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I Have A Question For You Guys by Nobody: 4:50pm On Feb 19, 2022
There are two men,

One is married with children, but he does not take care of the children, leaves them to fend for themselves and physically and mentally abuse them Everytime he has the chance. He's a drunkard and cheats on his wife many times

There's this second guy, he's married also but instead of having children, he adopts children from the streets that were left to fend for themselves, he takes very good care of them, makes them happy and made sure all their needs were met. But he's gay and he's married to his gay partner.

Who's the better man between the two men?
The one that married a woman or the one that's gay?
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by Nobody: 4:53pm On Feb 19, 2022
The man who is gay...

Besides, homosexuality ain't a bad thing... undecided

He's not a gay father, he's a good father...

The gender of his partner doesn't matter...



Cc... Thesorcerer: I'm perfectly okay... smiley
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by Stephen0mozzy: 4:56pm On Feb 19, 2022
No one should judge another person on the basis of their "Sexual Orientation".

Our fixation of sex and how a person has sex has been the reason of many bad things in the society today. No one cares about whether or not a person is a DECENT AND RESPONSIBLE INDIVIDUAL WITH GOOD INTEGRITY.....we worry and criticize others based on an HOLIER than thou attitude.

The man who fends for others is the better man - remove the label "gay". And if the universe was fair....the "gay" man will even have a better eternity than the other guy - eternity/karma/reincarnation (No one should quote me with religious bigotry)
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by thesicilian: 5:02pm On Feb 19, 2022
If you're gay just come out and say it instead of finding ways to justify your gayness
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:21pm On Feb 19, 2022
the gay dude is obviously a better father, but sadly, in Africa he wouldnt be.
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by Conner44: 5:34pm On Feb 19, 2022
Both men are useless, i can only commend the women in both households for the development of those children
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by Nobody: 5:40pm On Feb 19, 2022
Daveayo1:
There are two men,

One is married with children, but he does not take care of the children, leaves them to fend for themselves and physically and mentally abuse them Everytime he has the chance. He's a drunkard and cheats on his wife many times

There's this second guy, he's married also but instead of having children, he adopts children from the streets that were left to fend for themselves, he takes very good care of them, makes them happy and made sure all their needs were met. But he's gay and he's married to his gay partner.

Who's the better man between the two men?
The one that married a woman or the one that's gay?
So if a man is good in an aspect of his life, he is good?

You don't define a man by only what you see.
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by Chibuzoc(m): 6:04pm On Feb 19, 2022
Nobody is born gay, it's either you are influenced (bad) or abused before becoming one. Let's stop promoting homosexuality.

BTW the other dad is a failure while the gay dad is good now but might be worst in nearest future either by influencing them or abusing them. Remember nobody is born gay
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by Agbegbaorogboye: 2:07pm On Feb 20, 2022
Daveayo1:
There are two men,

One is married with children, but he does not take care of the children, leaves them to fend for themselves and physically and mentally abuse them Everytime he has the chance. He's a drunkard and cheats on his wife many times

There's this second guy, he's married also but instead of having children, he adopts children from the streets that were left to fend for themselves, he takes very good care of them, makes them happy and made sure all their needs were met. But he's gay and he's married to his gay partner.

Who's the better man between the two men?
The one that married a woman or the one that's gay?
Is this your coming out?

Fourteen years boy, fourteen years!!
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by IgweOfNnewi: 2:09pm On Feb 20, 2022
In comparison, the gay is better
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by Nobody: 2:17pm On Feb 20, 2022
Stephen0mozzy:
No one should judge another person on the basis of their "Sexual Orientation".

Our fixation of sex and how a person has sex has been the reason of many bad things in the society today. No one cares about whether or not a person is a DECENT AND RESPONSIBLE INDIVIDUAL WITH GOOD INTEGRITY.....we worry and criticize others based on an HOLIER than thou attitude.

The man who fends for others is the better man - remove the label "gay". And if the universe was fair....the "gay" man will even have a better eternity than the other guy - eternity/karma/reincarnation (No one should quote me with religious bigotry)
Is this also applicable to other sexual orientations? As in, if a person has integrity and he's decent (whatever that means), but he enjoys sex with animals (bestiality) or with a dead body (necrophilia), would you judge him the same way?
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by Nobody: 2:19pm On Feb 20, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
the gay dude is obviously a better father, but sadly, in Africa he wouldnt be.
A person can be a better father without being a better person. As in, Abacha was definitely a great father to his children.
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by Nokio1: 2:21pm On Feb 20, 2022
Gay bu u b good guy
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by flokii: 2:30pm On Feb 20, 2022
Anything but gay please.. even a straight male dog has more dignity than them.
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by flokii:
Agbegbaorogboye:
Is this your coming out?

Fourteen years boy, fourteen years!!
Why do people keep using the term 'coming out' for those mentally fvcked people?.. Soon straight guys will be getting advances from the gay bit.ches and it can lead to murder cases springing up. Imagine a dirty, pampers wearing thing cutting eye for a you as a man. Horrible!!
The fact that they go against the natural order of nature makes them bad and evil.
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by iLoveYouToo(m): 2:36pm On Feb 20, 2022
In Nigeria they’d prefer to mob a man for being and set a killer free. Sickos
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by Stephen0mozzy: 2:43pm On Feb 20, 2022
HedwigesMaduro:
Is this also applicable to other sexual orientations? As in, if a person has integrity and he's decent (whatever that means), but he enjoys sex with animals (bestiality) or with a dead body (necrophilia), would you judge him the same way?
Would you judge a murderer differently from the "mis-yarned" examples you gave?

Last I checked, OP's question and instances are so clearly stated that an old woman with Alzheimer's will even comprehend.. You thus surprise me for a "healthy adult".
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:04pm On Feb 20, 2022
HedwigesMaduro:
A person can be a better father without being a better person. As in, Abacha was definitely a great father to his children.
a better father is a better person to this child. regardless on your views towards tutti fruttis....what you are trying to say is that "you" dont see a gay person as a good person, because of your own narrow minded way of thinking. i certainly dont believe that a gay dude is a bad person, so long as they dont try to enforce their way of thinking to others.

focus on the child first and foremost.
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by Nobody: 8:27pm On Feb 20, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
a better father is a better person to this child. regardless on your views towards tutti fruttis....what you are trying to say is that "you" dont see a gay person as a good person, because of your own narrow minded way of thinking. i certainly dont believe that a gay dude is a bad person, so long as they dont try to enforce their way of thinking to others.

focus on the child first and foremost.
Do you see a person that has sex with a dead body as good person?
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by Nobody: 8:29pm On Feb 20, 2022
Stephen0mozzy:
Would you judge a murderer differently from the "mis-yarned" examples you gave?

Last I checked, OP's question and instances are so clearly stated that an old woman with Alzheimer's will even comprehend.. You thus surprise me for a "healthy adult".
I thought you were talking of sexual orientation? You don't know what that means, or your memory just happens to last for 5 seconds?
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by Stephen0mozzy: 8:48pm On Feb 20, 2022
HedwigesMaduro:
I thought you were talking of sexual orientation? You don't know what that means, or your memory just happens to last for 5 seconds?
k.
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:38am On Feb 21, 2022
HedwigesMaduro:
Do you see a person that has sex with a dead body as good person?
thats a mentally sick person (no better than a sick pedo) but they could well be good fathers/mothers, yeah! their sick traits doesnt automatically make them bad parents. many of these mentally sick people are great parents!
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by Nobody: 10:50pm On Feb 23, 2022
MrBrownJay1:
thats a mentally sick person (no better than a sick pedo) but they could well be good fathers/mothers, yeah! their sick traits doesnt automatically make them bad parents. many of these mentally sick people are great parents!
Same way gay people were viewed before. As being sick. In the future it won't surprise me if necrophiles are viewed as normal humans. And I'd be less surprised to see people who will defend them.
Re: I Have A Question For You Guys by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:16am On Feb 24, 2022
HedwigesMaduro:
Same way gay people were viewed before. As being sick. In the future it won't surprise me if necrophiles are viewed as normal humans. And I'd be less surprised to see people who will defend them.
you probably right, only time will tell.
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