Woo

Good list

Respect is earned not demanded

Tho I disagree with ur write up, but I'll try sha.

Well said!. Easy to comprehend!..
This is how one learn and pass to another.. Just like how itz done in Quora..

Nairaland mods itz up to you guys for growth. Continue wit yuh shitty kinda news. Your young ones are watching and learning to act on it.

Salute!

Ozid:
Compliments of the Season to you all. Here are some things to do in 2022 if you don't want to be disrespected.

(1) Stop looking for who is not looking for you.
(2) Stop begging.
(3) Stop saying more than is necessary.
(4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.
(5) Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.
(6) Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't visit you as well
(7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy. Stop entertaining gossip about other people.
(9) Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is because of what comes out of your mouth.
(10) Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.
(11) Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.
(12) Respect your time.
(13) Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.
(14) Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.
(15) Be scarce sometimes.
(16) Be a giver more than a receiver.
(17) Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.
(18) Treat people exactly the way they deserve.
(19) Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.
(20) Be good at what you do. Be the best.

I hope you learn from this, thanks.

Feel free to add yours!!!

Way to go!

Cool

Who will first look for who before you start looking for each other.

make money.

JosephXavier:
Don't lend money to a lady

You'll definitely get insulted when you ask for your money back

LOL. I don't ask for the money back. Give what you can afford.

(4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.


My brother when people disrespect you please free them and let them be

plenty words not necessary this 2022.

Me I no kukuma get anyone time, if you like respect or disrespect me what's goes around come around

timefarm:
Great words there.
Believe in yourself.
Be proactive.
Take risk in all you do.

The year will end well for us.

don't just take risk, But take calculated risk.

Ozid:
Compliments of the Season to you all. Here are some things to do in 2022 if you don't want to be disrespected.

(1) Stop looking for who is not looking for you.
(2) Stop begging.
(3) Stop saying more than is necessary.
(4) When people disrespect you, confront them immediately.
(5) Don't eat other people's food more than they eat yours.
(6) Reduce how you visit some people, especially if they don't visit you as well
(7) Invest in yourself. Make yourself happy. Stop entertaining gossip about other people.
(9) Think before you talk. 80% of how people value you is because of what comes out of your mouth.
(10) Always look your best. Dress the way you should be addressed.
(11) Be an achiever. Get busy with your goals.
(12) Respect your time.
(13) Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel respected and valued. Walk away.
(14) Learn to spend money on yourself. That's how people will learn to spend on you.
(15) Be scarce sometimes.
(16) Be a giver more than a receiver.
(17) Don't go where you are not invited. And when invited don't overstay your welcome.
(18) Treat people exactly the way they deserve.
(19) Except they owe you money, two call attempts is enough. If they value you they will call you back.
(20) Be good at what you do. Be the best.

I hope you learn from this, thanks.

Feel free to add yours!!!

14 and 16 are contradicting

“When we treat people merely as they are, they will remain as they are. When we treat them as if they were what they should be, they will become what they should be.”
Thomas S. Monson


“Nothing is more despicable than respect based on fear.”
Albert Camus


“Never respect men merely for their riches, but rather for their philanthropy; we do not value the sun for its height, but for its use.”
Gamaliel Bailey

“One of the most sincere forms of respect is actually listening to what another has to say.”
Bryant H. McGill

“One of the surprising things in this world is the respect a worthless man has for himself.”
E. W. Howe

Drink lots of water and mind your business.

pay your tithes this year

This topic is very interesting n important to use as a guideline in this new year

Minding my business and continue my struggle silently.

No pokenosing.

OP, thank you so much for this advice.
You spoke to me directly Sir.

GeneralPula:
Nonsense rules everywhere..

Our forefathers enjoyed life way better when these useless rules never happened..

Not true

inderhappy:
Nothing changes here, i have develope one bad habits i call it minding my business..i can stay indoor for over 24hours and you won't know I'm at home...how do i help my self here.

LoL. Same here and yet people won't mind there business and stay out of mine just let me be.

It's really disgusting to say the list.

I'm about to move out from where I'm currently staying because of the neighbors and their busy body I can't deal anymore.

Thoughtful points....

If you want to respect your self this new year, just die. As long as you are alive you will be disrespected one way or the other.

Watch and see how some silly simps will come and insult the OP for saying the plain truth

Read books... informative n Educative books. Read to gain knowledge. Knowledge commands respect too.

MN07:


LoL. Same here and yet people won't mind there business and stay out of mine just let me be.

It's really disgusting to say the list.

I'm about to move out from where I'm currently staying because of the neighbors and their busy body I can't deal anymore.

Hmm.... mine seems worst, because i hardly talk,that some people don't even know i talk at all.

The new one now is that i don't call, except for business, and alot of close relation think I'm in a fight with them or something.

Be careful who you call to keep your secrets cos when you least expected, it's in the open and right before your eyes, you are mocked and dragged in the mud. Stay glued to God and God alone

saintTim:
No lies and don't forget to enjoy your self

Enjoy yourself ooo...wahala no dey finish.

Paxxcarl:
Most importantly mind your business

blanket rule for at least 4 points given

As for me, I started the year by deleting some contacts that felt they have become too big to talk to me and as for calls heaven knows I can't ring you up more than twice if you missed the call and return the call I don't have any issue but if you don't you won't see another beep 4rm me. If you no send me, I no send you too

*Change your circle too, Two poor men can't help themselves. they can only complain!!!