Id love to see a talent hunt scene kind of wager. Something like The voice or America's got talent

scondy:


And do u know how the trips are funded? If na join join trip ...u know? U can take a million pictures in 1 trip ...hope u know that....

U go vacation once and decide to connect like 3 cities ....snap a zillion pics...post periodically...shey u won't think na weekly travel be that...

Why is foreign trips such a biggie to u?

I am sure if you read what I posted about 90% of the country being unable to afford these trips, you will understand why it is such a biggie to anybody.

If it is not to you, congratulations, you are part of the bourgeoise 10%, but even if na group trips, na person dey still sponsor am the same way the plan is for Sheggz to sponsor this one for her, abi?

Is it on her dime? No. Is it baby girl life? Yes. We don't know how it is sponsored, but we know she is living it. These trips will also give her access to rich men that can sponsor this lifestyle, abi? Men that are richer than Sheggz, with money you can actually see in motion, not Sheggz wey we no dey see the money.


Maybe I should ask you why you're so certain money is the sole motivation for some of these women, why must it only be money? Why is it only money for you?

Maybe we have different perspectives of what motivates people to do certain things for whatever reason. I just find it very lazy for people to just peg everything to "Na money cause am", nobody can convince me that people get into uncomfortable situations solely because of money 100% of the time.

There are people who I will admit are motivated by money, like Anita Okoye, but if I see that there are other motivations, I will explore them too.

You should search yourself for why you want to die by the belief that it is only money that will make someone subject themselves to certain treatments. Why do you think money is the only motivation?

scondy:


I am not saying a lot of women don't take so much...those that fall into that category are not doing it cos they feel its a man...it is because they grew up believing it is their duty to keep their marriage and take whatever is thrown at them. The belief is that the more they take....the more virtuous they are. That's a different issue from the examples she listed....

Annie o...Sandra o..this Bella so...na money they control ....its like saying Regina Daniels married cos she is a Patriarchy Princess...what in the heavens is that ? Who coined the phrase? cos trust me...she is enduring a lot...being married to a man that can start flirting with another in your presence and u have no right to complain....


Wo....ladies that like money will see anyhow....they don't deserve pity jare

You've a point.

Butti, they'll still collect my pity

duduade:
Why is Daniella hell bent on not doing anything in the kitchen

Bella nko

garfield1:


Lolsss.she wasn't circumcised properly

Anybody that thinks that it is only money that can motivate people to stay in terrible relationships all the time, I just assume they are speaking for themselves.


Power can keep people

Ignorance can keep people

Fear of the unknown can keep people

Even big dick can keep people.


It is not always because of money. it may be a factor in some cases, but it is not always the main factor for everyone. Make una try dey creative.

Maybe I dey project my own values on people too much sef, na why money narrative dey always quench me.

prewtyjulie:


Bella isn't emotionally weak, she's greedy. In her head Mr footballer is rich n can give her d soft life she craves. D affluence her sis sandra must have enjoyed while dating mikel obi is d reason Bella is holding onto shegz

Why would former Obi of Onitsha's daughter he looking for riches? I
There's something not clear here. Isn't she the daughter of an Obi or I'm just expecting much from an Ex Obi of Onitsha.

safarigirl:
So, Sheggz been call Bella dog today?

He told her she acts like a local dog, not even a British dog.

She has energy for Chizzy, but she dey kiss person wey call her dog.


Disgust. Disgust. Disgust. That is all I can feel for that girl and her boyfriend.

Lmao

scondy:


Now mambi...for u, mizzd and mily..

Why is it difficult to see that doyin meddles. She deluded herself by saying pple bring their problems to her. It is not enough reason to meddle. What happened to ...u guys will be fine and quickly exit the convo.

Before shegz started highlighting Bella's attitude...itbwas doyin that tabled the matter with him and pointed out every negative thing about Bella and told shegz he doesn't correct her enough....since them shegz made it his duty to change his "potential wife ".

I can bet she is always elated at their quarrels ....cos why r u sitting, analysing problems of same guy u had/have a crush on?

Make It make sense....those are the babes that would be forming moral support till there is an irreversible crack and they slide in...

Similar to what Phyna did.

My problem is "meddling" as you use it. Its like saying someone taking a nap is pretending to faint... And she did not delude herself because people actually bring their problems to her. Point in case, she named 3 sets of people today. When people come to you to vent or help them see reason, it is not meddling. It is not cho cho cho...

You have also taken out of context the scenario where Doyin told shegzz he did not correct Bella enough. This conversation was after Bella and her gang went after Doyin with all sorts of venom and then Shegzz came to apologise to Doyin and was making excuses for Bella. It was not advise that was given out of the blue to cause problems for them.

My honest truth which I deduced after I actually started watching Doyin is that some of the viewers try to pass a narrative about her because of her relationship or not with their favourites.

As much as some of her actions can be annoying and cringeworthy, the shout and cry about her is based more on de-marketing than normal housemate critic. Whatever she does is blown out of proportion but when others in the house do same or worse, the streets are silent. As a matter of fact, a big chunk of people mis-report things about her and when it is difficult to spin updates about her, they will rather keep quiet.

By the time I started watching Doyin, I read all sorts here which was why i started paying more attention to her.

For every accusation, I can cite other favourites who have done worse on the specific issues... You mentioned Phyna sliding unto her "friend's" man. Yet Doyin is harassed more for being a "potential slider" than the "actual slider". The other day, Daniella quoted her ideal man as someone who has to be "financially stable" yet no prose and passage about how money liking she is. Adekunle the other day talked about how he and Chi Chi would not have been on same level on the outside but if Doyin says that, the streets will shut down. The day she was accused of doing cho cho was when I pointed to how Adekunle was chief gossip...

So honestly for me, I see Doyin with all her faults and I like her a lot. Doesn't mean she won't upset me or make me ashamed of her sometimes but as at today oh, I do not see her the way some of you see her... But again, maybe I am just being protective of her...

safarigirl:
Anybody that thinks that it is only money that can motivate people to stay in terrible relationships all the time, I just assume they are speaking for themselves.


Power can keep people

Ignorance can keep people

Fear of the unknown can keep people

Even big dick can keep people.


It is not always because of money. it may be a factor in some cases, but it is not always the main factor for everyone. Make una try dey creative.

Maybe I dey project my own values on people too much sef, na why money narrative dey always quench me.

The annoying thing is Sheggz doesn’t even have any of this!

I don't think Bella is actually a King's daughter who brought that fairytale tho?.

scondy:


But he was somewhat popular as a member of plantation boys....agreed he wasn't boxed...he was popular...

Then after 5 children,, what kept her there? Money ...fame....I mustn't loose out mentality ....not cos she cannot take a walk...

In her situation, it looks more like this scenario.. Thats why I said sometimes its not about the money..

KIDDRICAsHAWK:


You've a point.

Butti, they'll still collect my pity

Regina Daniels married for money AND is a Patriarchy Princess.

Somebody can be two things, so, I don't know why scondy dey bring am up. Regina Daniels and her mother are patriarchy princesses, who love money. I am very specific about the examples I am bringing up for a reason.

When Sandra met Flavour, he did not have a baby mama. He was a single man, to compare her situation with somebody that used clear eye to enter marriage with a polygamist is ridiculous. When Annie met 2face, he was single. When Bella met Sheggz she thought she had met a loving man.

None of these women are same as a Regina Daniels or even an Anita Okoye.

I am arguing that money is not the sole motivation to be in uncomfortable situations, person dey argue say it can only be money.

What is she saying, what am I saying?

garfield1:


Lolsss.she wasn't circumcised properly

Wow, the things that some of say

garfield1:


Lolsss.she wasn't circumcised properly

Your mind has gone to far plsss

DamianX:
I don't think Bella is actually a King's daughter who brought that fairytale tho?.

Igwe Okagbue was her dad , so she's royalty .

scondy:


Now mambi...for u, mizzd and mily..

Why is it difficult to see that doyin meddles. She deluded herself by saying pple bring their problems to her. It is not enough reason to meddle. What happened to ...u guys will be fine and quickly exit the convo.

Before shegz started highlighting Bella's attitude...itbwas doyin that tabled the matter with him and pointed out every negative thing about Bella and told shegz he doesn't correct her enough....since them shegz made it his duty to change his "potential wife ".

I can bet she is always elated at their quarrels ....cos why r u sitting, analysing problems of same guy u had/have a crush on?

Make It make sense....those are the babes that would be forming moral support till there is an irreversible crack and they slide in...

Similar to what Phyna did.

Spot on!!

I can't agree less

Hyland:

The annoying thing is Sheggz doesn’t even have any of this!

Even "big dick " ?

MamBi:
Mily, this is for you cos I know you stepped out:-

Whilst Doyin was eating Chizzy's food and both were playing with each other, Chizzy brings up the topic of Doyin being perceived as always being in other people's business.

He said that this morning whilst The Shellas were discussing their issues with Doyin, that the rest of the housemates started tabling Doyin's matter about her interference in other people's matters.

Doyin got visibly upset and started asking what she is expected to do when people bring their issues to her. She asked if she is supposed to tell them to take their talk away or if she is supposed to just jump up and leave the person/people. She started explaining that she is always by herself and people come to her for these talks. She cited examples of Shegzz coming to her and Bella also coming to her. She also talked about Daniella coming to her and Brian bringing his and Modella's talk to her. She then asked who and who were spreading these narratives.

Chizzy said he was the one who started the talk this morning and that she needs to find a way out of the couple's talks because they will use her to settle matters at the end.

Doyin got even more hurt to find out that Chizzy was the one who supposedly started the "table gist". So she gets up tells him to Bleep off, goes to wash her plates and stalks off to the room. She goes to Shegzz to confirm if she was the one who came to meet the couple when they were having issues or if they were the ones who came to her.

Shegzz confirmed that he came to her because he was looking for another female's perspective and Bella gets very upset with the rest of the house for always twisting things. She loudly stresses and particularly calls Chizzy's name for "trying to come for her"... She asks loudly if it is a crime to have conversations with someone.

By this time, Doyin is in tears and goes under the duvet to cry with Bella trying to comfort her before Shegzz came to claim some serious kisses from her.

Bryan on the other hand goes to Chizzy to ask what happened. Chizzy explains what happened with some slight alterations (apparently, it might not have been the house who tabled the matter). Chizzy was trying to warn his friend but using the guise of "whole house" might have triggered an already sensitive Doyin. Bryan tells Chizzy to sort things out with Doyin as she is quite upset. Chizzy maintains that Doyin was being childish for asking for verification from the Shellas and that he did not have time for Bella just yet...

What would Chizzy have Doyin do if they bring issue to her though, she can’t push Sheggz away, that will be rude.

I like her friendship with Chizzy and i hope she sorts it with him.
That’s my newest ship

Threebear:

Igwe Okagbue was her dad , so she's royalty .

Where is the receipt because I'm sure there are alot of different families bearing Okagbue.

Not only royalty but royal rumble.

DamianX:


Where is the receipt because I'm sure there are alot of different families bearing Okagbue.

But only one IGWE Okagbue and he was Bella's dad.
Don't forget her family has been in the limelight way before she joined bbnaija.

There is no difference between you and the people you are trying to correct. Same you decided Sandra and Annie are being patriarchy princesses without any evidence save they being in very bad relationships

safarigirl:
Anybody that thinks that it is only money that can motivate people to stay in terrible relationships all the time, I just assume they are speaking for themselves.


Power can keep people

Ignorance can keep people

Fear of the unknown can keep people

Even big dick can keep people.


It is not always because of money. it may be a factor in some cases, but it is not always the main factor for everyone. Make una try dey creative.

Maybe I dey project my own values on people too much sef, na why money narrative dey always quench me.

Threebear:

I really don't think it's cool involving her family Sha

Bella represents herself in that house and not the okagbue family .

She's a very mature adult capable of making salient decisions for herself.


And she has herself to blame 100 percent for putting up with this.

Sheggz is a narcissist and narcissists have a type ...

The only reason she was singled out was because Sheggz smelled her toxicity , pride and arrogance from a mile.

He wanted to break her and he's almost succeeded.

As much as I am a feminist , I don't see Bella as a victim .

She made herself a target when she assumed she was better than the rest of the girls in the house.

Sheggz set a trap for her and she fell yakata .

Started gassing her up (like every narcissist)

And once she was bloated , he busted her bubbles.

We can tag Sheggz a devil but never forget that the devil never calls a debt from those who didn't sign an agreement .


At the end of the day , only Bella can save herself from this smelly ship .

This!

Threebear:

But only one IGWE Okagbue and he was Bella's dad.
Don't forget her family has been in the limelight way before she joined bbnaija.

Exactly what I'm saying. What is the evidence that she's Igwe Okagbue's daughter and not just an everyday Okagbue because the analysis that she is following a monkey post footballer because of money got me rethinking.

Bryann and Rachael are playing this their "Know more about me" game.

And everything they are saying just feels very relatable.

From Bryann saying he's not very intentional with his relationships and just has a lackadaisical approach to working on them, to Rachel saying she always doubts any relationship she has.

I like that Bryann expanded it into, "You have a fear of failure in your relationship, so, you anticipate it so it doesn't hurt as much when it happens."


Yes, yes, I relate.

Me, too, but like Eeghe, I don't want to jinx it

carammel:

What would Chizzy have Doyin do if they bring issue to her though, she can’t push Sheggz away, that will be rude.

I like her friendship with Chizzy and i hope she sorts it with him.
That’s my newest ship

carammel:

What would Chizzy have Doyin do if they bring issue to her though, she can’t push Sheggz away, that will be rude.

I like her friendship with Chizzy and i hope she sorts it with him.
That’s my newest ship

I like the two of them together and the playfulness is top notch. I am also glad he put it up and fore front in her head today. She must learn to tell people to get out with their need for therapist...

But I will like that they keep it a friendship sha...

Adekunle nominates Sheggz .

That guy will soon die of old age and hatred !!!

Tufia .

Threebear:

I really don't think it's cool involving her family Sha

Bella represents herself in that house and not the okagbue family .

She's a very mature adult capable of making salient decisions for herself.


And she has herself to blame 100 percent for putting up with this.

Sheggz is a narcissist and narcissists have a type ...

The only reason she was singled out was because Sheggz smelled her toxicity , pride and arrogance from a mile.

He wanted to break her and he's almost succeeded.

As much as I am a feminist , I don't see Bella as a victim .

She made herself a target when she assumed she was better than the rest of the girls in the house.

Sheggz set a trap for her and she fell yakata .

Started gassing her up (like every narcissist)

And once she was bloated , he busted her bubbles.

We can tag Sheggz a devil but never forget that the devil never calls a debt from those who didn't sign an agreement .


At the end of the day , only Bella can save herself from this smelly ship .

How will she leave a whole Ikoyi lamba lord...

A woman has got more than one plan to survive.

She should enjoy the upgraded Tony Umez sha.

DamianX:


Exactly what I'm saying. What is the evidence that she's Igwe Okagbue's daughter and not just an everyday Okagbue because the analysis that she is following a monkey post footballer because of money got me rethinking.

Because that analysis is untrue, and it is just people who think everybody is money hungry that run with it.

Na lack of broadened horizon. Most Nigerians will never explore possibilities beyond money, it must always be money for them. One of the downsides of being a third world country, and a poverty-ridden nation.

Hyland:

The annoying thing is Sheggz doesn’t even have any of this!

Sheggz has big prick

safarigirl:
Anybody that thinks that it is only money that can motivate people to stay in terrible relationships all the time, I just assume they are speaking for themselves.


Power can keep people

Ignorance can keep people

Fear of the unknown can keep people

Even big dick can keep people.


It is not always because of money. it may be a factor in some cases, but it is not always the main factor for everyone. Make una try dey creative.

Maybe I dey project my own values on people too much sef, na why money narrative dey always quench me.

It's easy to have a moral perspective of something you don't have experience in.

That's all I'd say.