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tpacalipse: The quote " when a man is in love, behold a fool is born"; is as true as hell. But the most painful part of it is that, soon some people here will start demanding for statistics or links.

Am new in here. Kindly make me understand what u meant by statistics and link to the thread I created

Hehehe, we will wait on u till u get an ex bro...

Interesting piece... On point to some length!

How true is this: 'when a guy is in love, a new maga/mugun has just been born'. Please convince me about this before I share my experience in the forum. Good morning everyone!

@tpacalipse: u at liberty to biliv in this or not. Write out ur own version make we see nah. Funny dude!

@mynd_44: if u have found that special lady God has reserved for u, I bet u wil do more than this nah...

@Walexybaba: u are a rich dude o. U have more than enuf for givin such litu out to a stranger. I biliv u even wired it to her thru bank. Before givin out such a huge sum, u sud av requested to see her in person... Even if u gave #1 to her for the wrong reason, she wise u be that cos u never took the time to find out so well abt the cook up story she gave. U must av learnt from this bro...

It’s easy to make your relationships more complicated than they are. Here are twelve simple reminders to help you keep them on course.

1. All successful relationships require some work. – They don’t just happen, or maintain themselves. They exist and thrive when the parties involved take the risk of sharing what it is that’s going on in their minds and hearts. Open communication and honesty is the key.

2. Most of the time you get what you put in. – If you want love, give love. If you want friends, be friendly. If you’d like to feel understood, try being more understanding. It’s a simple practice that works. You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot in someone’s life. – Never force someone to make a space in their life for you, because if they know your worth, they will create one for you.

3. There is a purpose for everyone you meet. – Some people will test you, some will use you, and some will teach you; but most importantly some will bring out the best in you. Learn to see and accept the differences between these people, and carry on accordingly.

4. We all change, and that’s okay. – Our needs change with time. When someone says, “You’ve changed,” it’s not always a bad thing. Sometimes it just means you stopped living your life their way. Don’t apologize for it. Instead, be open and sincere, explain how you feel, and keep doing what you know in your heart is right.

5. You are in full control of your own happiness. – If your relationship with yourself isn’t working, don’t expect your other relationships to be any different. Nobody else in this world can make you happy. It’s something you have to do on your own. And you have to create your own happiness first before you can share it with someone else. If you feel that it’s your partner’s fault, think again, and look within yourself to find out what piece is missing. Your partner can never ‘complete’ you because you are already whole. The longing for completion that you feel inside comes from being out of touch with who you are.

6. Forgiving others helps YOU. – Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer. It doesn’t mean you’re erasing the past, or forgetting what happened. It means you’re letting go of the resentment and pain, and instead choosing to learn from the incident and move on with your life.

7. You can’t change people; they can only change themselves. – Instead of trying to change others, give them your support and lead by example. If there’s a specific behavior someone you love has that you’re hoping disappears over time, it probably won’t. If you really need them to change something, be honest and put all the cards on the table so this person knows what you need them to do.

8. Heated arguments are a waste of time. – The less time you spend arguing with the people who hurt you, the more time you’ll have to love the people who love you. And if you happen to find yourself arguing with someone you love, don’t let your anger get the best of you. Give yourself some time to calm down and then gently discuss the situation.

9. You are better off without some people. – When you have to start compromising yourself and your morals for the people around you, it’s probably time to change the people around you. If someone continuously mistreats you or pushes you in the wrong direction, have enough respect for yourself to walk away from them. It may hurt for a little while, but it’ll be ok. You’ll be ok, and far better off in the long run.

10. Small gestures of kindness go a long way. – Honor your important relationships in some way every chance you get. Every day you have the opportunity to make your relationship sweeter and deeper by making small gestures to show your appreciation and affection. Remember, making one person smile can change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. Your kindness and gratitude matters.

11. Even the best relationships don’t last forever. – People don’t live forever. Appreciate what you have, who loves you and who cares for you. You’ll never know how much they mean to you until the day they are no longer beside you. And remember, just because something doesn’t last forever, doesn’t mean it wasn’t worth your while.


12. Add you own reminder...

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 16. Never tell her how you feel. Men should never talk about mushy stuff, its the preserve of womenfolk...

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 15- Expect other men to be blind and incapable of feeling an attraction for her. When that impossibility happens, throw a mega fit and blame her for it. Say she's been courting and encouraging the attention even if you've been lazy on that tip for at least seven months now..

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 14. When she buys you any gift, tell her to “just drop it on the table…” then remind her aboutt bigger gift ur lady friend got u just the other day...

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 13. Never ask after her family members. Beter still, never ask to speak to her closest siblings. Why should you? After all she's got everything you need. No one else matters, not even her family...

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 12 Refer to her Mom as 'Your Mother' even though she calls your Mom 'Mama' or 'Mummy'...

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 11 Show her as often as possible how little you care about the things she tells you, by promptly forgetting them..

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 10. Show her where she stands on your priority list; tell your old schoolmate (that one you see only once a year) about your next big plan before telling her..

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 9. While in the middle of a crucial phone conversation, shut her up, tell her you’ve got to go talk to the landlord/trash collector/(insert anyone more important here) about something else.

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 8 Insist you were a jerk when she met you and if she liked you then, what changed? Why does she want to 'fix' you now?

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 7. refuse to understand her need to cry, talk or cuddle at the oddest times. It doesn't matter that she's wired that way by default...

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 6. Don’t call or send sms to her at least once a day to remind her that 'being with you is still the smart and best choice you have ever made'...

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 5. DON’T expect her to nag when you’re being a pain. Nagging is taboo and she's not allowed the luxury, even if you haven't delivered on that promise you made six months ago, and haven't bothered to offer an explanation...

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 4. Do not share Faith weith her. Leave her to 'do her thing' where faith is concerned while you do yours. Who needs the solid foundation that Faith offers? So, no Praying together and no Converstions about God whatsoever. Let your relationship be strictly about the physical, about passion and how hot she is..

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 3. Don't buy any gifts. She doesn't need them. After all, you are the greatest git of all and you've told her you're hers. That's enough!

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 2. Don’t understand her mood swings. What mood swing? She's not Van Gogh is she? She doesn't deserve a mood swing just cause she's a woman. So what if she has chemicals going riot in her reproductive system each day of the week, causing her to be shivery and cold one day and burning at an alarming temprature next day? Really, so what?

HOW TO LOSE YOUR WOMAN; 1. Forget she's a Woman- treat her like one of the boys, do everything in the book to show this. Don't open doors for her, be rough and gruff, never gentle. And of course, totally refuse to do anything that might make her feel cherished, happy and comfortable

Those lookin for sometin they never lost... Laffin my head off o

This sounds like a fairy tale bro...

Laff don comot my teeth o. What a boring story dude!

This is really an eyesore and so disheartening. Who knows how many Mr and Mrs myogatathetop we got in our MDAs. Sebi nah dis one we see... Its a national shame