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I came from a wealthy home were lack is never a problem from my family am a very handsome young man but I have a problem
1. An introvert
2. Am shy
3 have low self esteem
This really affected me doing my schools days and worst of all I was taking to boarding sch were I encounter different personalities.
I was easily oppress by my adversaries because am always alone . I walk alone, just love been alone . when d opposite sex try to talk to me I will be smiling like a mushy .
Am also a deep thinker am a lover of football I always imagine myself in Manchester utd or ac millan those are my two favorite teams while growing up. I always imagine my self as a striker scoring for both teams.
me and my brothers play football in our compound am always on top of my game .
My dad is a very harsh man he always shout we d children are always scared of him because of his attitude he will beat us and burn the ball we keep buying he keep throwing them away or hiding it . Sometimes been having a rich and dominary father can be a bug issue because u can't express ur your mind.
If I was born overseas or to a more understanding parents by now I would have been a rich retiring footballer and I know I would have excel because it was my passion not because of money but because I love playing soccer.
Rud vaniestroy , henry and Filipino inzagi was my idol while growing up I will be reading complete sport in the class room because of my love for football. I remember when I was jobless after graduation my father use kylain mbappe to mock me in my spirit I was burning it just look as if I should just stab him but thank God I didn't do anything stupid.
Now am 35yrs am a graduate with a good working career and business but am not fulfill as a human being.
I have vow to support any of my children to follow their passion weda in music, football,actor, model or becoming a pastor .
Pls parents never be too hasrsh on your children when u discover they are practicing any sporting career. Even though I am leaving a comfortable life am still not happy but I thank God for life

kenzysmith:
1. Am an introvert
2. Am shy
3 have low self esteem

No.

Someone who hasn’t figured out the difference between “I am” and “am” is not really a graduate.

GenAbacha:
No.

Someone who hasn’t figured out the difference between “I am” and “am” is not really a graduate.

I dey always pray never to meet people like you in life.

Online professors!

It is well

Davash222:
I dey always pray never to meet people like you in life.

Online professors!

Relax. You wouldn’t if you tried.

GenAbacha:
Relax. You wouldn’t if you tried.

I know, I'm allergic to foolish people, I wouldn't.

Davash222:
I know, I'm allergic to foolish people, I wouldn't.

Ditto.

Hmmm. You should let go of your guilt bro.
I wasted close to 6 years seeking admission into med/surg because my parents wanted me to become a Doctor.

Wasted a bulk of that time in church praying for admission 'favors'. It made me despise school and religion till date. But you gotta let go. And focus on smashing more personal goals ahead.

And Hit the gym if you can. It will help your self esteem when you begin to bulk up. I was bullied a lot as a teen because of my small size but that changed as soon as I brought home my first set of dumbbells.

The gym will transform your life bro!

CandyOps:
Hmmm. You should let go of your guilt bro.
I wasted close to 6 years seeking admission into med/surg because my parents wanted me to become a Doctor.

Wasted a bulk of that time in church praying for admission 'favors'. It made me despise school and religion till date. But you gotta let go. And focus on smashing more personal goals ahead.

And Hit the gym if you can. It will help your self esteem when you begin to bulk up. I was bullied a lot as a teen because of my small size but that changed as soon as I brought home my first set of dumbbells.

The gym will transform your life bro!

thanks bro

Same here ....I so much love football...Am good in it but this country ain't helping matters atall