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dawnomike:
I really understand your situation and how bitter all these feel.
Firstly, just continue to do the best you can for her irrespective of the way she treated you... Forgive and ignore!

Secondly, I pray God blesses you and may fortune smile at you to wipe away the pains and struggles of the past...

Let her come to PH... Don't worry about the expenses. Reach out to me if you dont mind.

You asked that I reach out to you. I located ur number, called u for a whole day, but you never picked or tried to call back.
I sent a text messages, no replies.
I chatted u on WhatsApp, you didn't reply.
I mentioned you here, this is the 6th time I'm quoting u but you're yet to respond. This is not nice at all Sir. Try to put yourself in my shoe. We are humans. And we should treat each other as humans. People sha.

This is getting really very messy

Nnamdipapa:
I used to dream about leaving Nigeria and staying abroad when I was younger, I hated Nigeria and fantasized about abroad like most people today. abroad was like heaven to me and now, it is a 360-degree turn for me, In fact, there was a day this past January I slept and dreamt about being in Lagos, having fun at a club, I was so happy in that dream and enjoying myself until I heard my name called, I woke up to my daughter calling my name to come drop her off in the school. I woke up to snow and a minus 15 degree Celsius of temperature and I got angry immediately for waking up. That is how bad it is but most people never want to admit it.

So which country are u in now?

ednut1:
Brb

Where u dey go?

Marrying Nigerian ladies of these days can be very risky

ibechris:
The truth is,u have no life...if u support a man who's crippled ur destiny.

Were u not the one begging online with ur second account the other day.

U are a shameless fellow.

Don't mind him and his gangs. No sensible youth will still support Tinubu. Anyone defending him now is a senseless person

Mordson:
I heard that in the post match interview, the coach took another swipe at Lookman.


The coach no send im papa. 🤣🤣🤣😆

He did not. He said he was going to apologize to lookman, but he will not do so publicly. He will do it privately. He said lookman is like a son to him

Who will feed me ?
I'm tired of hustling and seeing nothing.

dawnomike:
This is crazy!!!

Pls Sir, try to react to your calls and WhatsApp messages. Being trying to reach you, but I'm not getting any response. Thanks

Free2Fly:
Who's this goat??
Must you comment even on things you do not understand?

Honestly, I was so shocked to see that comment. I had to keep my cool so I dnt go extreme with my response

Humm

Esthered:
It is well.

I'm just frustrated

Esthered:
Please why did your sister get married to a man without means of income and burdening you.

That's a story for another day. She married against our wish.

4gunners:
I’m an Arsenal, but it’s hard to disagree. Why will a team be so close to winning an important trophy, they capitulate.

I'm a Gooner, but God will punish the entire management of that club including ARTETA

dawnomike:
I really understand your situation and how bitter all these feel.
Firstly, just continue to do the best you can for her irrespective of the way she treated you... Forgive and ignore!

Secondly, I pray God blesses you and may fortune smile at you to wipe away the pains and struggles of the past...

Let her come to PH... Don't worry about the expenses. Reach out to me if you dont mind.

I guess you are Busy?

femi4:
We KTBFFH

Sorry I don't get

femi4:
We are outside....ita lawa!

Common you REDs, over 2.5

The Blues

I can't see Mancity losing this match

sisisioge:
You too like stress fa.

Let her visit o....just lock up while she's here sebi no be your house she go dey. It's is that simple. People too dey over think small matter.

It's really interesting how the human mind work.... over thinking small matter.

Meanwhile,may God bless your family....una need to change una strategy o so you don't keep having the same issues over and over again. It is well.

It's well indeed.
Thanks for your concern

Okortor:
This man's grace is second to none........best streaming online platform. Wow

Happy Sunday brov.
My kids are crying, kitchen is empty. 🙏

Thee church is matching on.
Make persin do Sunday for me make my children fit see something chop abeg

God bless Gov. Eno

Nawa

😂😂😂😂

TRUTH .
So disheartening that the situation of our dear country makes life uncertain. U can be hustling from birth and still not make it till death.
You may be rich and successful in your late 20s, 30s and 40s, but at 50, you lose everything and have to struggle again to get back on your feet. Life is strange.

This one is Akpabios boy, he won't dare stand by Natasha.

Good. Treat them like criminals just like they would to us on their soil

The presidency is already yours Sir

Still without any iota of impact

dawnomike:
I really understand your situation and how bitter all these feel.
Firstly, just continue to do the best you can for her irrespective of the way she treated you... Forgive and ignore!

Secondly, I pray God blesses you and may fortune smile at you to wipe away the pains and struggles of the past...

Let her come to PH... Don't worry about the expenses. Reach out to me if you dont mind.

I quoted u earlier Sir

dawnomike:
I really understand your situation and how bitter all these feel.
Firstly, just continue to do the best you can for her irrespective of the way she treated you... Forgive and ignore!

Secondly, I pray God blesses you and may fortune smile at you to wipe away the pains and struggles of the past...

Let her come to PH... Don't worry about the expenses. Reach out to me if you dont mind.

Thanks for your words of hope and Encouragement. God bless you so much Sir.
Could u pls drop ur email?

Amen to your Prayers Sir 🙏

It took me a lot of guts to come here to write this. I would have chosen to remain perpetually silent on this, but in order to free myself, I am compelled to spill out the matter.
I wish my dad was still alive. He died 22yrs ago when I was just 7yrs. My mum had to remarry after a year of my dad's death. I didn't live with them cos it is an abomination for a male child to live under same roof with his mum in another man's house particularly when they live in the village.
To cut the long story short, I will describe my mum as someone who cares less about her children. She has never supported me financially all my life. From primary, secondary, university till graduation, she never supported. I felt it's because she isn't educated & therefore saw no need to invest in me or any of her children. What she's most concerned about is to extort money from the children. Most times when people talk sweet stuffs about their Mums, I cry inside me. She doesn't feel responsible to her children. I ask God why mine is different. 4/5 of her calls are for monetary reasons even when she knows we are still struggling after sch. No job yet.
I have a younger sister who's already married, we live in same city(port Harcourt). Now, my mum is coming to Port Harcourt to visit my sister. My sister's husband is in the village cos he lost his mum a few days ago. Though He travelled home before the mum died. It was joblessness that made him travel home, he wants to be recruited into the state civil service & he's pursuing it, reason he travelled.
Being the first born, I had expected my mum to first discuss about her plans of coming here with me so we can plan & make necessary arrangements. She only just informed me three days ago that she would be visiting us on Monday(tommorow). I told her that she should postpone the trip for now until later to enable us arrange adequately for her visit, but she's still insisting on coming. She's coming to stay in my kid sister's house who isn't working or doing any business and has two kids. I'm the one who sends my kid sister money for upkeep most of the time since her hubby isn't working and especially now that the husband isn't around.
You are coming to visit people and same people are telling you to hold on for now & u don't want to listen? I'm not even working now thats the worst part. I was mad when she said it was my sister's hubby that gave her transport to come, and that when she will be going back, the guy promised to send another transport fare. This is a young guy who just lost his mum, why should he be the one to give u transport fare? I wasn't happy to hear it. There is hardly a thing she requests for that I don't buy for her. Even if I don't have at the time, I either ask her to borrow funds or I borrow and send to her. When she borrows, I find every means to get and send back to her.
After NYSC, I went back to the village & was thinking of the next step in life. Everyone who promised to accommodate me in cities had reneged on their promises, I was stuck. In the end, I got someone who would accommodate me in port Harcourt. Before leaving, I pleaded with my mum to get me a loan of 20k from their women's cooperative, but she kept giving excuses. I had to go meet my mum's friend who acted as a surety for me so I could secure the loan. My mum had even gone behind to tell her colleagues not to approve the loan. When I heard this, I was so sad. My mum even travelled back to her husband's place & left me stranded. It was same woman who secured the loan for me that prayed for, & wished me well as I embarked on that journey.
After a month, she started requesting for monetary help.
I still remember when I needed 5k to do my clearance so I could submit the clearance form and get mobilized for NYSC. I had tried to raise the money, I had spent all I had on paying off all outstanding debt I owed the sch. My mum had over 15k in her bank account but this woman acted like she had nothing. I was shocked when I checked her phone & saw messages of her transactions. When my kid sister(the one she's visiting now) was just 6 yrs old, and was living with my mum's husband, my mum sent her back to ur grandmother that she(My sister) was causing her problems in her husband's house.
I'm just tired and frustrated with everything