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Help!,I am depressed by RalphJnr(op): 1:47pm On Mar 02, 2022
Hi NL
I don't really know where to post this but I hope I find the right attention under this section.
My name is Stephen, I stay at Ibadan.
Currently, I am without any help from any friends not even my family. My mum and dad divorced when I was in Ss3 which really affects me badly since then up till now
They have both remarried to different person with kids but my mum goes with my younger sister leaving I and my brother to fends for ourselves
After I graduated, I started during teacher so as not to dull my brain as most people call it as I was waiting in on admission
Admission came,no one was ready to help
And ever since, have grow alot of interest in Entrepreneurship
To cut the long story short,now I am stuck
In the means of fighting for survival all alone I find myself in a cleaning job at a private hospital here in Ibadan in the midst of women who have no choice like me just to put food on the table for their kids or support their husband
Now, I am depressed
I am been scold every single day just because I am a young guy and many people treats you like you are nothing especially when I am cleaning the VIP section of the hospital (those rich brats are silly)
I find myself thinking about suicide every single day maybe I could rewrite my destiny somewhere again
I am on 18k salary(T.fare,Rent,Food and some other things that show up is all there)
All because I don't want to do the Yahoo Yahoo stuffs most of my friends has neglect me
Though,I already give myself some courage on saving over 100k and invest in cloth business but it's still not working out as I manage to 5k every month
So with that,how many months or year will I have to work this way?
Please I need help!!!
Re: Help!,I am depressed by jidesam168(m): 2:22pm On Mar 02, 2022
bro dont be depressed, keep pushing, tommorow is better, you can as well try to learn a skill ain your off days, May God make ways where there is no way.
Re: Help!,I am depressed by RalphJnr(op): 2:49pm On Mar 02, 2022
Bro
I already did
I learnt about cloth business at Gbagi for two years until I told my boss last year december that I will like to take some time off due to hunger and bills
I need to hustle for survival
You know how apprenticeship works
You no go see money
jidesam168:
bro dont be depressed, keep pushing, tommorow is better, you can as well try to learn a skill ain your off days, May God make ways where there is no way.
Re: Help!,I am depressed by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:25pm On Mar 02, 2022
as they say...

Re: Help!,I am depressed by Question1: 9:21pm On Mar 02, 2022
Hey bro,

I don't usually come or post on NL but I somehow found myself here today! Sorry about all you have been through in the name of survival. I also respect the fact that you're trying to make a living for yourself by every legitimate means possible. I'll add that nothing is easy to achieve but with God's grace and little perseverance, everything is possible.

To get yourself out of poverty, you need to educate yourself. Information Technology is the fastest growing industry and with serious dedication, discipline, commitment and hard-work you can earn a living.

Do you have a laptop or can you get one? Can you learn programming or Data Science? I am willing to pay for your online courses, training and certificate. All you have to do is convince me enough on how you'll utilize this opportunity to be a better person.
Re: Help!,I am depressed by tensazangetsu20(m): 9:37pm On Mar 02, 2022
So wait o, two people can have sex out of no ones consent and now one needs to suffer through life. Jesus cry cry cry
Re: Help!,I am depressed by eldervine: 9:56pm On Mar 02, 2022
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Re: Help!,I am depressed by Avast(m): 12:46am On Mar 03, 2022
is your place closer to challenge? RalphJnr
Re: Help!,I am depressed by Frankbamideleom: 2:14am On Mar 03, 2022
Take up and highincome skill. Learn and master it.
Gradually you will be able to generate a better income for yourself. Copywritting is a good way to start. The good thing is if you master the skill you will make money. I'm taking another training on copywriting for a month. Tuition Fee is just 1k for earlybird. Benefits are you will get free Access to course videos worth over 20k, you will also get free access to one of the largest copywriting library, you will be thought how to earn 100k and how to make money with copywriting. Asides the 1k TuitionFee you don't need to pay any money to startup copywriting career. All you need is your phone and internet. You can whatsapp me on 08036869211. I'll be more than willing to help you.
RalphJnr:
Hi NL
I don't really know where to post this but I hope I find the right attention under this section.
My name is Stephen, I stay at Ibadan.
Currently, I am without any help from any friends not even my family. My mum and dad divorced when I was in Ss3 which really affects me badly since then up till now
They have both remarried to different person with kids but my mum goes with my younger sister leaving I and my brother to fends for ourselves
After I graduated, I started during teacher so as not to dull my brain as most people call it as I was waiting in on admission
Admission came,no one was ready to help
And ever since, have grow alot of interest in Entrepreneurship
To cut the long story short,now I am stuck
In the means of fighting for survival all alone I find myself in a cleaning job at a private hospital here in Ibadan in the midst of women who have no choice like me just to put food on the table for their kids or support their husband
Now, I am depressed
I am been scold every single day just because I am a young guy and many people treats you like you are nothing especially when I am cleaning the VIP section of the hospital (those rich brats are silly)
I find myself thinking about suicide every single day maybe I could rewrite my destiny somewhere again
I am on 18k salary(T.fare,Rent,Food and some other things that show up is all there)
All because I don't want to do the Yahoo Yahoo stuffs most of my friends has neglect me
Though,I already give myself some courage on saving over 100k and invest in cloth business but it's still not working out as I manage to 5k every month
So with that,how many months or year will I have to work this way?
Please I need help!!!
Re: Help!,I am depressed by JoyousFurnitire(m): 3:17am On Mar 03, 2022
Frankbamideleom:
Take up and highincome skill. Learn and master it.
Gradually you will be able to generate a better income for yourself. Copywritting is a good way to start. The good thing is if you master the skill you will make money. I'm taking another training on copywriting for a month. Tuition Fee is just 1k for earlybird. Benefits are you will get free Access to course videos worth over 20k, you will also get free access to one of the largest copywriting library, you will be thought how to earn 100k and how to make money with copywriting. Asides the 1k TuitionFee you don't need to pay any money to startup copywriting career. All you need is your phone and internet. You can whatsapp me on 08036869211. I'll be more than willing to help you.
Chai! you still want collect money?

OP makes 18k and probably feeds his younger brother, like you didn't read at all?

You're a shameless fellow!
Re: Help!,I am depressed by JoyousFurnitire(m): 3:22am On Mar 03, 2022
Question1:
Hey bro,

I don't usually come or post on NL but I somehow found myself here today! Sorry about all you have been through in the name of survival. I also respect the fact that you're trying to make a living for yourself by every legitimate means possible. I'll add that nothing is easy to achieve but with God's grace and little perseverance, everything is possible.

To get yourself out of poverty, you need to educate yourself. Information Technology is the fastest growing industry and with serious dedication, discipline, commitment and hard-work you can earn a living.

Do you have a laptop or can you get one? Can you learn programming or Data Science? I am willing to pay for your online courses, training and certificate. All you have to do is convince me enough on how you'll utilize this opportunity to be a better person.
Thankfully there's someone here with a good heart, bless you.

Honestly, I wish I can join you on this because my concern has been; how the OP will survive during this building phase?

With const daily practice of at least 4-8 hrs and proper guidance and mentorship, it will take the OP at least 6 - 8 months to be job ready. We shouldn't forget programming demands full attention and I don't think it's ideal for the OP to go about his cleaning job and also learning, it won't be easy.

Nonetheless, OP should see if it's feasible. It's a life changing one.

If the OP can do it, I'll be happy to help in anyway I can along the way.
Re: Help!,I am depressed by 1billionman: 9:42am On Mar 03, 2022
Avast:
is your place closer to challenge? RalphJnr
Please am in same condition with op if there's any opportunity close to challenge am willing to relocate bellow are my contact details
08101132009
Re: Help!,I am depressed by RalphJnr(op): 11:19am On Mar 03, 2022
Sure brother
I will never let you down but I don't have a laptop
I only have my android phone
Question1:
Hey bro,

I don't usually come or post on NL but I somehow found myself here today! Sorry about all you have been through in the name of survival. I also respect the fact that you're trying to make a living for yourself by every legitimate means possible. I'll add that nothing is easy to achieve but with God's grace and little perseverance, everything is possible.

To get yourself out of poverty, you need to educate yourself. Information Technology is the fastest growing industry and with serious dedication, discipline, commitment and hard-work you can earn a living.

Do you have a laptop or can you get one? Can you learn programming or Data Science? I am willing to pay for your online courses, training and certificate. All you have to do is convince me enough on how you'll utilize this opportunity to be a better person.
Re: Help!,I am depressed by RalphJnr(op): 11:19am On Mar 03, 2022
Yes
Avast:
is your place closer to challenge? RalphJnr
Re: Help!,I am depressed by RalphJnr(op): 11:21am On Mar 03, 2022
I will be so glad to take this opportunity
If I can survive since all these years
I am sure I will survive through this stage also
JoyousFurnitire:
Thankfully there's someone here with a good heart, bless you.

Honestly, I wish I can join you on this because my concern has been; how the OP will survive during this building phase?

With const daily practice of at least 4-8 hrs and proper guidance and mentorship, it will take the OP at least 6 - 8 months to be job ready. We shouldn't forget programming demands full attention and I don't think it's ideal for the OP to go about his cleaning job and also learning, it won't be easy.

Nonetheless, OP should see if it's feasible. It's a life changing one.

If the OP can do it, I'll be happy to help in anyway I can along the way.
Re: Help!,I am depressed by RalphJnr(op): 9:31am On Mar 04, 2022
My number is 08064186469
Thanks to you all
Re: Help!,I am depressed by RalphJnr(op): 2:56pm On Mar 04, 2022
Some people called now and I am somehow sad by the way they talk
Some don't even know what depression is?
Like it's easy to change that ,I am only trying and I hope I don't drown in it someday
And moreover I don't do this for financial reasons or help
I need a breakthrough
Urgent Help!
Re: Help!,I am depressed by Frankbamideleom: 5:26am On Mar 05, 2022
Thanks for the insult God bless you. When you are willing to give someone a no fail system that works. A one month training on the highest paying high income skills you will know the charge is nothing. 11,203 students have learnt this skill and they are doing fine. 1125 are currently taking the course. Most people do not value what they get for free. It will only do him good, it is not a get rich quick scheme, you will learn implement and earn. Most people will tell you lies just to get you to their contact list and later upsell to you. Lots of Nigerians prefer lies to the truth.
JoyousFurnitire:
Chai! you still want collect money?

OP makes 18k and probably feeds his younger brother, like you didn't read at all?

You're a shameless fellow!
Re: Help!,I am depressed by RalphJnr(op): 11:39am On Mar 09, 2022
Haven't hear from you sir?
Question1:
Hey bro,

I don't usually come or post on NL but I somehow found myself here today! Sorry about all you have been through in the name of survival. I also respect the fact that you're trying to make a living for yourself by every legitimate means possible. I'll add that nothing is easy to achieve but with God's grace and little perseverance, everything is possible.

To get yourself out of poverty, you need to educate yourself. Information Technology is the fastest growing industry and with serious dedication, discipline, commitment and hard-work you can earn a living.

Do you have a laptop or can you get one? Can you learn programming or Data Science? I am willing to pay for your online courses, training and certificate. All you have to do is convince me enough on how you'll utilize this opportunity to be a better person.
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