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i had high hope and big dreams for life just few years ago.i never imagine myself in this situation (coming online to tell my story). i was working in a hotel and also running my poultry business and life was good and fun to live and i had dreams of going higher and going places so i decided to get an education knowing it is the best investment that came.but things started going wrong,first lost my job and had to fall back to my poultry and also foot my bills from there but i birds started dying at 4weeks,waking up every morning to see over 15 birds dead was hard to take especially when i collect feeds on credit to pay later.i lost everything and could not even pay my final year fees but still had to force my way to round up the program which till now am unable to do clearance and i have to move to a friends house for fear of being arrested by the man i collected feeds from.i have been doing menial jobs to sustain myself but at 29 getting to 30 i no longer have hope of going for nysc and still running from my house and confuse in life.recently came across some old time friends who are doing good but a certain their wealth is acquired illegally and so many things are running through my mind. Please i need advice on how to go about this kind of life as i do not have faith in myself or hope at this point

Are you male or female ?

ignis:
Are you male or female ?

male

Everything will be alright

This is not the time to give up , u should'nt allow ur failures to define u. First of all, u need to work on yourself and get rid of low self esteem, stop viewing urself as a loser and a failure. Man up bro, and stop hiding around,start doing something no matter how little or menial it is, learn some skills online and be useful to urself, be determined to succeed and see ur shortcomings as a stepping stone to ur greatness.

Vee423:
male

Believe the best is yet to come... Never be depressed.

Chycebel:
This is not the time to give up , u should'nt allow ur failures to define u. First of all, u need to work on yourself and get rid of low self esteem, stop viewing urself as a loser and a failure. Man up bro, and stop hiding around,start doing something no matter how little or menial it is, learn some skills online and be useful to urself, be determined to succeed and see ur shortcomings as a stepping stone to ur greatness.

i have so much interest in learning a skill but were do i start from,earning 2k doing menial jobs will not help me acquire the skill.trust me i really want to get off this present situation.can't even sleep well at night. please if there is a way you can teach me,am very much ready to learn

Am so sorry to hear your story!
But I know your tomorrow is great!
Do not be fazed by things around u, God allow the temptation for a reason.
Remember the story of job, God allow disaster to befall him at his peak. He saw u fit for this, so he chosed u.
Ur restoration is coming but be prayerful.
Pray for urself! Speak goodness into yourself! Only God can help u.
He turns every situation, so turn to him in everything!
I pray God guide ur steps, lead your thoughts and be your comfort.

Vee423:
i have so much interest in learning a skill but were do i start from,earning 2k doing menial jobs will not help me acquire the skill.trust me i really want to get off this present situation.can't even sleep well at night. please if there is a way you can teach me,am very much ready to learn

there are many videos on youtube that teaches about different online skills. Its going to be difficult at first but all u need is consistency and determination.