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ITbomb: SO you wanna leave her when she needs you most.
You can both sit down and talk out all your fears and insecurity issues with each other.
The way I'm seeing it, you dont discuss with her as a friend , you only talk to her when you want to solve a problem.
Solution: When you are relax , in a playful , romantic mood, first of all make her promise not to be angry for the next 30 mins , then unload ur heart to her , encourage her to do the same to you , laugh about ur shortcomings and propose practical ways of handling issues together .
Eg , you too can agree that if you go with a girl that you should introduce her as ur fiancée ? and once you do that , she should agree not to hold any grudges .
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Trust and Communications bro .
She is a wife material so see her as a project God has given you to work on.

. Tanx. Ur advice is informative. I appreciate u.

freecocoa: If what you wrote here is true then you better run for your life. There's no need for plenty talk as regards the matter.

. Alrite. Tanx 4 ur time.

princess chloe: This is a serious one, as your gf is not only jealous, but violent. It is not advisable to end up with a violent person, as she will be emotion-driven. such people only realise their mistakes after the deed has been done. if you genuinely love and want to settle down with her, i advise you take her for some kind of psychotherapy. Do NOT marry her unless u see the change you desire. All the best!

. Tanx. I realy appreciate u

Its abt a yr relatnshp nw. We luv eachoda so much, and of a truth, she is a wife material except 4 her hot tempered and jealousy. Dia was a day she slapped me just because my guy called me 2 cum and see a lady dat dressed half naked. I was so mad at her. Initialy, i didnt do anythng as millions of taught were going through my mind. I reacted badly by beating her. But since dat day, my interest in her depreciated. She regreted her action and seriously begged me. So we moved on. Shes too jealous dat c doesn't wnt to see me wt oda ladies even afta i might ve introduced her 2 dem as my fiancé. On many occasions, she has attempted to stab me wt knife all in d name of jealousy and hot tempered. I tot abt all dis and i asked her to go b4 its too late. She attemptd succide, bt thanks to friends that were arround dat day. Shes is seriously beggng me nw nt to quit wt her. Bt am scared of marring her. Wat suld i do? Won't any of us be victim if we eventualy end up 2geda? Pls, advise me. Sorry 4 taking ur time.

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Pls advice me. I wnt 2 call it quit wt my gf, bt she refused to go. My relatnshp wt d gl is a yr nw. We ve bn best of friends. Very gud and to be candid, she is a wife material. The problm i ve wt her is her jealousy and hot tempered. There was a day dat She slapped me just because my guy called me to cum and c a lady dat dressed half naked. I was rily mad at her for slappng me and i beat her back. On many occasions she has made attempts 2stab me wt knife all in d name of jealousy. She doesnt want to see any oda girls wt me even if i introduced her 2 them as my fiance. Am tired of dis and i told her to go for gud reasons why we suld not marry. She attempted succide cus i wnted 2break up wt her. Pls, help me. Won't either or me ll be victim if we enventually end u? Does she stl worth 2 be married? [color=#990000][/color]

seek medical personnel(mid wife). Shes in d best position 2help u

Were u not tested 2knw whch one suits ur body best. Get a gud medical personel(mid wife) dat specialises in such area to gv u full information. Family planning is gud, but must be done according to right info. I wish u all d best.

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