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Angelfrost:
What about the Blue Film happening live daily in streets and malls??! I'm talking about indecent near-naked dressings among ladies!

emmy9500:
No need to push your beliefs on people, there is no right or wrong way to get sex

jesusjnr2020:
How Did You Feel After You Finally Defeated That Stubborn Addiction?

Addictions are really something else. They could be very devastating and depressing.

I remember a story a friend shared with me concerning his addiction to alcohol. It so wrecked his life to the point, his wife would be crying profusely, because she saw the damage it was doing to her husband, yet she seemed so helpless, being unable to do anything to remedy his situation.

But God delivered the man from his addiction so he was no longer addicted to alcohol when he shared his experience with me, however, he said because of what it had done to him, he would never go near anything alcohol but steer well clear so as not to repeat the same experience.

My own stubborn addictions were masturbation and pornography which seemed to go hand in hand, as I couldn't stay away from porn, and if I watched porn, I usually end up masturbating as that seemed to be end result.

My addiction to pornography was as though it had a glueing effect on me. Once I started watching it, to stop was almost impossible. I could watch porn for 24 hours non-stop, it used to keep me awake all night as well. There was a time after watching it for a lengthy and extended period, my eyes became much swollen and turned red as if I had "Apollo". It was also bringing out water.

However I didn't seem to have much issue with the addiction to porn at the time, but my grouse appeared to be with masturbation. Even when I wasn't saved but still just a church-going sinner, I had become fed up with masturbation to the point I was praying seriously for God to deliver me from the habit, because it was getting too much in my opinion and turning out to be a huge burden. I just felt it wasn't worth all the stress, even though it brought some short-lived excitement.

The worst part was that it still continued even after I repented and made the decision to follow Jesus. If I hated masturbation even while yet a sinner that I had to cry out to God for help, how much more after I got saved?

I can recount how many times I literally cried unto God to deliver me from that bad habit. I just believed I couldn't afford to be struggling with such a vice while preaching His Gospel to men cause I felt I needed to be a good example and practice what I preached. Moreover the last thing I wanted was to give the devil was some access into my life or a loophole to exploit and do damage, which was what the addiction seemed to be giving him, as i found myself being attacked and occasionally having sex in dreams which wasn't supposed to happen, but there nothing I could do to prevent it.

But that was then, because God has long given me victory over that stubborn addiction, that up til today, It still amazes me the wonderful job that God has done for me, because I know the kind of serious battle it was before I got set free.

The difference between where I was then and now is very glaring, because then, all it took to trigger the urge and get me back to square one after managing to abstain for a while, was just a sight of a nude woman's picture, a times not even up to that, and the devil seems to be using that against me.

But now It no longer works as it doesn't matter the amount of nude women pictures the devil brought across my way, like he was doing on my Facebook page at some point, bringing them in the guise of people I may know, it doesn't move me at all. He seemed to give up at some point after he noticed it wasn't working as it used to, as it completely stopped after a while.

It feels really great to finally have the upper hand I dearly craved over the addiction that held me bound for such a long time. For this I remain so grateful to God.

God bless.

Mitsurugi:
That's what we all thought until our wives started using sex as a weapon and starving us. Using marriage as a route to free and unlimited sex is a lie.

Castro147:
It's not that easy bro, lol

No Loyal Women out there bro

DigitalStepdad:
... when I found out you can change a behavior in 21days .. I applied it and voila!!! I endured the nagging and complains my body was giving me ... but then I found IGBO (arizona) ... smoked that shit for years until one day I decided to fight it ... [b]only becasue it was writing my existence into dark places and I didnt want to be that guy... [/b]that is always slacking and lost in thier own world of bliss and satisfaction when the world around you is moving at breakneck speed...yeah that guy.

So I quit ... my life has improved without it so I know I am on an upward trajectory.

Just know everything is in the mind

Mitsurugi:
That's what we all thought until our wives started using sex as a weapon and starving us. Using marriage as a route to free and unlimited sex is a lie.

FhucLyf:
How'd you do it?

NewSoul:
The freedom and confidence that comes from defeating masturbation and pornography is second to none.

Arizonaz:
At the bolded, does it make you lose track of your goals?

jesusjnr2020:
How Did You Feel After You Finally Defeated That Stubborn Addiction?

Addictions are really something else. They could be very devastating and depressing.

I remember a story a friend shared with me concerning his addiction to alcohol. It so wrecked his life to the point, his wife would be crying profusely, because she saw the damage it was doing to her husband, yet she seemed so helpless, being unable to do anything to remedy his situation.

But God delivered the man from his addiction so he was no longer addicted to alcohol when he shared his experience with me, however, he said because of what it had done to him, he would never go near anything alcohol but steer well clear so as not to repeat the same experience.

My own stubborn addictions were masturbation and pornography which seemed to go hand in hand, as I couldn't stay away from porn, and if I watched porn, I usually end up masturbating as that seemed to be end result.

My addiction to pornography was as though it had a glueing effect on me. Once I started watching it, to stop was almost impossible. I could watch porn for 24 hours non-stop, it used to keep me awake all night as well. There was a time after watching it for a lengthy and extended period, my eyes became much swollen and turned red as if I had "Apollo". It was also bringing out water.

However I didn't seem to have much issue with the addiction to porn at the time, but my grouse appeared to be with masturbation. Even when I wasn't saved but still just a church-going sinner, I had become fed up with masturbation to the point I was praying seriously for God to deliver me from the habit, because it was getting too much in my opinion and turning out to be a huge burden. I just felt it wasn't worth all the stress, even though it brought some short-lived excitement.

The worst part was that it still continued even after I repented and made the decision to follow Jesus. If I hated masturbation even while yet a sinner that I had to cry out to God for help, how much more after I got saved?

I can recount how many times I literally cried unto God to deliver me from that bad habit. I just believed I couldn't afford to be struggling with such a vice while preaching His Gospel to men cause I felt I needed to be a good example and practice what I preached. Moreover the last thing I wanted was to give the devil was some access into my life or a loophole to exploit and do damage, which was what the addiction seemed to be giving him, as i found myself being attacked and occasionally having sex in dreams which wasn't supposed to happen, but there nothing I could do to prevent it.

But that was then, because God has long given me victory over that stubborn addiction, that up til today, It still amazes me the wonderful job that God has done for me, because I know the kind of serious battle it was before I got set free.

The difference between where I was then and now is very glaring, because then, all it took to trigger the urge and get me back to square one after managing to abstain for a while, was just a sight of a nude woman's picture, a times not even up to that, and the devil seems to be using that against me.

But now It no longer works as it doesn't matter the amount of nude women pictures the devil brought across my way, like he was doing on my Facebook page at some point, bringing them in the guise of people I may know, it doesn't move me at all. He seemed to give up at some point after he noticed it wasn't working as it used to, as it completely stopped after a while.

It feels really great to finally have the upper hand I dearly craved over the addiction that held me bound for such a long time. For this I remain so grateful to God.

God bless.

tunde705:
God helped me to over pornography and masturbation through midnight prayers. Since January i have never missed my 30 minute midnight prayer.
I masturbated for 25 years.

hopefulLandlord:
People believing prayer cures addiction hahaha

Weezy463:
I no go do fornication or adultery bur i dey soapy wella...nd the thing dey sweet ajeh..

Weezy463:
I no go do fornication or adultery bur i dey soapy wella...nd the thing dey sweet ajeh..

FamilyAdviser:
My sister in-law died on January after battling for unknown sickness that no medical both govt and private can fathom, I drank to stupor.

I took 2medium bottles of LORD dry him, 2medium bottles of Mackdowe whiskeyl and 7 bottles of HERO LARGER BEER.

I nearly vomited blood but poo on myself �

My wife was little disappointed but I had to swore never to taste alcohol again to make up for my shameful mistakes.

God has been my strength since January.

I now took soft drinks.

If I see people taking anything whiskey it will look as a poison to me.

I pray for this to last forever.

Alcohol can make u so useless oo.

It can make u to be careless in savings, it can make u to always do things of regret like womanizing...
I HAVE BEEN LIBERATED

deavicky:
Jesu 25 years, this is serious. I tot masturbation is for unmarried people.

cp3o:
Prayer works. It helped me with porn, masturbation, depression and severe health issues.

NOW WE ARE PRAYING FOR NIGERIA. MAY GOD HELP NIGERIA, IN JESUS NAME!

cp3o:
Prayer works. It helped me with porn, masturbation, depression and severe health issues.

NOW WE ARE PRAYING FOR NIGERIA. MAY GOD HELP NIGERIA, IN JESUS NAME!

cp3o:
Prayer works. It helped me with porn, masturbation, depression and severe health issues.

NOW WE ARE PRAYING FOR NIGERIA. MAY GOD HELP NIGERIA, IN JESUS NAME!

NewSoul:
You lie
You are addicted to something
Addiction doesn't mean u must do it everyday.
Even if it's once a month you do it, you are still addicted.
Might be porn, masturbation, fornication, internet, drug or sex