you ever seen a demon before? No! Because they are all in electricity and phone is not an exception.
I stopped taking comments from most Nigerians seriously since the day i realized the average IQ point here is 77
This dude actually thinks "Voting for APC in 2027" has anything to do with being a 'bigot and not being liberal'
Your education is useless if you dont know people would always have a preference and it has nothing to do with being less intelligent or being non-liberal
Okay, Nigerians love suffering and smiling..
No matter the level of evil or corruption being perpetuated by Nigerian politicians\leaders, there will always be a Nigerian supporting them unfortunately, this same Nigerian will be dragging front seat, sandwiched between the driver, another Nigerian in front seat of mini-buses that don't even have space and be loaded like olden days sardine. And you are one of such.
Righteousness2: These guys are out to crumble Nomerica and turn the dollar to bread.
They will succeed at the long run! Nomerica will be judged and brought down, no doubt!
But the main War will be in GOD'S HOLY LAND ISRAEL.
We are waiting for Putin, iran , Turkey and their gog Magog War Collation of nations in ISRAEL .
The Hook of GOD ALMIGHTY is already on their jaw. Its just a Matter of time! HE will drag them down to ISRAEL.
That is where the GOD of ISRAEL will shake the world and show that ISRAEL is HIS CHOSEN NATION.
We are living at the End of the End of days... The bible is playing out Live before us. Live in the Conciousness of your Eternity! The trumpet will sound at anytime. Settle the Matter of your soul with JESUS CHRIST Now!
you will grow old and you great grand children will be shouting end of days just like you today oga
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