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Quarrelling And Searching by slimmaintenance(op): 10:07am On Apr 22, 2016
That moment when you have misunderstanding with your spouse and there is no communication between you, but you are indirectly and stylishly searching and knowing his/her whereabout.
when my wife and I have heated argument and everyone to his/her own, once i come back, i stylishly check her in the room, if she is not there, will pretend as if I want to use the toilet. toilet ke, stylishly searching for her. if she is not there, will check other rooms and their toilets. you become restless when you can't find her even in the kitchen. ordinarily, would have called to know where she is, but because of "nonsense ego" and forming quarrel, will be disturbed silently. nonsense acts we display a times.

what baffles me is that once she shows, I would pretend as if I wasn't bothered. she might even greet me and I would form one nonsense hard man. this is someone I have been stylishly searching and bothered for. she might even ask me to serve me dinner, I would still be forming . can you imagine?

what I have noticed is that once we are forming quarrel, i don't have that inner peace. once we settle, see happiness and joy even hot sex follow.
That searching is what convinces me that I still love my wife.
m
Husband and wife, lets all not form too much for our spouse. always relax after the quarrel.

Enjoy your day
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by Cutehector(m): 10:17am On Apr 22, 2016
Very true
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by mencade5(m): 11:36am On Apr 22, 2016
Quarreled with my fiance last nite. After the whole drama from both party. I apologised and calmed her down. She later apologised to me on how she behaved that she is sorry.

Thats my lover and my best friend.

Dyt where are you?

Love sweet ooooo
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by Dyt(f): 2:53pm On Apr 22, 2016
mencade5:
Quarreled with my fiance last nite. After the whole drama from both party. I apologised and calmed her down. She later apologised to me on how she behaved that she is sorry.

Thats my lover and my best friend.

Dyt where are you?

Love sweet ooooo
She hasn't broken your head yet?
cheesy
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by yvelchstores(f): 7:03pm On Apr 22, 2016
Loool. So true. That inner peace only comes when we make amends.
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by GodnGold: 11:46pm On Apr 22, 2016
Nice.
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by Nobody: 5:53pm On Oct 12, 2017
slimmaintenance:
That moment when you have misunderstanding with your spouse and there is no communication between you, but you are indirectly and stylishly searching and knowing his/her whereabout.
when my wife and I have heated argument and everyone to his/her own, once i come back, i stylishly check her in the room, if she is not there, will pretend as if I want to use the toilet. toilet ke, stylishly searching for her. if she is not there, will check other rooms and their toilets. you become restless when you can't find her even in the kitchen. ordinarily, would have called to know where she is, but because of "nonsense ego" and forming quarrel, will be disturbed silently. nonsense acts we display a times.

what baffles me is that once she shows, I would pretend as if I wasn't bothered. she might even greet me and I would form one nonsense hard man. this is someone I have been stylishly searching and bothered for. she might even ask me to serve me dinner, I would still be forming . can you imagine?

what I have noticed is that once we are forming quarrel, i don't have that inner peace. once we settle, see happiness and joy even hot sex follow.
That searching is what convinces me that I still love my wife.
m
Husband and wife, lets all not form too much for our spouse. always relax after the quarrel.

Enjoy your day
Hmmm @ That searching is what convinces me that I still love my wife.

Husband and wife, lets all not form too much for our spouse. always relax after the quarrel.


So when you're worried, then it's love...Wow... Thanks for edifying we next generation.


This is FP material
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by slimmaintenance(op): 7:26am On Nov 07, 2021
Hmmm @ That searching is what convinces me that I still love my wife.

Husband and wife, lets all not form too much for our spouse. always relax after the quarrel.


[b]So when you're worried, then it's love...[/b]Wow... Thanks for edifying we next generation.


This is FP material
We should just be dropping the nonsense ego.
Most of the long quarrels between spouse are just ego.
Please we should always lower, reduce or throw away ego after quarrel with spouse.
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by Nobody: 8:09am On Nov 07, 2021
I don't think its cool for a woman to apologize to her husband no matter what, it makes you look cheap before him.He sleeps with you and pleasure himself with your body, that's enough lifetime apology if he ever needed one.If you are quick to apologize to your man in any relationship,you loose your value and become sexually unattractive to him.So I don't dig that apology shit,its the man's work to apologize and pamper his wife at all times.
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by lusid: 8:16am On Nov 07, 2021
Iyaebe:
I don't think its cool for a woman to apologize to her husband no matter what, it makes you look cheap before him.He sleeps with you and pleasure himself with your body, that's enough lifetime apology if he ever needed one.If you are quick to apologize to your man in any relationship,you loose your value and become sexually unattractive to him.So I don't dig that apology shit,its the man's work to apologize and pamper his wife at all times.
what if she offends him?
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by Nobody: 8:18am On Nov 07, 2021
lusid:
what if she offends him?
Then she cook for him to it,that should be enough for him.
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by Microwhy: 8:39am On Nov 07, 2021
slimmaintenance:
this is someone I have been stylishly searching and bothered for.
You're bothered because if she's not there and missing you will probably answer to her family about her whereabout.
You're searching for her because you're not too sure of your stance in her life.
You're searching for her because you still don't know who exactly your spouse is and to what extent she can handle the last quarrel.
Nothing like LOVE, its all fiction or an ordinary adjective.
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by slimmaintenance(op): 9:23am On Nov 07, 2021
Iyaebe:
I don't think its cool for a woman to apologize to her husband no matter what, it makes you look cheap before him.He sleeps with you and pleasure himself with your body, that's enough lifetime apology if he ever needed one.If you are quick to apologize to your man in any relationship,you loose your value and become sexually unattractive to him.So I don't dig that apology shit,its the man's work to apologize and pamper his wife at all times.
Even when she is worng and accepts her mistakes .....
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by slimmaintenance(op): 9:24am On Nov 07, 2021
Microwhy:
You're bothered because if she's not there and missing you will probably answer to her family about her whereabout.
You're searching for her because you're not too sure of your stance in her life.
You're searching for her because you still don't know who exactly your spouse is and to what extent she can handle the last quarrel.
Nothing like LOVE, its all fiction or an ordinary adjective.
Different strokes for different folks.
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by emmanuelbrown26: 1:03pm On Nov 07, 2021
Oga op, u never jam heartless and wicked woman. U never jam a woman that's self centered and selfish.
u never jam woman that has unforgiveable spirit.
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by Ulunne777(f): 1:39pm On Nov 07, 2021
grin
We are apart and when we quarrelled recently,his mind didn't give him peace.Its getting to 12pm and I need to sleep so I can wake early.
He calls back and I pick expecting apology but someone is trying to guiltrip me.There's long silence from his end
Me:pls talk fast so I can go to sleep.Helloooo
Him:Talk I'm listening
Me:Your airtime is wasting.
Him:Is it your own airtime?

Back and forth until we say goodnite.
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by sameoldguy: 3:12pm On Nov 07, 2021
Iyaebe:
I don't think its cool for a woman to apologize to her husband no matter what, it makes you look cheap before him.He sleeps with you and pleasure himself with your body, that's enough lifetime apology if he ever needed one.If you are quick to apologize to your man in any relationship,you loose your value and become sexually unattractive to him.So I don't dig that apology shit,its the man's work to apologize and pamper his wife at all times.
So it’s safe to say that women are just swex toys? I mean you just validated that.

Like reallyhuh?
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by slimmaintenance(op): 3:20pm On Nov 07, 2021
Ulunne777:
grin
We are apart and when we quarrelled recently,his mind didn't give him peace.Its getting to 12pm and I need to sleep so I can wake early.
He calls back and I pick expecting apology but someone is trying to guiltrip me.There's long silence from his end
Me:pls talk fast so I can go to sleep.Helloooo
Him:Talk I'm listening
Me:Your airtime is wasting.
Him:Is it your own airtime?

Back and forth until we say goodnite.
It's ego playing out.
Any of you can easily say sorry and bring back that joy and inner peace.
GOD help us to always remove that ego from us
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by Oglock(m): 3:46pm On Nov 07, 2021
sameoldguy:
So it’s safe to say that women are just swex toys? I mean you just validated that.

Like reallyhuh?
Hahahaha
I can't believe a she actually admitted that
grin cheesy
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by greenie77: 4:07pm On Nov 07, 2021
emmanuelbrown26:
Oga op, u never jam heartless and wicked woman. U never jam a woman that's self centered and selfish.
u never jam woman that has unforgiveable spirit.
All you mentioned are not gender-specific as all around us, we have men and women who are reflections of all you wrote there.
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by sameoldguy: 4:37pm On Nov 07, 2021
Oglock:
Hahahaha
I can't believe a she actually admitted that
grin cheesy
She’s always speaking from both sides of the mouth. She’s neither here nor there. Always looking confused.

SMH
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by Karleb(m): 7:24pm On Nov 07, 2021
Ki lelyi nitori olorun! embarassed embarassed

Married people will not kill me o. grin
Re: Quarrelling And Searching by Oglock(m): 7:52pm On Nov 07, 2021
sameoldguy:
She’s always speaking from both sides of the mouth. She’s neither here nor there. Always looking confused.

SMH
Those veginarians
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