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That's when you are not married to some idiot called wife.. Some men wen wife dey show red pepper for their houses, go vex for pretty mike for this one

THIS THREAD IS FILLED WITH VERY BITTER SET OF PEOPLE! TUFIAKWA!!!

He make's sense this time.

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Nigerian socialite, PrettyMike of Lagos has stated via his Instagram handle that marriage is a high achievement and he has warned people not to be deceived by people who say marriage is not achievement, IgbereTV reports.

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COMING FROM A MAN!

Shikena:
It is not! It is emphatically not an achievement. You can pick anybody and get married. My gateman is married to two beautiful ladies, he got the second one during the lockdown .

I need to refer you back to the meaning of achievement.

J2381:
the one you responded to, Mr Aproko

u sound hurt and are already getting emotional. which one did i respond to?

no money no successful marriage... don't let anyone tell u otherwise

dpassion8:
no money no successful marriage... don't let anyone tell u otherwise

The idea of a successful marriage is contextual and it's informative to let you know that a marriage in a remote area in Kebbi could be termed successful to another marriage in Banana island, Lagos.

What is your definition of a successful marriage, if I may ask?

With a good being, it is.

Iyaebe:
I am pro marriage and I believe it's an achievement if you get it right. So let those of us who believe in marriage play our cards well and not allow ourselves get into the wrong hands.shalom

Marriage is the best thing that happened to me. Bachelorhood was all rich and noisy. My marriage has been all wealth and signals.

I wish people can play around very much with beautiful ladies and throw the monies around like there is no tomorrow so rhat when they finally settle down and get married, they will realize how incomplete bachelorhood really is.

Marriage to a naija girls is first step to hell on Earth Very useless, lazy, self entitled lot.
Ordinary dating, they'll turn it poverty alleviation program

Lugianostar:
Marriage is an achievement [s]as children born out of wedlock are easily seen as outcast compared to their peers who are born within the contract of marriage.[/s]

If one is married in our African setting, one is classified as been responsible as respectable compared to others that are not.

Everything boil to a good background before the marriage is established and what drives the 2 imperfect folks who loves and respect each other.

What has being born out of wedlock got to do with human potential or ability to do great things in life?

ActuaRise696969:
Marriage is the best thing that happened to me. Bachelorhood was all rich and noisy. My marriage has been all wealth and signals.

I wish people can play around very much with beautiful ladies and throw the monies around like there is no tomorrow so rhat when they finally settle down and get married, they will realize how incomplete bachelorhood really is.

Bachelorhood is not incompetent, everybody must not marry! Marriage is good when you find the right person, but when you find the wrong person, you will regret the day you are born. Last last, everybody should do what makes them happy

You don finish matter.

Starz825:
I know of people who had been alive till this very moment if they had decided not to get married...
In other words...na marriage to their partners kill them....
Getting married to a wrong partner isn't something you notice at first......
Good people could turn out to be bad at the end....
Na just God fit help person...
Personally for me, I don't know if I will get a wife or have my own baby yet (esp in this our present Naija)... I'm still in between...
Because sometimes I feel like what are you enjoying as a citizen that you want to bring an innocent child to this country....I think that's the best way to help my unborn child... To leave the four walls of this country before having a child....

TooNoisy:
70% of those that say being married is no big deal are people who have either failed woefully at getting a spouse or keeping one. Most of them really desired married but it just didn’t work out. Rather than them admitting they failed, they begin to belittle the successes of those that got it right!

Marriage is ordained by God. It is a wonderful institution with a lot of fun when it is with the right partner. It is even more fun when there is money!

Lol.

I totally agree with your position BUT you can't keep pulling statistics out of thin air, unless you've at least done a little study.

Haha.

Iyaebe:
I am pro marriage and I believe it's an achievement if you get it right. So let those of us who believe in marriage play our cards well and not allow ourselves get into the wrong hands.shalom

Oya come make we MARRY

Sonnobax15:

I may only agree with him on one condition,and that's marriage will be a man's greatest achievement if he's married to the right banny......But in such cases whereby we see married men rushing down here to nairaland to complain about how their bannies have been big Problems in their lives, that's what I don't wanna be a victim of

Are you coming correct as well? It takes two tango. No be only woman dey make marriage no work.

Marriage is NOT ORDAINED by any gods. Marriage is a CHOICE. [/b]If you find the right person and you both want to kill each other with enjoyment, then it is an achievement.

But many marriages in Nigeria and globally are [b]suffering and smiling. People are MURDERING their spouses because they don’t want to get divorced.

omooba969:
Simply getting married is an achievement please, you need to ask those who had dated for almost a decade only to be dropped in the last minute.

Relax first jareh...

The word achievement is relative, what is an achievement to a person may not be an achievement to another...and from the increasely high rate of divorce, physical and verbal abuse, I'd say being married alone is not an achievement!!!

The achievement in marriage is having a very supportive and understanding spouse who knows you, accepts you and is willing to make the necessary sacrifice to making you a better person in all ramifications....

If marriage is an achievement to you, then that's awk (((it's your opinion and I respect it))), but I hope you'd still say this confidently if you end up with a spouse that gives you he'll on Earth...

Omo even with the right partner marriage is hard asf. With money or not it's hard asf, with kids or not it's hard asf. Every decision you make won't be about you anymore. There are days you would just want to go out and not come back and then some days you can't wait to get home and basks in that love marriage offers. Oh but it's hard asf. So if you ever decide to get into it, think about it deeply and don't get carried away by the superficial stuff they are superficial for a reason.
So yeah it's an achievement for every day you both make it work. Because marriage is hard asf but it can be one of the best life decisions you will ever make.

Marriage ordain by God? Jesus never married so also great apostles and great men that did exploits in the bible. The bible only admonished us to do so!

TooNoisy:
70% of those that say being married is no big deal are people who have either failed woefully at getting a spouse or keeping one. Most of them really desired married but it just didn’t work out. Rather than them admitting they failed, they begin to belittle the successes of those that got it right!

Marriage is ordained by God. It is a wonderful institution with a lot of fun when it is with the right partner. It is even more fun when there is money!

babyfaceafrica:
Bachelorhood is not incompetent, everybody must not marry! Marriage is good when you find the right person, but when you find the wrong person, you will regret the day you are born. Last last, everybody should do what makes them happy

I wrote 'incomplete' not incompetent.

ActuaRise696969:
I wrote 'incomplete' not incompetent.

Okay, my bad, what's incomplete about bachelorhood?

Favfables:
Relax first jareh...

The word achievement is relative, what is an achievement to a person may not be an achievement to another...and from the increasely high rate of divorce, physical and verbal abuse, I'd say being married alone is not an achievement!!!

The achievement in marriage is having a very supportive and understanding spouse who knows you, accepts you and is willing to make the necessary sacrifice to making you a better person in all ramifications....

If marriage is an achievement to you, then that's awk (((it's your opinion and I respect it))), but I hope you'd still say this confidently if you end up with a spouse that gives you he'll on Earth...

Most of you don't gerrit.

I repeat, simply getting married is an achievement but what you do with your marriage or whatever happens in your marriage is another subject entirely.

We have many graduates around and their respective degrees is an achievement. What you do with your certificate or how you apply yourself is another subject entirely.

Hope you gerrit.

Commendable thoughts and essay.
Kudos to both he and Mr. Money for not having any baby mamas and tons of out of wedlock children running around.

lexy2014:
u sound hurt and are already getting emotional. which one did i respond to?

I'm sure you're seeing me face to face for you to make such baseless assumption about me being hurt and emotional.

Well you know what they say "assumption is the mother of all fvck ups". So which one did you respond to?

babyfaceafrica:
Okay, my bad, what's incomplete about bachelorhood?

Quite a lot.

Organically, we are binary beings.

The inner yearning to bond with your opposite, requires an understanding of their human energy signature of the particle you should be bonding with, without which you can only be lucky to thrive. Otherwise, life and success becomes unpredictable.

And even at that, life requires slave-like tolerance.

But when you make a choice of one, having understood their human energy system and read their weak-point, you can help them watch out while also having absolute understanding of the personality flaw. With that level of understanding, life becomes less entropy and more predictive.

Home and Life becomes Peaceful and success becomes stable and permanent. Even the married ones who are addicted to living like bachelors in their minds, face these instabilities. When you married because it is time to be married and make the right choice, you will realize how noisy and incomplete life has been, in a bachelor mindset.

omooba969:
Most of you don't gerrit.

I repeat, simply getting married is an achievement but what you do with your marriage or whatever happens in your marriage is another subject entirely.

We have many graduates around and their respective degrees is an achievement. What you do with your certificate or how you apply yourself is another subject entirely.

Hope you gerrit.

Even the ones who use aggressive malpractice to graduate?

J2381:
I'm sure you're seeing me face to face for you to make such baseless assumption about me being hurt and emotional.

Well you know what they say "assumption is the mother of all fvck ups". So which one did you respond to?

I don't need to see u face to face. Your words betray ur feelings and emotions. Which one did u say I responded to?

omooba969:
Most of you don't gerrit.

I repeat, simply getting married is an achievement but what you do with your marriage or whatever happens in your marriage is another subject entirely.

We have many graduates around and their respective degrees is an achievement. What you do with your certificate or how you apply yourself is another subject entirely.

Hope you gerrit.

Read the second and last paragraph of my earlier post and then read your response again...

I hope you get it this time

lexy2014:
I don't need to see u face to face. Your words betray ur feelings and emotions. Which one did u say I responded to?

Yeah right, as your words betray your total lack of sense and acute stupidity.

So which of my comment did you respond to?