Hello everyone,
My relationship is hanging on the fence now.
I have this lady that I am in good terms with,in my office space (though not officially dating) but we talk about everything including sex chat and monthly period calculation but we have never had a physical romantic hangout together and now she has relocated to another state and we still chat but now it's very rare.(only weekend's or when she's expecting her flow.
NOW I have a girlfriend whom I love and live with, she is understandable and nice. She noticed me my hiding my calls and chat with my friend from her So she some how got my phone read our dirty chats and she grew annoyed and went sober, I pleaded with her telling her that there's nothing more between us than the chats but she refused and felt like she is an option in my life. She ( my girlfriend) feels the other lady is a working class girl and she is not and I may dump her for the lady. But the truth is that I love her and she is now doubting me and doesn't believe my words anymore. And it's pulling me apart
What would I do to win her trust back.

Why must you hide the chat if there's nothing special about it? Besides, the lady in question wasn't intimate with you before she left. Get your house in order by giving your lady reasons to believe you or leave her alone.

Kondomatic:
If you're in your girlfriend's shoes, will you be comfortable with the chats?

This right here, sums it up.

"With her flow". Oga are you a menstrual therapist?

Paulpaulpaul:
Why must you hide the chat if there's nothing special about it? Besides, the lady in question wasn't intimate with you before she left. Get your house in order by giving your lady reasons to believe you or leave her alone.

We were not intimate at all

Lol!
90 % of Nigerian girls have at least 2 fúckíng lovers whether they chose to live with you or not. Even if you are seeing her for 23.5 hours in a day, just know the remaining 30 mins is when she use to play her games.
The craziest evil thing they know how to do best is:
PLAY THE VICTIM CARD
and
GUILT-TRIP YOU

Never ever trust them. Even the married ones still fornicate.

If you ever get a chance to go through her own phone, I'm sure you'll be devastated by what you'll see...

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Collins1507:

We were not intimate at all

Whether this is true or not doesn't matter.
One thing I'm sure of is that she'll take her revenge on you no matter how much time it takes.
THEY NEVER FORGIVE... and you'll definitely be used for cuckolding...

UncleKoboko:
Lol!
90 % of Nigerian girls have at least 2 fúckíng lovers whether they chose to live with you or not. Even if you are seeing her for 23.5 hours in a day, just know the remaining 30 mins is when she use to play her games.
The craziest evil thing they know how to do best is:
PLAY THE VICTIM CARD
and
GUILT-TRIP YOU

Never ever trust them. Even the married ones still fornicate.

If you ever get a chance to go through her own phone, I'm sure you'll be devastated by what you'll see...

I know she has lots of male friends and sometimes goes to visit them,
she's still a student and still intact.

If u are in her position u would have broken up with her

Bombastically00:
If u are in her position u would have broken up with her

Not really,
I don't really rush to conclusions like she is doing now

Collins1507:

We were not intimate at all

Let your latest lady know the truth and desist from this despicable behaviour. Real men don't sëxchat random girls. It shows you don't respect your girlfriend.

Collins1507:
Hello everyone,
My relationship is hanging on the fence now.
I have this lady that I am in good terms with,in my office space (though not officially dating) but we talk about everything including sex chat and monthly period calculation but we have never had a physical romantic hangout together and now she has relocated to another state and we still chat but now it's very rare.(only weekend's or when she's expecting her flow.
NOW I have a girlfriend whom I love and live with, she is understandable and nice. She noticed me my hiding my calls and chat with my friend from her So she some how got my phone read our dirty chats and she grew annoyed and went sober, I pleaded with her telling her that there's nothing more between us than the chats but she refused and felt like she is an option in my life. She ( my girlfriend) feels the other lady is a working class girl and she is not and I may dump her for the lady. But the truth is that I love her and she is now doubting me and doesn't believe my words anymore. And it's pulling me apart
What would I do to win her trust back.

me sef whey read this your story dey doubt you.

Since u were hiding the chats n call from the other lady, you are guilty! you will dump this innocent girl for your office colleague.

Collins1507:


I know she has lots of male friends and sometimes goes to visit them,
she's still a student and still intact.

Lol
Keep fooling yourself.

Intact purugi there

You usually do virginity test on a pussy abi?

Besides, I have seen a virgin that has had numerous ànal sex and oral sèx before...
Stop deceiving yourself.

Fixed