₦airaland Forum

My girl borrowed money from loan app without informing me. The loan was overdue for 3 days and she has begged the lady to wait till Friday even promising to pay extra.

So today, they called me to tell me that my girl is a thief and has been on d run. They went further sending texts. So i approached my girl and she told me she took money from Dem and has tried to reason with d lady.

So, i went through her WhatsApp and with what i saw, i began to wonder how these people get back their money if they start conversation with anger and bitterness. I messaged d lady, wanting to ask her for details and the next thing she did was to throw insult. I was bewildered, she didn't even allow me to finish typing my second message people she starts threatening to post her pictures on FB, Instagram, and even sending text and bla bla bla...

I got angry eventually and told her to do her worst. I told my girl not to pay. Let her arrogance get her d money.


This is complete nonsense, people owe debts even Nigeria is owing China money. The manner and approach to use when drawing debt shouldn't be by force. You need to appeal to concience and not making the client feels less of a person. Some of these acts only dare clients and not move them. Daring will make a client act like he or she was right for not paying. I know it's wrong to owe money and not pay on time, still, we should not forget that the person agrees to pay and gave a definite date. Please use sense when relating with clients. I will correct this thing by paying half and leaving my girl to pay d rest by herself.

Thank you.

When you owe me money, you can deceive me. Those loan companies know how to deal with debtors in the language they understand.

#SignsOfBadEconomy

There was an agreement.

She just needed to meet her own end of the bargain.

What appealing are you talking about?

The money is not yours!

They didn’t force it on you.

You went to them.

This mentality or outlook with another person’s money is really just outrageous!

othermen:
There was an agreement.

She just needed to meet her own end of the bargain.

What appealing are you talking about?

The money is not yours!

They didn’t force it on you.

You went to them.

This mentality or outlook with another person’s money is really just outrageous!

Ok, let's say for example that you borrowed money to start a business, the goods got burnt and you need to pay back the loan. You tell the creditor to allow you one week to raise d money cos u don't av it on u. D creditor den pours urine on u and threatens to burn your house...

The debtor creditor relationship above is not a healthy one. People get broke, you need to understand that very well. I once had 3 million and within one month, i was only having less than 100k with me. It's life. The debtor is not refusing to pay here.

There are only 3 Loan Apps operating in Nigeria, the rest are wannabees

Fairmoney, Branch and carbon