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Hello people!

I am the first son of the family and 3rd born, my immediate younger brother impregnated a lady out of wedlock. Although, my parents were against it in the first place, but the lady has refused to abort the pregnancy.

As it stands, my younger brother has made the decision to proceed for introduction and take the girl in with him.

I found this to be disrespectful to me and moreover, he did not inform me about all this to the point that a date has been chosen, it was someone else that told me.

How best should I handle this issue?

Oga double your hustle and go get a woman to marry...

You both have different life to live... First to do no dey this game.. do your thing whenever you are ready (financially and emotionally)

Jealousy, your younger brother should be weary of you.Whats your anger in this and what makes you think as a senior you must be above your younger brother in everything? You don’t have a good heart

The only fault I see here is your brother not informing you that he was getting married.
Try to forgive and stand by him. He'll need your support.

As for getting (a lady pregnant) married before you, that is no disrespect.

Ok

Penflame:
Hello people!

I am the first son of the family and 3rd born, my immediate younger brother impregnated a lady out of wedlock. Although, my parents were against it in the first place, but the lady has refused to abort the pregnancy.

As it stands, my younger brother has made the decision to proceed for introduction and take the girl in with him.

I found this to be disrespectful to me and moreover, he did not inform me about all this to the point that a date has been chosen, it was someone else that told me.

How best should I handle this issue?

mind your business

God bless you, don't mind him.

Richy4:
Life is just so simple my dear Brother...Adults are the ones complicating it..

<<For your information, Marriage is not an achievement...ask any truthful person, they will tell you...You don't have to feel disrespected that he wants to be with her friend.. it's not a big deal...

<< Since he did not tell you, then act like you don't know that there's an activity going on.. continue your daily activity like nothing was happening...

<< If he eventually tells you a day or two before the introduction, tell him that you were happy for him...That you wish him luck but u can't make it because you have an appointment that can't be rescheduled... If u don't have an appointment create one...

<< But if you are a better human than some of us, u can go because blood is thicker than water.. ..Remember in all these, no frowning...just be neutral... When the wife comes, welcome her and behave like the world is your oyster

Since he didn't tell you,then act like nothing happen, during the day of the wedding,go find a place and sit down.

God bless you for this wisdom.
Thank you so much, sir!

Richy4:
Life is just so simple my dear Brother...Adults are the ones complicating it..

<<For your information, Marriage is not an achievement...ask any truthful person, they will tell you...You don't have to feel disrespected that he wants to be with her friend.. it's not a big deal...

<< Since he did not tell you, then act like you don't know that there's an activity going on.. continue your daily activity like nothing was happening...

<< If he eventually tells you a day or two before the introduction, tell him that you were happy for him...That you wish him luck but u can't make it because you have an appointment that can't be rescheduled... If u don't have an appointment create one...

<< But if you are a better human than some of us, u can go because blood is thicker than water.. ..Remember in all these, no frowning...just be neutral... When the wife comes, welcome her and behave like the world is your oyster

This mumu is still living in 1950's..

Oponu ayirada