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Why do you spank a child and then tell him/her not to cry? I have been trying to wrap my head around this.

I was in church today, a little girl misbehaved so the mother took her out and spanked her and the girl started crying. And I was hearing her tell the girl, shush! Fem!! If I hear you cry shush!!! And the helpless girl full of tears In her eyes and mouth was trying hard to hold it all back.

Abba, now!!!

Sabi you have spanked, please let them cry it out. If you are worried about the cry disturbing others, take them somewhere so that they can really cry there. Ehn ehn!!! When the tears has finished, then draw the child closer and tell the child why he/she was whooped. Then love them.

And sincerely I want to know why mother's do this. It is mother's that do the spankings most. Abi I lie ni? So why should I not cry after you have spanked me painfully?

Romblmfao my brother, na our ancestors been start dis thing oo.

1F30M4:
Romblmfao my brother, na our ancestors been start dis thing oo.

Lol! Hmm