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Cerebellum:
Monthly dues must be paid, Everybody is hungry

SAPAmalekum indeed!

Jennyclay:
Instead for the government to find solution In tackling insecurity they are busy plotting for 2027 election while the masses are hailing the government.

You may not understand the pain she’s going through until it get to your turn

I’ve fully stopped traveling by road since 2023.

I pray she finds freedom alive and complete.

Ise!

ogolemati:
agbero union member,where is helinues the former chairman agbero union nairaland branch

Laugh wan tear my belle finish!

10thTenthMan:
But she is correct.

If a man does not care, then he does not bother you.

This is a fact.

The question can then be, ''What type of man goes out, comes back and sees his house in a mess with a wife at home and does not care''?

Show me that man, and I will show you a low value man without discipline. A man without a strong, respectable network of friends. A man without shame. A man without order in his life. A man who does not demand accountability because he himself lacks it. A man she will call a whimp and she will eventually cheat on with someone who demands accountability from her.

As per a man bickering with women, she is also correct.

A sensible man creates boundaries and enforces them, and never renegotiates them. Calling out a boundary MUST NOT INVOLVE Shouting and quarrelling. Don’t get into arguments with her, especially with logic and facts. Tell her once and enforce it. Remove time, remove resources, remove protection, remove provision, remove validation. No reaction/overreaction IS YOUR TRUE WEAPON. But how do you do these things when you do not have value way above her. If you can be easily replaced, then all you have is your self resect. Keep that intact and walk away from a woman who does not respect your boundaries. You are a man and easily manipulated to lose emotional control with someone you are to lead? Don't bring yourself down to that level. Why should I waste energy speaking with logic to a brain and mind run by emotions? Choose your words wisely. Not too much talk. Don’t argue like a child.

I like you!

... Probably out of curiosity/ignorance...

daben1:
and you're still married to her? Omo, una dey try dey take some shît o

Na for the sake of the children.


Make dem turn adults first... 😢

Fiscus105:
Telling your life issues to the public is becoming abnormal and it's dangerous, not only for your marriage,but also for your own life, I think you need to report her to either your family or her family, the person you know she has high regards for.

Wetin ah even yarn now sef na a tips of the iceberg.


She's an orphan though.

Fiscus105:
Number 4. Constant criticism and nagging, I think that one is most significant among the list, and 90% of women do that, they must nag and criticize hubby on every little issue, and it seems they don't know how nagging irritate men.
If wife can take note of this and change for good, Its not every you nag or criticize your husband, 30% of marriages that failed will succeed.

I'm a victim of circumstance.


My so-called Bini wife can nag for a living.

Whenever she loses her mind she eventually begins to scream, all in the name of nagging.



She go expose you, tell the whole world ah never buy motor, house, etc.
Narrating my family private life to the public.

She occasionally even fights with me right in the presence of our children.


I feel like giving up now.

Just imagine three OTUOCHAS ending a man's life just because of otuocha.

Glimpsetv:
Summary:

A 22-year-old Kano innovator, Ibrahiem Bala, has invented anti-sleep alarm glasses that alert drivers when they doze off. Inspired by a tragic accident earlier in 2025, his creation has gone viral, with many Nigerians calling for government support to commercialize it.

Would it be able to awaken a heavily inebriated driver?
.... A chronic drunkard

Owoh soup sprinkled with some palatable pieces of Monkey meat is the complete combo.






Agbor man

... Anything to oust the manikin in Asuebi Rock is welcomed.

Skeyskey:
Not a new thing. Our own presido was seeing Crossing street too

..... Walking Dead in the making! :-

slaawomirr:
Him nor bad reach the famous anini of Benin city that year

Slaawomirr it's been a while.

Dogalmighty17:
That book of Moses eh! Guy, I fear that book. No be to summon the spirits be the problem. Na to remember how to send them back. If you even as much as fail to pronounce the incantations correctly, the spirits won't go. Spirits hate being idle. If you summon them, you must give them an assignment in the language they understand. They become very violent if you don't tell them what to do. They'll ask you why you summoned them in the first place. They are willing to do everything you ask of them since by summoning them, they are bound to you. But they are low level demons. There are powerful, high level demons you can call upon. You are too low to summon them. They'll hear you but not show themselves, though you can sense their presence. Those are territorial demons. Very ruthless personalities

I am careful about playing some kinds of Hollywood movies in my home. Some of the incantations in these movies are real. And the spirits hear them and come into your home. But you aren't aware that spirits are now dwelling in your home! But the incantations in the movie you watched, summoned them! With time, things start going wrong around you. Remember that I said spirits hate being idle.

I remember an experience I had with a book called The Complete Book of Fortune. There was a ritual in that book I attempted to carry out. The ritual was to show me how my future wife will look like. I did exactly what a particular chapter in the book said. A mirror behind me, a candle before me in a dark room. The words had barely left my mouth before I saw images forming in the mirror as I turned around. The way I bolted hard from that room. I hit my shin on the door frame and till today that pain remains. I later burnt the book.

Some pastors in Nigeria use that Seven Books of Moses. That book is not for the faint of heart. Some of the tongues some pastors speak are actually incantations giving demonic spirits assignments. You see people falling under 'anointing' you see 'healings and miracles'. But they are not from God.

In Egypt, Moses performed his miracles and the Pharaohs men did theirs too. We are told that King Saul went to the witch of Endor who then summoned the spirit of Samuel and it came up from the ground. All this happened by incantations in a language spirits understand. This language is the language we were speaking before the tower of Babel and God then gave us different languages.

I'm not writing this to scare you. I'm writing this to let you know that you can't afford to be careless about your spiritual life and your relationship with God. Your bible never told you that satan and the trillions of demons under him and some with him are not powerful. I used with him because there are demons more powerful than Satan himself. Satan was only a worship leader. Demons more powerful than angels Gabriel and Michael exist. Those are the demons God has kept locked up but they will soon be released. They don't answer to Satan.

If you want to take God seriously, please do. You will be doing yourself a lot of good.

I enjoyed your exposition as well as dogged essence..

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
you get malaria, go and treat yourself

Na Acute Typhoid Sychosis jare!

Cheap premium propaganda!

IyaTola:
Kindly drop your email address.

Depsquare4real@yahoo.com




Thanks in anticipation!

IyaTola:
Here’s a summary of all 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene, each with a brief explanation:

LAW 1: Never Outshine the Master
Always make those above you feel superior. If you make them feel insecure, it could be your downfall.

LAW 2: Never Put Too Much Trust in Friends, Learn How to Use Enemies
Friends are more likely to betray you; enemies, when won over, can be more loyal.

LAW 3: Conceal Your Intentions
Keep your strategies hidden to prevent interference and gain the upper hand.

LAW 4: Always Say Less Than Necessary
Powerful people impress by saying less. The more you say, the more common you appear.

LAW 5: So Much Depends on Reputation — Guard It with Your Life
Protect your reputation at all costs. Once it's damaged, you're vulnerable.

LAW 6: Court Attention at All Costs
Visibility brings power. Stand out and draw attention to command influence.

LAW 7: Get Others to Do the Work for You, but Always Take the Credit
Leverage others' efforts while presenting the results as your own.

LAW 8: Make Other People Come to You — Use Bait if Necessary
Draw others toward your advantage. Acting first often exposes you.

LAW 9: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Argument
Convince with results, not words. Arguments breed resentment.

LAW 10: Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky
Negative energy is contagious. Avoid those who bring misfortune or drama.

LAW 11: Learn to Keep People Dependent on You
Create relationships where others rely on you for success or survival.

LAW 12: Use Selective Honesty and Generosity to Disarm Your Victim
A single honest move can cover dozens of manipulations.

LAW 13: When Asking for Help, Appeal to Self-Interest, Never to Mercy
People are more likely to help if it benefits them too.

LAW 14: Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy
Gather intelligence subtly by acting close or familiar.

LAW 15: Crush Your Enemy Totally
Don’t leave room for revenge. Eliminate threats completely.

LAW 16: Use Absence to Increase Respect and Honor
Scarcity increases value. Don’t be too available.

LAW 17: Keep Others in Suspended Terror: Cultivate an Air of Unpredictability
Being unpredictable creates fear and confusion.

LAW 18: Do Not Build Fortresses to Protect Yourself — Isolation is Dangerous
Stay engaged and informed. Isolation cuts off intelligence and support.

LAW 19: Know Who You’re Dealing with — Do Not Offend the Wrong Person
Not everyone reacts the same. Study people before challenging them.

LAW 20: Do Not Commit to Anyone
Remain independent. Allegiances limit your options.

LAW 21: Play a Sucker to Catch a Sucker — Seem Dumber Than Your Mark
Pretend to be less intelligent to disarm and manipulate.

LAW 22: Use the Surrender Tactic: Transform Weakness into Power
Surrender strategically to recover and strike later.

LAW 23: Concentrate Your Forces
Focus your efforts on one strong point rather than spreading thin.

LAW 24: Play the Perfect Courtier
Adapt to power hierarchies and master the art of pleasing superiors.

LAW 25: Re-Create Yourself
Don’t accept the role society gives you. Reinvent your identity for power.

LAW 26: Keep Your Hands Clean
Use others to do the dirty work. Maintain a clean image.

LAW 27: Play on People’s Need to Believe to Create a Cult-like Following
People crave meaning. Give them belief systems and they will follow.

LAW 28: Enter Action with Boldness
Confidence creates momentum and respect. Hesitation is weak.

LAW 29: Plan All the Way to the End
Have a clear long-term goal and anticipate obstacles.

LAW 30: Make Your Accomplishments Seem Effortless
Mastery should appear natural. Don’t expose the hard work.

LAW 31: Control the Options: Get Others to Play with the Cards You Deal
Frame choices so all paths benefit you.

LAW 32: Play to People’s Fantasies
Reality is harsh. Offer escape through fantasy, dreams, and promises.

LAW 33: Discover Each Man’s Thumbscrew
Find people’s weaknesses or desires and use them strategically.

LAW 34: Be Royal in Your Own Fashion — Act Like a King to Be Treated Like One
Carry yourself with confidence and dignity; others will follow your lead.

LAW 35: Master the Art of Timing
Patience and timing are everything. Know when to act and when to wait.

LAW 36: Disdain Things You Cannot Have: Ignoring Them Is the Best Revenge
If you can't have it, show contempt. Acknowledge it and you empower it.

LAW 37: Create Compelling Spectacles
Dramatic visuals and actions attract attention and power.

LAW 38: Think as You Like but Behave Like Others
Blend in socially while keeping your true thoughts private.

LAW 39: Stir Up Waters to Catch Fish
Instigate emotions to throw people off and gain control.

LAW 40: Despise the Free Lunch
What is free is often devalued. Pay your way to assert independence.

LAW 41: Avoid Stepping into a Great Man’s Shoes
Don’t get stuck in a predecessor’s shadow. Forge your own legacy.

LAW 42: Strike the Shepherd and the Sheep Will Scatter
Remove the leader to break group resistance.

LAW 43: Work on the Hearts and Minds of Others
Influence people emotionally, not just logically.

LAW 44: Disarm and Infuriate with the Mirror Effect
Mimic your opponent to unsettle and confuse them.

LAW 45: Preach the Need for Change, but Never Reform Too Much at Once
Gradual change is more accepted than abrupt transformation.

LAW 46: Never Appear Too Perfect
Too much perfection sparks envy. Display flaws strategically.

LAW 47: Do Not Go Past the Mark You Aimed For; In Victory, Learn When to Stop
Don’t overreach after success. Know when to end the game.

LAW 48: Assume Formlessness
Be adaptable and fluid. Rigid structures break under pressure.

This book is incredible!


How can I gain access to the ebook or pdf format

VaginaAcademic:
Rema is Igbanke aka Edo Igbos he's not a bini boy just like Osimhen is not a Yoruba boy though they were born in a particular state.

We the Ika-tribe from Igbanke are purely known as Delta-Igbo.

Just as Rema is Ika, claiming to be bini by tribe.


God forbids BATting!

alabo1:
You are the bot. Check standards of living between 2023 and now. I am earning a 7 figure pay and still feel the pain. Do you think of those earning the 70k that most states are not paying? I wish you well

You actually got me wrong.!!

I was actually talking about that irresponsible dude.

alabo1:
You are the bot. Check standards of living between 2023 and now. I am earning a 7 figure pay and still feel the pain. Do you think of those earning the 70k that most states are not paying? I wish you well

You actually got me wrong.!!

I was actually talking that irresponsible dude.

alabo1:
Don't you have a sense of shame?

For the peanuts they are paying you, you can sell your soul and try to just the worst government this country has seen. It is a pity that people like you exist

Are you sure this isn't a programmed robot

He definitely sounds like one!

specialmati:
former chairman agbero union nairaland branch,so the bullion vans manufacturer will conduct a free and fair election with bullion vans ok

I like the way you murdered him verbally!



Wahala for who nor fit type 40 characters.

Mitsurugi:
E remain for you to comot cloth enter market. E just remain small and you don't know it. The worst part is that in that market, you will tie Peter Obi banner as loin cloth and meet Obi's mad friend along the way.

Those Nairaland kids that are heavily deranged with Canadian lou*

Ebenezer2021:
He is definitely into yahoo plus

23 more characters needed for thunder to fire seun

You nearly use laughter finish man pikin.

It is already a tragic end for apc and whoever that supports the downfall of Nigeria.



See me see a lot of tears!

Twinkers promax

Mightyhaiz:
I went early this morning to track a tenant who's been owing his rent for quite some time now and has been annoyingly elusive about it...no calls no reach out to me..not picking or returning calls and messages... As he narrate his ordeal finish I just made some noises and left but for my mind I no go just trouble this man again..let me not compound his already suicidal state... On my way out I gave his son preparing for school 1k.. furthermore in tbe same neighborhood I saw a child with badly deformed legs struggling to school.. I reduced speed and asked where her school was ...she pointed to the opposite direction...so I asked why she was going the opposite way,she said she was hurrying to her mom's shop to take money for breakfast n Keke.. I asked if I can gv her something..so I dont look like a ritualist or sth like that to her.. she hesitated,studied me and then convinced herself that I'm am alright man..she nodded shyly..so I gave her 3k to buy some snacks for the week.... I haven't stopped thinking about her since then..the way she wore her old stockings and hat very smartly and struggling with her circumstances... I'd made up my mind to do sth more for her..she won't be hard to find in that area


These are the kind of things humans should do... Not condemning humans because of their deformities n other circumstances...

My kind of being.

God bless you richly!

SusanOpeyemi:
Amaechi is class above the ill mannered Wike.

Uncountable billion times, if I may say!

benefitzte:
"If a borehole is dogged at a Fulani community, the same will be dogged at the native community.

Is it just me that thinks 'dug' is more suitable here?

What is suitable about DOGGED

That's a humongous error!