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Godmother: Guess you haven't seen situations where the reverse is also the case. Your values are not bad ones Onila. Its just the way you are going about it. Yes we live in a double-standard society which is making we women to be careful cos of the bad name some might give a girl, but like I said, times are changing and a lot more people are becoming more liberal and enlightened.

I'm not advocating sleeping around, far from it. I'm just saying you as a woman should have more worth and achievement. You seem to tie your entire existence to your coochie and see it as the all in all.No offence, but if I was a guy, I wouldn't date you. Not because you are not date-able, but because you are so self-righteous and proud and see yourself as above men.

And I feel that you might be a wonderful person but this your attitude will just put me off. Like I said earlier, if you wanna have sex, fine. If you don't its also fine. Its a personal decision that everyone should stick with so long as you are comfortable. But biko don't go all insultive about it.

I was a virgin myself until two years back( and I'm in my late 'ties) and yes, like you I was self-righteous too and thought I was a gift wrapped up in blue ribbons worthy of only the best men I offered nothing else in the relationship.

So babe wisen up. By all means, hold unto your virginity if that's your decision. But also have something else to offer. Tone down on this your virginity obsession. There's more to life than virginity and sex

Eden007: This feeling is the reason most ladies venture into same sex ish! There's no risk of feeling worthless yet still get maximum satisfaction. Girls want sex more than guys. A guy can stay a whole week without even remembering he has a Dick between his legs, but girls get the urge every now and then. The fear of being called promiscuous makes her to go get satisfaction from her gf who's feeling the same way. This is why I doubt it when a girl tells me she hasn't had a same sex encounter before. Onila you might be a virgin, but I doubt if you havnt gone down with a gf. Peace out!

Frenchkiss564: dont forget to teach them tribalism too especially your chronic hatred for yoeruba women

teeowl: the young shall grow... amen!

teeowl: You sound like a person that has no life experiences at all. What of the numerous men that sleep with their girlfriends regularly and still have meaningful relationships with them because of the value that they offer to their lives You think to have sex or not to have sex is the all and all of relationships... you have a lot to learn about life....

PS: seriously your post and replies just makes you sound like a kid... seriously, and I don't mean that as an insult to you... you need to think deeper and grow up!

teeowl: you are just obsessed with this issue of sex and virginity... I mean obsessed!!!

donnypool: if you had said ' am not a kid', i'll know a mature person is typing. anyway enough attention for your wh.ore a.s.s

donnypool: I think you should do more research on those ppl especially tiger wood so you can know how his household almost crashed.

dumb hoe

donnypool: so who are the ones prostituting?
who are the ones chasing after rich men with wives?

are they still doing men favor?

you this sl.ut if your pussy is your pride, keep it lock. Other girls take pride in their achievement, not their pu.s.sy. And trust me even if you're a virgin and your p.u.ssy is not clean, guys will still run. But i know you re still underage.

Seun, you are a disgrace to all Niralanders for letting children open thread without age confirmation.

donnypool: stop deceiving urself, who ask you to give out favor? did the guy walk up and say, 'hey please i need ur favor today'? hoe's like you is what is giving girls that want to have sex for the fun of it the feeling of guilt.

Baddestguyp: I can't believe I tried to reason with you. no hope for u, sorry

Nostalgia21: he is right,you are too obsess with sexuality.. Just take a look at your profile. How old are you BTW?

Ashantiking: Yet when a child comes out of the sex, u have the nerve to say my child as if u did it by yourself, meanwhile you are also getting child support from the man.

Ashantiking: Yet when a child comes out of the sex, u have the nerve to say my child as if u did it by yourself, meanwhile you are also getting child support from the man.

khiaa: I understand you have your values but those are YOUR values, everyone has their own. Making love to the one you love is such a beautiful act, stop making into something ugly, especially since you claim you haven't experienced it. Trust me when you meet that special person you will understand.

Dannyxy: sexx this, sexx that, sexx is so overrated on nairaland, I feel like I'm among a group teenagers with raging hormones, arrgghh!!!, even we wey be virgin no dey over hype the sexx..

@ topic, well, when I decide to have sexx, any woman(I said woman, not girls, I wonder why girls and boys will be having sexx?, hmmn) that would think she is doing me a favour by having sexx with me is joking, I will not beg her, I go just carry myself go watch football, worst worst, I go on t.v dey watch nollywood for African magic.

if the youths will just respect themselves and wait till marriage before having sexx, all this nonsense talk will not be coming up...

donroxy: You rarely provide sense on this forum , I don't wanna imagine how blank those tissues up gonna be !!

You are the one being favoured by getting called/passed @ and banged !!

CAMNEWTON4PRES: That's not a virgin's vocabulary

khiaa: Lol This comment is ridiculous, childish, and pathetic. Onila I realise you like to make controversial topics and comments but come on, why would a woman who loves her man put him under such pressure and degradation to beg the woman he loves for love, and what makes a woman a who.re for wanting to make love to the man she loves?

donroxy: You rarely provide sense on this forum , I don't wanna imagine how blank those tissues up gonna be !!

You are the one being favoured by getting called/passed @ and banged !!

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Where is the list of blessings

Ashantiking: The game has changed. Women use men as much as men use women. Thots these days fork men for the sake of forking.

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Virginity blessings ? Dayum that's a new one , care to list those blessings .please

I hope u are not the kind who takes it up in the azz to preserve her holy "virginity"

Ashantiking: What r u talking about?

CAMNEWTON4PRES: Wth