Gamesmart:


Still not a good excuse.

In this day and age, even in well-off and developed nations, 2 kids is what people go for. Talk less of a shithole like Nigeria.

If people in USA, UK, Germany etc. are having only 2 kids because they think, despite all their high income and stable employment, that that number of children is the amount they can provide the best for with their large incomes plus generous government support, why will someone in a shithole where jobs are unstable, incomes are low and government is determine to frustrate your life be having 4 kids "because my wife needed a girl"?

Needed?

For what?

A 3rd child might be a reasonably acceptable mistake, but a 4th is just irresponsibility and foundation for indirect child abuse except one is making over N3m per month in Nigeria and living modestly on the Mainland.

If one is living on the Island, I would raise it to N5m. It would be N1.5m per month for someone not staying in Lagos, Abuja or PH.

I suspect you were not even making up to N600K per month when you were working, why have 4 and put such burden on yourself?

Now you are sharing peanuts across the mouth of 4 kids that would have been slightly more to share if it was just 2 kids. Education would be low quality and poor for your kids because you cannot afford it. God forbid they are sick and you need quality healthcare. Your children will be hustling when they grow up to fund their needs.

Giving them a poor start in life! You are lucky they are all boys, if your wife had her wish fulfilled, that is how young girls turn to Olosho when parents can not cater for them.

The excuses you gave do not carry weight! Having more than 3 kids, at worst, in Nigeria is an irresponsible and backward mentality. Something that is prevalent in the North of Nigeria. We can see the eventual result with their Almajiris, Okada/Keke Napep drivers, Boko Harams and Bandits.

Arisenews2:


Only you're a Hater! This thread is a motivation for me.

dfrost:


Like I said from Ground Zero (0).

ITF+ (A+ is also CompTIA's advanced type for IT Fundamentals albeit more focus on computer components especially on the hardware side of things) - (CompTIA and ISACA have certifications for this level, albeit ISACA is expensive compared to CompTIA).

Network+ (or Networking skills) and Security+ (for securing networks and infrastructure) are advanced levels offered by CompTIA.

ISACA groups its own as ITCA - Information Technology Certified Associate.

These certifications can be gotten from multiple CB (Certification Bodies), but you can start with learning about these courses by registering with Udemy, Alison et al to learn them very well before sitting for the exams.

See below:

Credit: https://www.comptia.org/certifications/which-certification

Cc: Raymeg7

BoleAndFish:
Lool. It's weekly, not monthly.

I don't earn in naira though.

Lotusflowerbomb:
Baba help a Sister. I am tired of earning 50k, when I have so much to give. I am hardworking and a fast learner. The working conditions of my current work place is equally poor. I work Mondays to Sundays.

Hotty321:
To learn all this ,is it free or I will pay

Prince001:


Cos people like u, are selfish, don't care about others that still struggle to cope with d situation in d country!!!!!!!

Arisenews2:


Bro, if you keep thinking this way with so much hate in your mind, you won’t be wealthy bro. Free your mind!

Funkybabee:


Yes ooo

And lag is an accommodation things

Raymeg7:
after all the insult and then, that is the way all Nigerian are, what did u achieve in all this, is ok , I'm given them the best ok, and they are in a better school, God forbid ur wish for them will not come to pass, just look at what is coming out of ur mouth, chacha at all the insult, no advice, I don't want to insult u or lay a course on u, is of no use to be, I wish u well, the worst thing any one can do to me , what u just did, by insulting my kids, I don't take it, insult all u want I don't care, but my family, is well, I don't think ur married,talkless of having kids , because if u do , u won't be talking like this

Gamesmart:


Still not a good excuse.

In this day and age, even in well-off and developed nations, 2 kids is what people go for. Talk less of a shithole like Nigeria.

If people in USA, UK, Germany etc. are having only 2 kids because they think, despite all their high income and stable employment, that that number of children is the amount they can provide the best for with their large incomes plus generous government support, why will someone in a shithole where jobs are unstable, incomes are low and government is determine to frustrate your life be having 4 kids "because my wife needed a girl"?

Needed?

For what?

A 3rd child might be a reasonably acceptable mistake, but a 4th is just irresponsibility and foundation for indirect child abuse except one is making over N3m per month in Nigeria and living modestly on the Mainland.

If one is living on the Island, I would raise it to N5m. It would be N1.5m per month for someone not staying in Lagos, Abuja or PH.

I suspect you were not even making up to N600K per month when you were working, why have 4 and put such burden on yourself?

Now you are sharing peanuts across the mouth of 4 kids that would have been slightly more to share if it was just 2 kids. Education would be low quality and poor for your kids because you cannot afford it. God forbid they are sick and you need quality healthcare. Your children will be hustling when they grow up to fund their needs.

Giving them a poor start in life! You are lucky they are all boys, if your wife had her wish fulfilled, that is how young girls turn to Olosho when parents can not cater for them.

The excuses you gave do not carry weight! Having more than 3 kids, at worst, in Nigeria is an irresponsible and backward mentality. Something that is prevalent in the North of Nigeria. We can see the eventual result with their Almajiris, Okada/Keke Napep drivers, Boko Harams and Bandits.

Raymeg7:
after all the insult and then, that is the way all Nigerian are, what did u achieve in all this, is ok , I'm given them the best ok, and they are in a better school, God forbid ur wish for them will not come to pass, just look at what is coming out of ur mouth, chacha at all the insult, no advice, I don't want to insult u or lay a course on u, is of no use to be, I wish u well, the worst thing any one can do to me , what u just did, by insulting my kids, I don't take it, insult all u want I don't care, but my family, is well, I don't think ur married,talkless of having kids , because if u do , u won't be talking like this

Rinoxy:

The point you tried making is legit no doubt, but the data analysis you made is so lame and never being in touch with reality.

dfrost:


There are sites you can learn them for free and they are some you can pay as low as 5,000 or little above that but you will need to write the exams and earn the certifications.

That is the only way you can prove that you have the required skill set.

Hotty321:

Thanks for the advice

Lotusflowerbomb:
is the Data Entry job, remote?

Awesome007:


Lagos is not for the weak.

dfrost:


You are welcome. Do you have the tools you need or can afford them? And hey! don't regret the 4 kids you have. Some people have just a birth and 6 or more babies are made. Cheer up.

Gamesmart:


Firstly, there was no insult in my write-up. Someone telling you facts you don't want to hear or highlighting your errors is not insulting you.

Secondly, you could not be possibly be giving them the best in Nigeria when you are unemployed, except you were making serious money before you became unemployed. I am sure about this.

Thirdly, I never made any bad or evil wish against, nor insulted, your children. I just told you what you and your wife's irresponsible choices can likely lead to. That is a probability statement, not a wish or insults.

If there is any negative for your kids, it has definitely not come from me, it has come from their parents' choices.

It is irresponsible having more than 2 kids in an uncertain place like Nigeria.

I have a poor family member who make less than N60K a month living in Lagos having 3 kids. This is someone that was consistently asking for "assistance" quarterly from family members when he had just his two kids to feed, all of a sudden having a third and asking us to come for child dedication. I DID NOT GO!!! I am not celebrating irresponsibility.

I have another that stays outside Lagos with income of N65K a month having 4 children, I had to ask him "Why?" "For What?". He was telling me he liked it raw and children are a blessing from God. Now he lost his job and na so so message for "assistance" to feed his kids; highlighting how they are suffering and he can't cope. Na me like am raw? Let him go to God for blessings.

It is irresponsible having more than 2 kids in a shithole like Nigeria and it is a foundation for indirect child abuse if you are not ridiculously well paid and/or rich! You will not be able to give them the best life that modern times requires.

In the modern times, things are more expensive and you need to keep up with the times for your kids to be competitive in future.

Can you provide them with good education, which costs N500K+ per child per year in Lagos, or you are sending them to useless government schools with curriculum from the 80s?

Can you afford to buy all the textbooks and educational material all 4 need?

Can you feed them nourishing and variety of meals 3 times a day?

Can you provide 6 to 8 hours of light at home everyday?

Can you afford to get them 4 android phones so they are digitally current? If one of them loses his or is mugged, can you afford to replace it?

Can you afford 2 laptops for 4 of them to share, even if you can not get them 1 each? When they get older and spend more time away from home, they will need one each; can you afford it?

Can you buy them 10GB data each per month?

Can you afford to now pay for their time in university? Even if it is some shithole State-owned one in the North? (Travel, books, clothes, accommodation, feeding, events, nights out etc.)

These are critical and essential in modern times and are becoming more expensive, while pay in Nigeria is decreasing in spending value because of Naira devaluation. Don't cover up and say I insulted you by stating that fact!

Calculating all the needs falling out of those questions to give your 4 kids "the best" in Nigeria, I am already seeing a minimum cost of N4m per year to fund these 4 kids. Where you even making that in a year before you lost your employment?

It is a parent's responsibility to work hard and ensure their children have better prospects than they (i.e. the parent) had growing up. The next generation's life must be better! You and your wife have created a probability that it is less likely for your kids. I hope it is not the case, but with the way Nigeria is going, I know where I would bet if I was betting.

You have no business having 4 kids!

Rinoxy:

My brother, GOD will help us all. It's well.

Hotty321:

sorry am not the person with kids ..I only contacted you under the through the Man plus I don't have the tool and even i never get a laptop to start it

Raymeg7:
Amen my brother, look at how bitter this bastard is , people are funny, my problem and his crying � on it

Raymeg7:
look at what u are writing, I don't think u have a job too, secondly frustration is disturbing u, look how ur crying in another man's problem, what is really ur problem over this issue, I never ask u for help, ur just a frustrated human being looking for where u will pour ur anger, now I see where ur coming from, I don't blame u my brother, is my kids, not your, u can't even stand my first son, had it been ur reasonable, I would have drop my kids picture for u, I'm far more better then u, I don't brag, but humble, humility should be our life, not coming out here with ur frustrating life, just because someone u don't know air his little problem, u capitalized on it and start saying rubbish

Raymeg7:
Amen my brother, look at how bitter this bastard is , people are funny, my problem and his crying � on it

Osu175:

Mine is telecom and its a job for men

Tomilola360:


Information Technology.

dfrost:

Oops! So sorry about that. You have a smartphone?

Hotty321:

yes I have a android phone

PaulOtl:

Abeg this suffer has tire me.
What can we do, Sir? I write , but not on any Amazon platform. Not even up work or Fiverr. I just have them written in my downloaded novel app. I just love reading books, so I sometimes write my own ideas. I'm broke as heck at the moment, and there is this one which is over 26000 words as of now. Can we do some kind of deal and get it sold to you or someone abroad (you know the ways)?
It's a cool story , in my opinion.
How to go about it, maybe turn it into e-book?

chilinks:


I don't seii novel, mine is academic book. Where do u base. U can still sel novel u may be lucky.

danduchi:
152k salary, my side business earns me 130k monthly