Young lady laments over a discussion with her boyfriend on stepping in to assist with house rent in the future.

According to the lady, it is not in her place to ever support such bills as it is the responsibility of her man.

Seeking advise through an anonymous source, she wrote;




”I’m a 9-5 worker, we were talking on phone this morning and he advised that I think of business, I said yes I already have that in mind for future when kids come, moreover there’s no enough money now and I don’t really have the time cos of work, that’s not the issue but the statement he made was that.

“He doesn’t need to ask me but maybe in future he can ask me to please support with some money for our house rent”, in my mind I’m already having issue with that statement, does it mean he has plans of asking me to contribute for house rent?

”Did he really mean that or I’m I overreacting? I wanted to call him back and clarify but just decided to send this to hear what people think because I can’t be with a man that will be extorting from me as I currently need someone that can support me too, I’m not stingy , I will be doing my own little things but I won’t accept contributing to house rent bill because it’s the man’s responsibility. I want a responsible man that can cater for a family while me a wife supports sometimes or once in a while”.

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Marriage never start.. wahala don dey happen

I sha pity the man

You are not supportive and any man that marry you as enter one chance

E be like say you never squat before....don't support him na..

You go your parents house or your friends place until I can pay......by the time they used you wash plate for 3 days you go get sense

That is how they start, from support me in house rent to support me in school fees to support me in feeding, clothing of the kids and so on.

They always need women to lessen their job as husbands all the while downplaying the roles their wives play in taking care of the kids and domestic work with the usual "it's beneath me as a man to do all these" at the end the woman will end up looking like an old hag while she's still in her thirties.

They also expect their wives kiss their feet in the name of submission by using the bible as a reference but forget the bible exist when it comes to adultery on their part.

There is nothing wrong in women contributing to the home financially, in fact as a child there this joy you have knowing both your parents are capable of taking care of you but this system does not always work when married to the average Nigerian mail because of the way they are wired.

Ardar:

e choke u

This woman is one of those short-sighted fools who will remain in their father's house till Jesus comes back

Regular she-goat. You need someone to support u but u can't support him. Well, its not my business... na the guy I pity

What about her kids? If her husband can't work, she's going to let her children suffer because of bimbo beliefs? If her salary can give the kids a better education, she's going to deny them that because of bimbo thinking?

RIP in advance to her future husband .

8 of 10 Nigeria ladies have this mentality that why we have less marriage in our generation.

Is about what they want, the type of man they want and what he must do.....Very selfish set of people.

Only foolish men end up with such ladies..... right from dating level you go Dan they push some lil bills to her to know if nah liability you wan carry abi nah asset.

The future is what again?

Nonso92:
The future is what again?

The future is filmale na

Imagine being asked to pack out of a house whose rent you're contributing to.

Wisdom Wisdom Wisdom.

if we investigate very well, she may be a feminist ....brainless fool

And these are ladies we are supposed to marry o.. chai...na one chance full everywhere o.
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And if you ask, what they do with the money they make...you won't get a tangible answer.

Such a selfish frivolous generation of women we have.

Is it his house rent or your house rent?

The house is not just the man's alone.

While the man should be prepared ahead of time to handle such expenses, but the woman can be required to chip in if things are not going to well for the man.

With this kind of mentality, this woman will rather they be thrown out of their house with their 3 children rather than help the husband with 20k to complete the house rent.

Any man that depends on his wife for financial support or uses his wife has a backup plan is a low valued beta male.

Men lead
Women follow

Women don't build,they just move in. She's entering ur already built world and not the other way around.

She is very right to not help in paying for their rent.
Women are not built to lead men, women are hypergamous and love opportunistically.

The Job of the man is to provide, protect and give parental Investment to his woman.
The job of the woman is to submit and add feminine values to her man.

dochenaj:
Is it his house rent or your house rent?

The house is not just the man's alone.

While the man should be prepared ahead of time to handle such expenses, but the woman can be required to chip in if things are not going to well for the man.

With this kind of mentality, this woman will rather they be thrown out of their house with their 3 children rather than help the husband with 20k to complete the house rent.

Men and women are not equal in marriage

missiret:
if we investigate very well, she may be a feminist ....brainless fool

No she doesn't want to loose her feminine essence by sharing masculine responsibilities with her man

That's how I met from stupid girl sometime like that, she was telling me if we were to get married I will do 90 percent and she will only do 10 percent I was just laughing, look at this fool.

Godoverevery:
8 of 10 Nigeria ladies have this mentality that why we have less marriage in our generation.

Is about what they want, the type of man they want and what he must do.....Very selfish set of people.

Only foolish men end up with such ladies..... right from dating level you go Dan they push some lil bills to her to know if nah liability you wan carry abi nah asset.

Understand women love opportunistically

Also understand women's game is to lockdown a high value man post sex

So if she's ain't adding value to her man asides from sex then she's useless.

Sharing of rent is not a value but a sign of weakness on her man's part. It's a masculine responsibility solely for men. It establishes authority,leadership and dominance in that relationship.

Women hate it wen u force them to take on the masculine essence because they are not built to handle masculine problems

freshbillz15:
You are not supportive and any man that marry you as enter one chance

Noo

She has her standards and u should respect her standards.

We should be asking her Wat value can she add to her man asides from sex?

Sharing rent with her man is not value at all

This is one of the reasons these females keep hitting menopause without husbands..
























But wetin concern me? I go just mind my business

Statements like this make me Laugh,

If there's one thing I'm glad about in this horrible times our country is in, I'm very glad that Men of nowadays are getting Wise and smart too in their dealings with the opposite sex.

People fail to realize that marriage nowadays is more of "Teamwork", go and observe very well it happens all the time around us, "Genuine Teamwork" is what moves a team forward and takes the team to greater heights. If you want to see genuine Teamwork at it's best, take your time and study sports, and you'll understand the beauty of Teamwork, ... If you think that Marriage nowadays in this horrible time our country is in is only a Man's Responsibility you may end up Weeping and gnashing your teeth for a long time, ... Nobody wants a LIABILITY, the country's hard, there's serious hunger In the Land, insecurities everywhere, nobody is safe, people are scared and you want to put the "Sole Responsibilities of marriage on a Man's Head alone", you must be joking and like I said earlier, Men are getting more Wiser by the day and I say this without Remorse.

Alot of women dont realize this, once you're a supportive woman to your man in all ramifications, even if he decides to go astray, in his head, he subconsciously compares that woman to you, he compares your qualities to that woman's qualities and he automatically knows that you're way above the woman in all Levels and ramifications... That's why when men cheat, the still end up going back to their Wives because the know the benefit more from the Wife than from the woman the went astray with.... Truely a Man knows where his heart Lies.

I can assure that woman up there that made that Statement, that she should pray real hard that her boyfriend doesn't find another woman that shares in his ideology of supporting him to pay house rent,... because I can assure that woman that once her boyfriend should come across another woman that shares in his ideology of supporting to pay house rent, she will be Replaced.... If she thinks am joking, she should pray very hard that her boyfriend never finds such a woman

The woman above me is On fu*cking point!

Ardar:
That is how they start, from support me in house rent to support me in school fees to support me in feeding, clothing of the kids and so on.

They always need women to lessen their job as husbands all the while downplaying the roles their wives play in taking care of the kids and domestic work with the usual "it's beneath me as a man to do all these" at the end the woman will end up looking like an old hag while she's still in her thirties.

They also expect their wives kiss their feet in the name of submission by using the bible as a reference but forget the bible exist when it comes to adultery on their part.

There is nothing wrong in women contributing to the home financially, in fact as a child there this joy you have knowing both your parents are capable of taking care of you but this system does not always work when married to the average Nigerian mail because of the way they are wired.

Ha @Ardar this is 2021.... respect is different from submission. Wives respect your husband and husband love your wives.
Submissive is not same as respect ma guys see respect as love that is how men's brain is wired. That's why bible didn't say wives love your husband instead it says husbands loves your wives. I hate the bashing of both sexes here there are still honest good people out there

demmymoney:


Understand women love opportunistically

Also understand women's game is to lockdown a high value man post sex

So if she's ain't adding value to her man asides from sex then she's useless.

Sharing of rent is not a value but a sign of weakness on her man's part. It's a masculine responsibility solely for men. It establishes authority,leadership and dominance in that relationship.

Women hate it wen u force them to take on the masculine essence because they are not built to handle masculine problems

please are you speaking of Nigeria women or women in general??


FYI in European countries the women share bills constantly.