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MrBrownJay1:
...just because a man doesnt want to beat an obviously drunk/foolish woman, does not mean he CANT. in the US, if any woman put her hands on you, you have all the rights to defend/protect yourself and give her back a taste of her own medicine. there is NO LAW in the US that says that you should let a woman beat you up and and you shouldnt defend/protect yourself... NONE!!!

Naijap99us:
Hey friend,
You just explained what's ideal and lawful anywhere but except the vicious US racist criminal justice system in America.

It's quite naive to expect the US and their fraudulently selected jury to believe a black man that killed anything white let alone a woman. What world are you living in certainly not the US.

This happened on Apirl 3rd 2022. He was buried on April 27 and she has been walking free for 4 MONTHS and just got ARRESTED LAST WEEK. Two days after she murdered him, she was sighted in a bar in Maimi with her dad. People recognized her harassed and kicked her out.

Not even, Nigeria, will a cold murderer walk free if the police can locate them. The job of the police isto arrest and arraign in court and bail bond posted and suspect remain under the custody of the courts pending trial.

But here extremely prejudiced racist police and district attorney illegally decide who they're going to let walk free defending on their skin pigmentation.

And no, intoxication isn't excuse for murder.

United States is very hostile to black men. Their goal seems to either to eliminate them or permanently put them away in prison.

I have a 23 year old US born only son and I doing everything to move him back to Nigeria along with thr family. I can't play that game with cold blooded system.

SAMBARRY:
the violence we teach/expose our children to in many homes is what they are replicating in schools in the form of bullying,racism and other dysfunctional behaviours.a kid that age killing another kid?

Please let's stop encouraging violent behaviours.you have no right to attack a woman no matter what.if a woman attacks you unnecessarily,the wisest and dignified way to defend yourself is to get her arrested and not attacking her.2 people cannot be stupid at the same time and these kids are watching and learning really fast.please let's bring back normalcy and a healthy family life back to our homes as we have always had instead of this new culture of rage, violence and verbal attacks and watch how senseless killings in and out of school will drop

Oyinbo says charity begins from home.the kids learnt how to kill from their parents being violent to each other or killing someone in the child's presence or exposing a child to violently graphic movies on tv without regulation.

Una don see where una woke philosophy don carry una

MrBrownJay1:
ARRANT GIBBERISH NONSENSE!!!!!
i will always teach my kids to respect everyone BUT if anybody doesnt respect them and decide to attack them, they should use any necessary force to defend themselves (whether male or female). this has nothing to do with woke culture, and all to do with COMMON SENSE!
a healthy family is one were you dont let your children (son/daughter) be bullied anyhow, and instead to teach them how to take control of their own life (and the consequences of their actions).
a healthy family is one were you teach EVERYONE about respect, BUT ALSO that any action will have a reaction....therefore if someone does not respect you and attacks you physically (mummy included) then you give them a taste of their own medicine.
gone are the days where yeye HE-diots were slapped/beaten by women and you will turn the other cheek (what kind of rubbish state of mind is that?!). too many have died with this failed state of mind of letting a woman do you harm with total impunity.

remember: a woman has no right to attack a man, but if she foolishly does, she should accept the consequences of her action.

RIP to the dude who didnt teach that woman what time it was (due to some yeye state of mind), and instead let her abuse him anyhow, til she decided to kill him.

SAMBARRY:
broda brownjay I get where you are coming from but VIOLENCE DOESN'T QUELL VIOLENCE.yoruba said someone has to be a goat and someone has to be a sheep.if any woman gets violent instead of touching her and then become the next osinachi husband whose picture is splattered all over the pages of newspapers and Social media,it's more sensible to either get her arrested or chase her out.

If she hits you and you attack her back under the name self defence if she go die for ya hand, nobody go remember or care say na she hit you first.them go say otipayan.you don kill person

When they say don't hit a woman because she's misbehaving or she attacked you first,it's not really because of anything but the CONSEQUENCES of hitting her as we all know that the men are physically stronger and so if you hit her out of anger in response to an assault, anything can happen and the consequences isn't always Nice.youre teaching the kids wrong values that if a woman hits a man it's ok for him to hit her back instead of teaching them other conflict resolution skills

plus one of the characteristics of being a real man is SELF CONTROL

MrBrownJay1:
lets not try to confuse the issue here, the problem here is not the abused, its the abuser.... trying to accommodate that abusive person is NEVER the way to solve any problem. that person needs to realize that what they are doing is NOT RIGHT.... and what better way to teach them this great lesson but to serve them a piece of their own medicine?



if not because of self defense, the above Nigerian (who died at the hand of this female abuser) would still be alive today... can you truly face his family, children and say the above with a straight face?



shouldnt you instead tell women:" dont physically attack men because of the consequence of such failed action"?! the reason why so many women today have the audacity to even raise their hands on men is because of that failed notion that a man shouldnt hit back....but these days are over... we live in a world where everyone is getting whats coming for them, TIT FOR TAT!!!



go tell that to the man who presently lies 6 feet under, thanks to "self control"... haba!

SAMBARRY:
ok so giving the first abuser the taste of her own medicine will make her stop the abuse abi? And it's a strategy that you'll teach your son's in cases where they encounter or date an abusive woman?

Naijap99us:
SAMBARRY my brother, oil dey your heard. You're very wise, keep it up. In Murder trial the suspect will need to flip this world upside down to proof he acted in a self defense. The other party's voice has been silenced by death. And the court has to be fair to the deceased who's not there to tell their own side of the story. The court make sure there's fairness & justice for the loss of their lives.

Murderers first line of defense is a self defense claim that holds no weight for the court and until you prove it beyond any reasonable doubt.

Why should anyone put themselves in that mess for lack of self control.

You can see how the late young man tried to control her as well defending himself without throwing a punch. He was an incredible gentleman who's parents are from Anambra state.