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Nigerian socialite, PrettyMike of Lagos has stated via his Instagram handle that marriage is a high achievement and he has warned people not to be deceived by people who say marriage is not achievement, IgbereTV reports.

He wrote;

"Don’t allow anybody trick u by telling u, that marriage is not an achievement....Marriage is a high achievement, an accomplishment and a beautiful union to see two people or more come together and build a awesome home and family together......but if you beg to differ , then I can only assume that your conclusions are offsprings of a myopic perception or you are simply a product of a dysfunctional environment that never gave you the chance to appreciate the true beauty of marriage.

It really requires a great deal of tolerance, zeal, patience and compromise to work ; traits which are gradually diminishing in our society.
When I see couples who put in the extra effort , defy all odds and run over hurdles to make their union work both in real life and on social media ... I applaud it because marriage itself is hard work.

So here’s me giving recognition and brownie points to the people who give me hope that somebody’s Daughter will find me one day #SaturdaysAreForWeddings #HusbandMaterial #myMonth #octoberBorn #VersaceDrip #ZaddyOfSix #CubanaGroup"

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Haaa love don finally catch am

I am pro marriage and I believe it's an achievement if you get it right. So let those of us who believe in marriage play our cards well and not allow ourselves get into the wrong hands.shalom

I may only agree with him on one condition,and that's marriage will be a man's greatest achievement if he's married to the right banny......But in such cases whereby we see married men rushing down here to nairaland to complain about how their bannies have been big Problems in their lives, that's what I don't wanna be a victim of

Mmmm

70% of those that say being married is no big deal are people who have either failed woefully at getting a spouse or keeping one. Most of them really desired married but it just didn’t work out. Rather than them admitting they failed, they begin to belittle the successes of those that got it right!

Marriage is ordained by God. It is a wonderful institution with a lot of fun when it is with the right partner. It is even more fun when there is money!

See who is talking. I'll value that advice more if it's coming from a responsible person. Your antecedents say otherwise. Nonsense

Mtchew

Omoooo !!!!

It's Mixed feelings for me though, when I was in Accra..one Man said, he will never get married, he will never waste his money to do marriage that the same girl will Bleep up later. We've seen cases where a marriage won't even last 6 months

For me, I will get Married,I will find the right one with God's Guidance, and I will pray the marriage go well.

I nor go lie you. No marriage way smooth 100 percent....You just have to keep tolerating and keep talking to each other time to time

Marry to someone that will give you peace of mind. Not every marriage is an "achievement". Some will destabilise you

What do you expect from a "Mike" that is "pretty"?

All in all, have money

Of course it takes a refurbished simpleton like this man called Mike to make such basic and useless assumption about marriage.

I mean given the high rate of divorce in the society, the high rate of infidelity, domestic/verbal assault, and also the high rate of children without morals, values or ethics, one can comfortably say marriage should be a thing of personal opinion, not something you come on social media to rant about.

So if truly marriage is an achievement like the simpleton said, why isn't he married and why does he go about doing insane things just to get cheap attention like a brothel whore_ who hasn't seen a customer to fvck her for 500 Naira.

This man call Mike is a nuisance to himself and cyber space. Believe him at your own risk. Period.

I'm coming

This guy specialises in tormenting feminists

One babe don use kanyamata wash diswan head finish

I maintain that being married is an achievement, whatever you do with your marriage is another subject entirely.

This one don suddenly become authority

Na this Mad man. This is d first time i'll hear him say something meaningful

A successful marriage is an achievement. Simply getting married is not.

Everything comes to Frontpage

We know that

Can't lie he's right on this , cause the amount of crack head ladies and gents on these streets is
so alarmingg for someone to find you worthy to even think of spending the rest of their lives with you.

Love is the hardest job our emotions has employed us into. To lovê is a verb, an action word but our generation has turned it to feelings. Na why Bible talk say, for better for worse.
It's like hunger, eating Na job but we have turned it to a beautiful thing by eating our choice delicacy. You don't want to eat a meal your whole life, you also don't want to over feed or under feed.
Love is a basic need you all must experience everyday, you go sha like something if no be human or animal, Na inanimate object or an abstract ideal like career, passion etc.
The problem is when we start trusting people instead of having faith in people.
Trust is good but hard to forgive when broken.
Faith is good but you just behave like it is expected and move on when broken.
Na why Bible talk say have faith in God, have faith in what you want, have faith. He get why.
Na only God you fit trust and Na for person whey get big heart whey don grow past life rat race, cuz life fit hit you like Job, then your trust is tested .
Faith is believing and hoping it will happen and if it doesn't you keep having faith even when it keeps breaking your heart, mind, soul, emotions, life and everything you've worked for. Sha don't lose faith, cuz humans are humans, they will always fail you if it doesn't go their selfish ways.

We all selfish, even person doing good has his selfish gratification and heavenly reward which they will deny if you question their intent for doing the good.

Marriage is the best project that can build the next generation, out of its mistake comes the peer pressure, stubborn children, and explorative freedom that doesn't take into consideration the impact of their freedom on others.


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Shikena:
A successful marriage is an achievement. Simply getting married is not.

Simply getting married is an achievement please, you need to ask those who had dated for almost a decade only to be dropped in the last minute.

Some people are bringing wrong opinions about those who come here to complain after marriage but they forgot that marriage is like any other form of human interaction which there will always be a complaint just as brothers and sisters in a family have complaint about each other or church members atimes have about themselves, you can not expect marriage now to be an automated non problematic union

FolabiCash:
Can't lie he's right on this , cause the amount of crack head ladies and gents on these streets is
so alarmingg for someone to find you worthy to even think of spending the rest of their lives with you.

You can get married within a week if you really want that, what comes out of the union is another matter entirely, and that's what determines achievement .

Bj