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Righteousness2:
If you as a man marry a lady just because of sex or because of she has big boobs or Big behind, you are of all men most miserable.

Same goes for the ladies.

Marriage is way beyond Big boobs, sex, beauty and all that.

Marriage is beautiful but you should be Ready to Endure, sacrifice, love, Submit as couples.

Most Important, Conciously make GOD ALMIGHTY the Pillar and Foundation of your Home.

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lereinter:
Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband

1conrinthians 7:2

If not that fornication was a sin, no matter the benefit of marriage who will marry

Hedonini:
Before? You don't need any fake pastor to tell you the obvious. Only nincompoops marry for sex and such. It's the worst reason for anybody, male or female, to get married.

Oh she sabi ride or she get sweet pucci... Or he sabi fvck like tiger, he no dey tire. Lol. All that na during the no pressure dating/playing phase. Two seconds, everything go change and e go be like scam

When the unavoidable see finish of living together day after day after day enter, plus the endless pressures upon pressures of family life, na body go tell you.

Kobojunkie:
So what you are saying is that, Jesus Christ, the one who outright told you that your marriages have nothing to do with God's Kingdom, lied?

derecho:
Lied how?

GUNITGuy:
True and not a complete truth .....Sex is part of of the package marriage offers don't allow this People deceive you about ideals they themselves can't keep....
Paul strictly said if you can't hold Marry there's nothing wrong with that was the standard not the present day what people use marriage for .......
Let nobody trap you with undue religious demands will only lead to hypocrisy

Sammydanny:
A Nigerian clergyman, Debo Adeleye, has warned intending couples against getting married just for sexual pleasure.

While preaching in his church recently, Adeleye said those who get married only for the sex, would get tired and then realize their mistake.

Watch the video below:

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realray:
he's right and wrong at the same times cos even apostle Paul said it that if you can't hold ur body (can't do wit out sex) then get married so you getting married because of sex not minding the looks but to avoid funication is not wrong to me as long as you don't sin against God but also we should try and help our spiritual man so as to not being carnally minded....

Kobojunkie:
You claim you marriages are to be compared to the relationship between Jesus Christ and His Church, but Jesus Christ taught you instead that your marriages are of this world and not of His Kingdom - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36.

Also Jesus Christ gave no special rules for those married except that the contract was binding and divorce was only allowed under set circumstances. The same rules that applied to those who chose to remain Eunuchs for the sake of the Kingdom of God apply as far as those who chose marriage instead.

You claim your marriages are dear to God but Jesus Christ says instead they have of this world and this world only. So who is lying?

derecho:
But let's assume we don't know much,are you saying Jesus was against marriage? Or what are you trying to say as you even admitted that Jesus was against infidelity in marriage.

oladejie:
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Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ told you your marriages are of this world [/b]and not of the Kingdom of God - [b]Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - meaning your relationships begin and end on earth and as such it matters not whether you are married or not, instead what matters is whether you as an individual are living your life in obedience to His Law and commandments or not.

God created some Eunuchs from birth, allowed some become Eunuchs in this life and permitted others to live as Eunuchs for the sake of His Kingdom. So whether you chose to marry or you chose to remain single, the same blessings of God are available to all - none more blessed than the other in their choice.

Jesus Christ is also against the same infidelity in those who are single- Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28 - applies to both the single and married. The sexual sin of lust after a woman who are not married to is sin whether single or married.

derecho:
You make me laugh with your explanations.
I bolded " not of this world".
No scripture stands in isolation.
Jesus was telling them that over there (in heaven, His kingdom) people don't marry.He used angels as example because they aren't humans.
Jesus deliberately answered the scribes/Pharisees that way because He knew them and their intention.
So Jesus was NEVER against marriage here on earth for believers. It is marriage,here on earth, that'd/supposed to perpetuate mankind.

I don't know what you mean by infidelity amongst singles.
Lust is a different issue...it has to do with impure (sexual)desire in this case.
A single person must flee from formication. If he/she burns with desire, he/she should marry.

I deliberately didn't want to cite scriptures cos I believe these are basic things for those who understand scriptures

Kobojunkie:
Please carefully reread my previous post so you grasp the meaning in what is written


Jesus Christ told you your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - meaning your relationships begin and end on earth and as such it matters not whether you are married or not, instead what matters is whether you as an individual are living your life in obedience to His Law and commandments or not.

God created some Eunuchs from birth, allowed some become Eunuchs in this life and permitted others to live as Eunuchs for the sake of His Kingdom. So whether you chose to marry or you chose to remain single, the same blessings of God are available to all - none more blessed than the other in their choice.

Jesus Christ is also against the same infidelity in those who are single- Matthew 5 vs 27 - 28 - applies to both the single and married. The sexual sin of lust after a woman who are not married to is sin whether single or married.

derecho:
Do you really understand the Luke 20:34-36 that you've been quoting? I hinted you to read the preceding verses to understand but it's obvious you didn't read it.

Go and read the same thing recorded in Matthew 22 and Mark 12

Kobojunkie:
Did Jesus Christ in fact make clear that your marriages are of this world and not of you Kingdom of God in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36? YES OR NO?

Did Jesus Christ contradict this statement He made of marriage anywhere in Mark 12 or Matthew 22? YES OR No?

derecho:
@kobojunkie
I decided to post that for you to understand the bible you are quoting.
That Mark 12:18-25 is the same scenario with the Luke 20 you are quoting as well as Matthew 22.

Kobojunkie:
My questions to you are straight up.

What parts of Mark 12 and Matthew 22 contradict what Jesus Christ is written to have said in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36?

I assume you are here attempting to invalidate the claims made in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - , since that seems to be the bulk of your attempts so far and I am asking you in which of what you have so for pointed to has any of what Jesus Christ is written to have said in those verses nullified?

derecho:
If you have been reading my replies, you won't be asking the same questions.
All I am saying is,you don't understand what you're quoting. The same thing is in those scriptures I cited.
To help you understand Luke 20:34-36, I helped you paste it from verse 17
1.to help you see that it's the same account in Matthew 22 and Mark 12
2.To help you understand what Jesus was responding to
I also used the simplest version I can find (which is NLT) because I wanted to be as basic as possible.

KJV is not for everybody

Summary,
Read with understanding

Kobojunkie:
All I have noticed is you side step questions directed at you so you can continue arguing meaninglessly against what is in fact written right there in scripture for all to see and comprehend even in the simplest of human language.

Again... My questions to you are straight up.

What parts of Mark 12 and Matthew 22 contradict what Jesus Christ is written to have said in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36?

I assume you are here attempting to invalidate the claims made in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - , since that seems to be the bulk of your attempts so far and I am asking you in which of what you have so for pointed to has any of what Jesus Christ is written to have said in those verses nullified?

derecho:
Well I don't argue...I discuss.
Your observation is not correct too but you are excused. Thank you

Kobojunkie:
If you were indeed discussing, you would have answered my questions by now.

derecho:
That's the difference between us.You saw it as an argument which you must win..hence your approach.
When you discuss, you share.
Besides, I'm not obligated to answer everything I'm asked especially if it doesn't add value to me or the audience.
Wise men discuss but fools argue

Kobojunkie:
Look, if you aren't even able to answer the questions to this point,I am left to believe that you are looking to argue meaninglessly.