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Greetings all.

I'm really so confused.

So I met this girl earlier this year. She's my roommate's coursemate(But we are all in the same lodge,she stays first floor while we..... ground floor). Occasionally she do come so that they do assignment together.

Beautiful she's. I picked interest in her and it wasn't long before we became too close (because she's caring)

She prefers to always stay in our room, reason being that she doesn't relate with people easily. So she cling to us as the only closest friends in the lodge.

But after sometime.....she wanted us to start dating. That she love me so much

But I told her that I'm not ready for relationship, that I'm just okay being close friend with her.

Unfortunately for us.....we already had sex like twice (that's actually my first sex)

Now the problem....

This girl has a very bad mouth. Will abuse you like you thief her birthright. Has bad temper. You will joke with her.... . next she's already angry.

Has the gut to even bring up some trash in front my friends. That I chopped and Clean mouth, that "do you think sex is free".(when clearly I wanted not to even have sex with her).

Currently I'm doing my IT so we ain't close enough. Before I left for IT,she said it's very good. At least before I finish.....she must have forgotten my sorry ass( imagine!!)

But now still complaining that I'm heartless, that I don't call to hear from her. That maybe I've gotten a girlfriend ( but I always insist that I ain't ready for relationship)

Chat her....the chat must end with you getting abused. Call her.....the same

My major problem is that it's the same lodge and I don't like it when people around me will just be angry for nothing bypassing me. I like sharing pleasantries with all.

Like how do I get rid of this friendship/headache

Oyi5:
Thanks to the moderators of this interesting and insightful thread.
Am a 200l student of geology in unijos, and Hoping to learn from you all
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Have you done your IT?

extroveee:
Am looking for a place to do my SIWES (I.T) in Abuja

How did it go bro?

Currently doing mine

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