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Please I Need Suggestions!! by ogaJona(m): 5:49pm On Jun 30, 2022
I've been living in this compound for a year, then a new neighbor and his girlfriend packed in the other flat. They have been there for 3 months. Recently the girlfriend started coming into my house to watch the telemundo series on daily basis, as they are yet to get a tv. This has really been uncomfortable for me as i have to miss my favorite tv programs for her to watch her series. The boyfriend is not even bothered of her girlfriend being in the house of another single guy. Please how do I stop her from visiting without looking bad. This is really uncomfortable for me, I need suggestions. Admin please I will appreciate if this is pushed to front page.
Re: Please I Need Suggestions!! by ogaJona(m): 5:58pm On Jun 30, 2022
And this doesn't look like it's going to end anytime soon
Re: Please I Need Suggestions!! by Stephen0mozzy: 6:27pm On Jun 30, 2022
How do people rent a "flat" and cannot afford a TV? or you mean a room in the flat?

Meanwhile, them wan set up up...maybe even give you a need to book doctor's appointment

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Re: Please I Need Suggestions!! by Hier(m): 6:30pm On Jun 30, 2022
Lock your door and don't open for her, let her bang the door till dawn, don't open, after three trials, she would reduce or stop coming

Keep doing it, she would stop eventually
Re: Please I Need Suggestions!! by Ningen(m): 6:42pm On Jun 30, 2022
You'll definitely have to confront her about it.
If you can't do that, then take away her reason for the visit.

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Re: Please I Need Suggestions!! by ogaJona(m): 6:51pm On Jun 30, 2022
Stephen0mozzy:
How do people rent a "flat" and cannot afford a TV? or you mean a room in the flat?

Meanwhile, them wan set up up...maybe even give you a need to book doctor's appointment
funny part is that the guy owns a generator worth about 170k
Re: Please I Need Suggestions!! by ogaJona(m): 6:53pm On Jun 30, 2022
Hier:
Lock your door and don't open for her, let her bang the door till dawn, don't open, after three trials, she would reduce or stop coming

Keep doing it, she would stop eventually
i don't want it to look like I'm being a bad person
Re: Please I Need Suggestions!! by Ginaz(f): 8:59pm On Jun 30, 2022
some girls have no shame! i can't understand why she have to come daily to your house cos of TV and she calls herself an adult!

see how she degraded her boyfriend before o.p all for TV, empty brained dummy. I'm thoroughly disgusted, o.p you better tell her you are busy whenever she comes to watch telemudo , she will get the message and stop coming to your house.

a guy in my hood got a girl pregnant due to same scenario, i shame!

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Re: Please I Need Suggestions!! by frozen70(f): 3:48pm On Jul 01, 2022
ogaJona:
I've been living in this compound for a year, then a new neighbor and his girlfriend packed in the other flat. They have been there for 3 months. Recently the girlfriend started coming into my house to watch the telemundo series on daily basis, as they are yet to get a tv. This has really been uncomfortable for me as i have to miss my favorite tv programs for her to watch her series. The boyfriend is not even bothered of her girlfriend being in the house of another single guy. Please how do I stop her from visiting without looking bad. This is really uncomfortable for me, I need suggestions. Admin please I will appreciate if this is pushed to front page.

Politely tell her that you don't want her guy to feel some how about her coming to your house

That's all

If you can't summon the courage to do so

Then wait for what comes up

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Re: Please I Need Suggestions!! by Nazgul: 4:38pm On Jul 01, 2022
ogaJona:
I've been living in this compound for a year, then a new neighbor and his girlfriend packed in the other flat. They have been there for 3 months. Recently the girlfriend started coming into my house to watch the telemundo series on daily basis, as they are yet to get a tv. This has really been uncomfortable for me as i have to miss my favorite tv programs for her to watch her series. The boyfriend is not even bothered of her girlfriend being in the house of another single guy. Please how do I stop her from visiting without looking bad. This is really uncomfortable for me, I need suggestions. Admin please I will appreciate if this is pushed to front page.
If you're too weak and scared to tell a girl, whose a stranger to you that you're no longer feel comfortable with her coming, I feel you should go back to your parents house cos you're not psychologically matured to be classified as a man.

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Re: Please I Need Suggestions!! by Nazgul: 4:41pm On Jul 01, 2022
Stephen0mozzy:
How do people rent a "flat" and cannot afford a TV? or you mean a room in the flat?

Meanwhile, them wan set up up...maybe even give you a need to book doctor's appointment
TV is even too much sef. Ordinary 4k plus would get her a full month subscription on Netflix and she can watch all the telemundo she wants on her phone or laptop.

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Re: Please I Need Suggestions!! by mezico96(m): 5:58pm On Jul 01, 2022
ogaJona:
I've been living in this compound for a year, then a new neighbor and his girlfriend packed in the other flat. They have been there for 3 months. Recently the girlfriend started coming into my house to watch the telemundo series on daily basis, as they are yet to get a tv. This has really been uncomfortable for me as i have to miss my favorite tv programs for her to watch her series. The boyfriend is not even bothered of her girlfriend being in the house of another single guy. Please how do I stop her from visiting without looking bad. This is really uncomfortable for me, I need suggestions. Admin please I will appreciate if this is pushed to front page.

She's a big baby...

Op, if you are not okay with it then tell her.
Re: Please I Need Suggestions!! by Tozic: 7:16pm On Jul 01, 2022
What is wrong with modern day guys? Please tell me.. embarassed
Re: Please I Need Suggestions!! by Hier(m): 11:30am On Jul 03, 2022
ogaJona:
i don't want it to look like I'm being a bad person

Alright, talk to her about it. Tell her how you would have felt if you were her boyfriend, knowing she's going to another guy's place to watch TV.

Ask her why she's not watching same telemundo on her guys tv, probably the guy also has his own favorite lol channel and she can't bear it. You can also talk to the guy about it, that you are worried his girl is showing up at your place at all time and explain her love to the telemundo channel to him. Probably, he would allow her have that privilege under his own roof.

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