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I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by Su5tain(op): 5:19am On May 12, 2022
Ever since my job loss, I've been in a state of despondency. I am unable to pay my bills. Sadly enough, I feed my family right now, by the little I manage to get a day.
Which sometimes is 5 hundred naira or less depending on the blocks I park.
We recently couldn't bear with the situation in Abuja right now, so we left Abuja back to village.
I am a married man with a baby and my wife.
To my greatest surprise the house I used to live in in the village got destroyed and vandalized.
So I am left with my family sleeping uncomfortably in different places.
My property are not in good conditions because of rain and other risks.
Right now I have seen a house to rent and manage for 40k a year. But Since I cannot afford to pay the 40k I begged him to reduce the money so he offered to let me pay 20k then after 3 to 4 months then I will pay the rest, the problem now is since I came to village no work yet and I planned on farming but I haven't started because I have not settled.
What can I do please?
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by LordIsaac(m): 5:26am On May 12, 2022
You need to belong to a church that has love. Such a church comprises of about 1% of all the churches in Nigeria (God is love, don't forget). I pray you find one.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by Su5tain(op): 5:33am On May 12, 2022
LordIsaac:
You need to belong to a church that has love. Such a church comprises of about 1% of all the churches in Nigeria (God is love, don't forget). I pray you find one.
I hope so
Great man
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by Kingpin1000: 6:30am On May 12, 2022
You had a church you and your family attended in Abuja and I believe you were putting tithes and offerings. Why not tell them to assist you at this present condition.
I believe they will help.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by chatinent: 6:41am On May 12, 2022
Kindly explain what you mean by the house you used to lived in got destroyed.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by spinna: 6:43am On May 12, 2022
It is well..i hope you are a good Christian and are a tither.. things are tight when u don't tithe

Rack your brains for business ideas.. even if you farm that still has waiting period.

Join and listen to www.domimedia.com that is winners chapel.. there must be one in that village.

This is a good time to draw close to this congregation.. I assure you your story will change.. But never grumble against God..

Another great turnaround service comes up from 6 next Sunday.. you can listen via the link or locate your local winner's assembly.

This is your best solution.. thank me later.. thank God first o

Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by yanabasee(m): 6:47am On May 12, 2022
You're a very lazy man...


You couldn't do anything while in the city and you decided to relocate to the village, there.... you intended to farm and you're yet to start farming... And you're asking us what you can do...


Isn't it obvious that you want to beg people for money indirectly?
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by Su5tain(op): 7:08am On May 12, 2022
chatinent:
Kindly explain what you mean by the house you used to lived in got destroyed.
it's a mud house rain damaged the roof and building
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by Mindlog: 7:26am On May 12, 2022
Su5tain:
My contact is 09068358143
This is a new username, what is your old username because I believe you are not new here.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by maureensylvia(f): 7:43am On May 12, 2022
Su5tain:
Ever since my job loss, I've been in a state of despondency. I am unable to pay my bills. Sadly enough, I feed my family right now, by the little I manage to get a day.
Which sometimes is 5 hundred naira or less depending on the blocks I park.
We recently couldn't bear with the situation in Abuja right now, so we left Abuja back to village.
I am a married man with a baby and my wife.
To my greatest surprise the house I used to live in in the village got destroyed and vandalized.
So I am left with my family sleeping uncomfortably in different places.
My property are not in good conditions because of rain and other risks.
Right now I have seen a house to rent and manage for 40k a year. But Since I cannot afford to pay the 40k I begged him to reduce the money so he offered to let me pay 20k then after 3 to 4 months then I will pay the rest, the problem now is since I came to village no work yet and I planned on farming but I haven't started because I have not settled.
What can I do please?
Why will you even live in Abuja knowing fully well that the cost of living there is high?

Relocating to village, is that the best option for you?

Why not live in cheaper cities like Aba?
You can even do menial jobs there

I just feel that no need for you living in the village
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by Samakus(m): 7:59am On May 12, 2022
New moniker.

I don't believe new monikers. Whatever your tale is, I will never believe it if you're a new moniker
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by Mindlog: 8:07am On May 12, 2022
spinna:
It is well..i hope you are a good Christian and are a tither.. things are tight when u don't tithe
Can you preach that to a Caucasian or is that gospel for Africans?
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by Kajaard: 8:09am On May 12, 2022
yanabasee:
You're a very lazy man...


You couldn't do anything while in the city and you decided to relocate to the village, there.... you intended to farm and you're yet to start farming... And you're asking us what you can do...


Isn't it obvious that you want to beg people for money indirectly?
Don't mind him. He thinks he is smart, the next thing is to start dropping his account number once people start showing concern.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by emmanuelbrown26: 8:14am On May 12, 2022
Op u didn't state somethings. What does your wife do?
Relocating to d village for farming was never a bad ideal but u would hv put somethings in place before relocating with your family.
U would hv sent your wife to d village first or to her parents house, so that u will hv time to hustle and concentrate.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by ibechris(m): 8:51am On May 12, 2022
yanabasee:
You're a very lazy man...


You couldn't do anything while in the city and you decided to relocate to the village, there.... you intended to farm and you're yet to start farming... And you're asking us what you can do...


Isn't it obvious that you want to beg people for money indirectly?
Too harsh man.

He needs help obviously and he is too shy to ask and that doesn't mean if u give him that he won't accept.

Pls,always find pity on people,Nigeria with another Buhari for 4 years may cripple this country,because the poor will rise up against them.

...things are not the way they used to be,I won't tell no lie.
one of us would to have face reality now...Sang by
Bob Nester Marley.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by ImaIma1(f): 9:38am On May 12, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
Op u didn't state somethings. What does your wife do?
Relocating to d village for farming was never a bad ideal but u would hv put somethings in place before relocating with your family.
U would hv sent your wife to d village first or to her parents house, so that u will hv time to hustle and concentrate.
First time I will like your comment son of Adam.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by ImaIma1(f): 9:42am On May 12, 2022
ibechris:
Too harsh man.

He needs help obviously and he is too shy to ask and that doesn't mean if u give him that he won't accept.

Pls,always find pity on people,Nigeria with another Buhari for 4 years may cripple this country,because the poor will rise up against them.

...things are not the way they used to be,I won't tell no lie.
one of us would to have face reality now...Sang by
Bob Nester Marley.
You said it right.

Inasmuch as we want to hang op and others, let's realise that the country is in a bad state right now and not everyone is lucky to be able to keep afloat.

We might not have to give but we can try to be empathetic.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by emmanuelbrown26: 9:50am On May 12, 2022
ImaIma1:
First time I will like your comment son of Adam.
Waiting I do Nairaland women self? Una no go allow son of man to comment in peace
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by ednut1(m): 10:15am On May 12, 2022
I smell lies
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by ImaIma1(f): 10:17am On May 12, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
Waiting I do Nairaland women self? Una no go allow son of man to comment in peace
You decided to hate on us for a living.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by emmanuelbrown26: 10:54am On May 12, 2022
ImaIma1:
You decided to hate on us for a living.
It is what it is. My watchword has always being "hate d player and not d game"
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by ImaIma1(f): 10:59am On May 12, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
It is what it is. My watchword has always being "hate d player and not d game"
As you grow older, you will get wiser.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by emmanuelbrown26: 11:00am On May 12, 2022
ImaIma1:
As you grow older, you will get wiser.
U are talking to an elder
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by ImaIma1(f): 11:04am On May 12, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
U are talking to an elder
God forbid that you are an elder with all these childish behaviours. You know what they say about a fool at 40.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by Su5tain(op): 11:12am On May 12, 2022
ibechris:
Too harsh man.

He needs help obviously and he is too shy to ask and that doesn't mean if u give him that he won't accept.

Pls,always find pity on people,Nigeria with another Buhari for 4 years may cripple this country,because the poor will rise up against them.

...things are not the way they used to be,I won't tell no lie.
one of us would to have face reality now...Sang by
Bob Nester Marley.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by Naijaolosho2: 11:16am On May 12, 2022
The two of you above me, please take your love session out of this thread for God's sake.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by emmanuelbrown26: 11:24am On May 12, 2022
ImaIma1:
God forbid that you are an elder with all these childish behaviours. You know what they say about a fool at 40.
Insulting an elder will do u no good at all unless there are no elders in your lineage
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by ImaIma1(f): 11:25am On May 12, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
Insulting an elder will do u no good at all unless there are no elders in your lineage
The elders in my lineage are wise.
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by emmanuelbrown26: 11:26am On May 12, 2022
ImaIma1:
The elders in my lineage are wise.
I doubt u do hv elders in your lineage at all. Or maybe kobo kobo elders, if u Truely hv elders, u won't be insulting an elder like me
Re: I Relocated To Village For Farming And Am Now Regretting It. by cavreek: 5:06pm On May 12, 2022
OP, u're trying and doing ur best we all understand, the problem is that our leaders have failed
Never stop to put in ur best in whatever u do, this is just a phase
Strive to ensure that ur kids don't pass tru all this mess and let that be a motivation
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