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FamilyRe: Man Conducts DNA Test After 15 Years,finds Out He’s Not Father Of His 5 Children by Osashalom: 8:30pm On Jul 24, 2025
Chaiiiiiii I can't agree less. His brain pattern should actually be avoided. The guy is there drawing curve without facts.
Gabrielshow24:
Lovely treatise, Shalom! How he concluded with certainty that it was five men responsible should be studied scientifically? This should enable us know brain patterns that must be avoided!😂
SportsRe: Terry Bollea: Hulk Hogan Dies At 71 by Osashalom: 8:22pm On Jul 24, 2025
OP on a day like this, you are supposed to post videos in which Hogan won. RIP Legend.
fergie001:
I remember how many shirts I tore trying to do the Hulkamania. I chop the beating wey follow am.

My younger brother suffer for my hand grin

Rest in Power, the Hulk!

One of his greatest fights I watched, cried the hell he lost.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LKH8jbtnLA8
FamilyRe: Man Conducts DNA Test After 15 Years,finds Out He’s Not Father Of His 5 Children by Osashalom: 7:38pm On Jul 24, 2025
The story never said the children belong to different men, we are only told the 5 children don't belong to her husband. So learn to understand the story before drawing any curve. Assuming it was 5 different men that have the children then she is a public toilet. The key that opens any door is a master key but the door that is opened by any key is a public toilet.
geoworldedu:
Is it not 5 different men that cheated with the woman? grin The woman is just one person. 5 different men cheated with her. So it is one woman to five men in the cheating curve grin
FamilyRe: Man Conducts DNA Test After 15 Years,finds Out He’s Not Father Of His 5 Children by Osashalom: 8:14pm On Jul 23, 2025
Yet they say men are the ones cheating most in a relationship.. .. take it to bank women cheat more than men, it is just that they know how to pretend and hid their infidelity. Even majority of those innocent looking women in involved in mind blowing cheating just that you haven't catch them.
Also you can't compare men's cheating to that of a woman in many ways. Eg a man can't cheat to make you believe that another woman's child is your own but women keep making men raise children that are not their own even as far back as before the invention of sliced bread.
PoliticsRe: How Awujale Brokered Agreement That Formed APC, Made Buhari President - Bakare by Osashalom: 8:22am On Jul 21, 2025
APC is a failed political experiment. The most retrogressive party of all time
seunoyeleyep:
Progressive north and progressive south indeed.

APC is totally retrogressive.
EducationRe: Is Education Still The Key To Success? by Osashalom: 7:57pm On Jul 19, 2025
Education is one of the keys to success, though there are other keys also.
Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. I have been pondering on this for sometime now. Is Education truly the key to success in Nigeria? Most of us grew up hoping that after graduating from tertiary instutions, everything would fall in place but after schooling, reverse was the case.
RomanceRe: There Are 4 Types Of Fathers—and Only One Deserves A Family. by Osashalom: 8:23pm On Jul 16, 2025
Great insight
uchkochi:
There Are 4 Types of Fathers—And Only One Deserves a Family

Let’s stop pretending all fathers are the same.
Because when it comes to parenting, legacy, and leadership?
There are four kinds of fathers walking this earth.

Three of them are liabilities.

Only one is built to build a dynasty, raise heirs, and be remembered with honor.

If you’re not him—you have no business calling out hypergamy, divorce rates, and boss babes.

Let’s break it down:



1. The Good Father—The Bare Minimum Dad

He shows up.
He pays the bills.
He attends PTA meetings.
He posts birthday pictures.

And yes—he loves his kids.

But here’s the hard truth:
He’s just good enough not to be hated.
Not good enough to be followed.

He works hard.
But with no strategy.
No emotional depth.
No generational plan.

He gives his kids “stuff”—but not a vision.
He’s always there—but not leading anywhere.

He’s appreciated.
But he’s not aspired to.



2. The Bad Father—The Ghost With a Zipper

He’s absent.
Unavailable.
Unaccountable.

He left one home to start another.
Started three more “families” with no blueprint.

He brags about fatherhood…
But doesn’t remember birthdays.
Doesn’t pay child support.
Doesn’t call back.

He was never ready to be a father.
He was just reckless enough to get someone pregnant.

Now he shows up in Instagram captions—
But never at graduation.



3. The Ugly Father—The Household Hurricane

He’s loud.
He’s violent.
He’s broken—and he breaks everyone around him.

He’s not just a bad father.
He’s a dangerous one.

He drinks, yells, cheats, and shames.
He creates scars—not memories.
Fear—not respect.

Kids don’t cry when he leaves.
They cry when he stays.

He’s not a man—they call him “Dad” by force.
Not love.

And truthfully?

The home would be better off without him.



4. The Great Father—The Dynasty Builder

He’s not just there.
He’s intentional.

He doesn’t just feed his kids.
He develops them.

He reads. He plans. He leads.

He shows his sons how to be kings.
And shows his daughters what protection feels like.

He: – Creates trust funds
– Teaches discipline
– Loves his wife openly
– Builds with purpose
– Prays with them
– Prepares them for a world that won’t be kind

He’s respected.
Feared in the right way.
Honored.

Because he didn’t just raise kids—
He built heirs.

He doesn’t hand out allowance.
He teaches wealth.

He’s not stuck in a 9–5 hoping his kids become his retirement plan.

He is the plan.

He doesn’t have five kids from five women.
He builds one empire with one queen.

He is strategy.
He is structure.
He is legacy.



Final Word: Any Man Can Make a Baby—Only the Great One Builds a Bloodline

So men, ask yourself:

Are you just paying rent in your children’s lives?

Or are you planting roots they’ll stand on for generations?

Because “Good” is nice.
But in this broken world?

Good is the enemy of Great.

Your kids don’t need a birthday shout-out.

They need a blueprint.

Be the one they model.

Be the man they quote.

Be the father that deserves a family.

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PoliticsRe: Buhari left us with trillions of debts, supported Lawan - Sam Omatseye (Nation) by Osashalom: 4:32pm On Jul 14, 2025
Even though majority of what Omatseye wrote here is true infact over 99% as stated. But why didn't he wrote it when he was alive. That 8years presidency really exposed how evil and failure that man was. A political Messiah with bad intentions
PoliticsRe: What Can You Remember Buhari For? by Osashalom: 8:35pm On Jul 13, 2025
Such a wicked man. One of the most corrupt presidents Nigeria ever had. He was a Messiah with a bad intention.
obembet:
It's now official that Mr Buhari died on Sunday at a London hospital according to his spokesperson, Garba Shehu.

He said “The family of the former president has announced the passing of the former president, Muhammadu Buhari, GCFR, this afternoon in a clinic in London. May Allah accept him in Aljannatul Firdaus, Amin,” Mr Shehu wrote on X.

The former president has been abroad since April. According to sources close to his family, Mr Buhari initially travelled to the United Kingdom for what was described as a routine medical check-up, but subsequently took ill.

Mr Buhari was Nigeria’s president between 2015 and 2023. He stepped down on 29 May 2023 after serving his constitutionally permitted two terms

Muhammadu Buhari also served as Nigeria's president twice: first as military head of state from 1983 to 1985

Some people rate BUHARI as best president ever while some believe that's there are some lapses, so as for you how will you rate BUHARI and what are you going to remember him for?

Source: obembet
PoliticsRe: Lagos-Calabar Coastal Highway Project Is A Scam — Babachir Lawal by Osashalom: 8:32pm On Jul 12, 2025
My brother..... Your guess is as good as mine . They are all corrupt, they only complain when the corruption doesn't benefit them . One thing I agree with the millionaire grass cutter on is that APC is a failed political experiment
RealityKings1:
Seems Babachir Lawal needs some millions to cut grasses around the Coastal project grin
PoliticsRe: Appointment Bandits’ Want To Defeat Tinubu In 2027 – Joe Igbokwe by Osashalom: 1:24pm On Jul 12, 2025
My brother!!!! You got the code. The man is even the number one appointment bandit so to say. I don't know if tinubu is waiting for him to slap an opposition figure first before he consider hustling Joe for appointment.

By the way, No one here should forget that APC is a failed political experiment.
bolaayenimo:
Tinubu should pity this man and find him something no matter how small
PoliticsRe: Buhari Government Hunted My Allies After 2015 Election - Jonathan by Osashalom: 10:37am On Jul 11, 2025
APC is a failed political experiment, such a waste of it became
magoo10:
Tinubu would have done worst if his predecessor was from another party.he would have heaped all the blames of his failures on him
Tinubu and buhari are two disasters to have happened to Nigeria.
FamilyRe: Man Devastated After Discovering Wife’s Affair With Pastor, Questions Paternity by Osashalom: 9:52am On Jul 11, 2025
They would have at least posted the pastor's explicit photos for it to go viral. I have come to understand that people enjoy lying against pastors
Earthkumy:
This is mostly a lie against pastors


If it is true the will name the Pastor and his Church

This kind of lies is for traffic
RomanceRe: Na Man Get Side Chick? Women Don Carry The Trophy Now! by Osashalom: 10:34pm On Jul 10, 2025
Are you for real?? Like seriously?

I don't know if this is up to 40 characters already? But in case it's not, someone should help me make it up.

Once again Op are you for real?
PoliticsRe: GEJ Tried To Remove Me, President Cannot Remove Elected Officials - VP Shettima by Osashalom: 7:44pm On Jul 10, 2025
But you expect anything better from a failed political experiment called APC
Ebubu3:
Shettima says Goodluck tried to remove him as Governor of Borno but his Principal President Tinubu actually removed a sitting and democratically elected Governor as if he was an appointee.

Ask the victim Gov. Fubara of Rivers state
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Sharing Food At An Event (Photos) by Osashalom: 7:38pm On Jul 10, 2025
There is nothing like over do here. You guys see it as over do because Nigeria is a bossy country where leaders are only respected if they are bossy. It has become so bad in the past 12years and that is because APC is a failed political experiment.
cr7lomo:
Wetin be this. This man🤦‍♂️...guy we understand u are humble....but u de overdo am
PoliticsRe: Akume Rules Self Out Of APC Chairmanship Bid by Osashalom: 7:33pm On Jul 10, 2025
So this man is even in government?
I have literally forgotten if there is any position as SFG in this government. That is to let you know that they are not performing....
It is now clear that APC is a failed political experiment ...
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Didn’t Support Buhari’s Emergence As APC Candidate — Lauretta Onochie by Osashalom: 5:00pm On Jul 10, 2025
One thing is so sure that in all aspects, APC is a failed experiment as far as Nigerian politics is concerned.
RomanceRe: Is Being A Single Mom A Crime?? by Osashalom: 11:00am On Jul 09, 2025
You have really spoken well bro
Rich4god:
Sorry to say, but the experience people have with single moms is what is fueling the stigma on single mom.

A greater percentage of single mothers are toxic, wicked, loose and cant take care of the home. They can't even bring up their children in a morally way/manner.

Emphasis on "GREATER PERCENTAGE ". Especially those who are single mom out of wedlock or via divorce. Those who are single mum through death of their husband usually have the husbands family to help look after her and put her in check.

Before you come for my head, my comment is based on real life experience as it's part of what I do. I have even written a thread about it .

As a lady, the best thing you can do to your self is to avoid being a single mother.
RomanceRe: Is Being A Single Mom A Crime?? by Osashalom: 10:53am On Jul 09, 2025
Chaiiiiiii guy you are just too merciless with this analysis ooo. But most of your points are hard truths
Namaster:
Single-motherhood is NOT a crime.
It's a DISEASE!

A highly CONTAGIOUS and DESTRUCTIVE disease.
Like LEPROSY on steroids.

MEN who avoid them are SENSIBLE men.

Being a single mother means YOU decided to have UNPROTECTED sex with an IRRESPONSIBLE man who ABANDONED his own child. UNLESS the father is dead.

IF you can make such a DEBILITATINGLY horrendous decision that alters your BODY and LIFE in unimaginable ways, then you can NEVER be trusted.

And that includes trust in your ability to be FAITHFUL.

Single-motherhood is PROOF that you make BAD choices.

In fact, it's proof that you made a SERIES of bad choices including:
1. Failure to use condom.
2. Willingness to fucck an irresponsible man.
3. Failure to use morning-after pills.
4. Putting pleasure OVER commonsense.
5. Fucking an irresponsible man WITHOUT condoms means GOD only knows how many STDs call your body home.

Apart from the above, ANY man who gets serious with a single mother will be OUTNUMBERED in his own family.

He's NOT marrying a woman. He's marrying a NUCLEAR family. That is father, mother and their BASTARDS.

He'll become the BREADWINNER of another man's family.

In short, single mothers are BAD NEWS in TOO many ways.

Smart men must DODGE them.
FamilyRe: How To Know That Your Parents Failed Or Never Loved You From Day 1 by Osashalom: 10:47am On Jul 09, 2025
This is more serious than I thought before opening the thread
PoliticsRe: Buhari Brought Integrity, Transparency To Governance – Ex-Spokesman, Garba Shehu by Osashalom: 7:28am On Jul 02, 2025
Such a wicked liar. By the way where is Lai Mohammedhuh
adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/Buhari-brought-integrity-transparency-to-governance-Ex-spokesman
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Visits Adamu Muazu (Pictures) by Osashalom: 3:37pm On Jun 27, 2025
Peter Obi should be careful with that wicked Adamu that betrayed Goodluck Jonathan
Penguin2:
Fresh from his meeting with the former Attorney General of the Federation, Abubakar Malami, Peter Obi has met with the ex-national chairman of PDP and former governor of Bauchi State, Adamu Muazu.

Peter Obi is coming!
FamilyRe: My Marriage Is Shaking: I Settle All Bills Abroad by Osashalom: 10:44am On Jun 27, 2025
Some of you are married to your enemies, the earlier you know it and decide the better for you!!!
Liazz:
Back home before we travelled, she wasn't employed, I was fully in charge of all finances with the help of my family members.

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