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Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by udomma1005(m): 9:20pm On Nov 12, 2022
PlayMaker14:
Go back and read again... He is not under any obligation to give her one penny.
Nope he is not!
But since she's acting all up too greedy and entitled, he should drop the bait, she will swallow it and he will be introduced to more clientele. He loses nothing greasing a greedy palm.
Besides, I don't need to go back to read anything, I'm not preparing for any exams! cool
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by zanshi: 9:27pm On Nov 12, 2022
Due to their level of entiltlement and the way society panders to women, so of them don't know how to show gratitude to the sacrifices society makes to them. Only women can call women out that is if they don't decide to look away.
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Sucre6: 9:33pm On Nov 12, 2022
Some of you here are being too emotional and sentimental, business is business, I like her kind of person, she don't mix business with pleasure and that's how it's should be, she might be rude but she sure know her ways around doing business. She could bring op more client but she want to first of all draw that commission boundaries. And I respect her for coming out straight up
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by PlayMaker14: 9:35pm On Nov 12, 2022
udomma1005:
Nope he is not!
But since she's acting all up too greedy and entitled, he should drop the bait, she will swallow it and he will be introduced to more clientele. He loses nothing greasing a greedy palm.
Besides, I don't need to go back to read anything, I'm not preparing for any exams! cool
k.
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Mindlog: 9:37pm On Nov 12, 2022
PlayMaker14:
Go back and read again... He is not under any obligation to give her one penny.
He is, if he intends to get more referrals from her. I have got folks who are offering me 20% to get them referrals and also be the escrow though I am not interested in such.
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Sucre6: 9:38pm On Nov 12, 2022
Dailyparrot:
No sir. I'm not desperate for the assignments. I'm not jobless. The assignments are side gig for me. If I'm not doing them, I've got something else that will fetch me even a higher amount of money.

The major reason I contacted her was to help her get her assignments done and earn from it. It's me actually helping them not that I rely on it for survival.

I never meant it to be a business and I didn't ask her to link me up with anyone.

So, she can hold her connect. I'm not sending her a dime from the money the cousin sent but I'm willing to give her going forward since that's what she wants.
Bro, I advice you not to attach emotion going forward, I treat people equally, if you like make u be my twin brother, when it comes to business, just put this one behind and move on, try to dey give her commission, nothing serious, we are all wired differently, u can't expect her to act a certain way to make u happy.
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Dailyparrot(op): 9:48pm On Nov 12, 2022
Mindlog:
Oga you can't be angry over unethical practices, students outsourcing assignments is a violation of the honour code they signed up to uphold during induction because submitting assignments done by another person is against academic integrity.

Since you are in that space, you can't be talking about character....give to Ceaser what belongs to Ceaser
Even people that used special centers to pass Jamb and Waec are talking about academic ethics. grin

No vex sir, I'm helping humanity. One of the students that I do assignments for sidelined me and did one of her assignments by herself. The result is the screenshot below cheesy

We all are not created academically equal. Some people are slow learners and there's nothing anyone can do about it and they must go to school

Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by haybhi1(m): 10:39pm On Nov 12, 2022
Dailyparrot:
That same lady that was already wishing me ill simply because she sent me her complete money but yet to get her assignment was the same person I connected with the guy I did assignments for to help her get a job in Manchester since she's new to UK.
The UK guy also linked me up to his friend doing her BSc in Canada and so far I've done work worth over 100k for her this month alone yet the guy didn't come to me to ask for a cut.
Why is it that women believe everything must be monitized?
Parrot, not to generalize, women rarely give out freely, without compensatory expectations. Just deal with them as due, or you may be in for a long one.

Sorry for your experience.


Meanwhile, I'm a writer too, Parrot. I ghostwrote outsourced jobs for people on Fiverr, 2019 through 2020, although, writing has been hard to come by lately. I double as a student too. I had a writing job for a site briefly this year. I could tell you their name to assess my works but NL policies disallow that.

I will be glad to be let in on your team, either as a work partner, outsoursee or something different - that fits in your plan somehow.

You can reach my whatsapp on ZeroEightOne FourSeven EightFour ThreeSeven FourSix.

Thank you.
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by 1Sharon(f): 10:56pm On Nov 12, 2022
She sounds very aggressive, just cut her off.
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Mindlog: 11:43pm On Nov 12, 2022
Dailyparrot:
Even people that used special centers to pass Jamb and Waec are talking about academic ethics. grin

No vex sir, I'm helping humanity. One of the students that I do assignments for sidelined me and did one of her assignments by herself. The result is the screenshot below cheesy

We all are not created academically equal. Some people are slow learners and there's nothing anyone can do about it and they must go to school
For your mind na you give me expo whey I take pass WAEC, JAMB, graduate with a B.A, got my MBPsS and a Msc Clinical Child Psychology in the same UK whey you dey help people write assignmentss! cheesy

I guess na you help me go for interviews, wrote clinical based tests, do child observations, then finally got my present job on my behalf, then you con call me say make I go start work. You no even reach to do my assignments.

Which humanity are you helping? You are helping yourself to earn an income while enabling students to be lazy. It is good that student scored that low mark, as it shows she didn't utilize the resources available to her. Dem give u up to 8 weeks to do and submit a 5,000 word assignment......no matter how slow you are, at least at Masters level you no suppose to dey dull yourself.
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by galantjoe(m): 1:10am On Nov 13, 2022
The op is not business man. Any business man doesn't joke with PR. It opens door of clientele. The op is slowpoke, the referrer is right to demand for cut. What Op would have done is to give her some thing since it wasn't specific on amount.

I am doing one software maintenance service for over 10yrs now. I give my contact and operator 50% of my retainer fee. I know it is side business, losing means losing source of income. So I keep giving them 50% for helping me to keep the money flowing every year
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by intruder15(m): 2:58am On Nov 13, 2022
Mindlog:
Oga you can't be angry over unethical practices, students outsourcing assignments is a violation of the honour code they signed up to uphold during induction because submitting assignments done by another person is against academic integrity.

Since you are in that space, you can't be talking about character....give to Ceaser what belongs to Ceaser
Your analysis is not in line. Kickbacks are given with expectation from the onset.

The cousin is something else. Why collect interest from your own cousin?

Na those type de chop all their good deeds with their hand.
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by reuben81: 6:59am On Nov 13, 2022
Dailyparrot:
No sir. I'm not desperate for the assignments. I'm not jobless. The assignments are side gig for me. If I'm not doing them, I've got something else that will fetch me even a higher amount of money.

The major reason I contacted her was to help her get her assignments done and earn from it. It's me actually helping them not that I rely on it for survival.

I never meant it to be a business and I didn't ask her to link me up with anyone.

So, she can hold her connect. I'm not sending her a dime from the money the cousin sent but I'm willing to give her going forward since that's what she wants.
u also is a very stubborn person,from the earlier post u ask her the assignment now u are denying it,and u seems to be a very proud person
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by reuben81: 7:01am On Nov 13, 2022
advanceDNA:
So u no get mind of cutting her something until she asks??......u no do well...

no carry this kind mind set enter big busimess world.... life is give and take....
Thank u for that advice,I can never do business with this kind of person
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by a0000000z: 7:02am On Nov 13, 2022
When people go to UK, their stingy and greedy bars reach 100% of their stingy capacity grin
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Nobody: 8:30am On Nov 13, 2022
Mindlog:
You are right about Kenyans, Nigerians still dey learn work when it comes to doing academic assignments for foreign students, is a huge industry there. cheesy
What do people go to the UK to learn if ordinary assignment you cannot do for yourself!

How did a mighty UK fell this flat?
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Mindlog: 8:58am On Nov 13, 2022
MissLAP:
What do people go to the UK to learn if ordinary assignment you cannot do for yourself!

How did a mighty UK fell this flat?
Some are not interested in the academics side of their migration because they are not even hoping to use their certificate to seek employment. cheesy
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Dailyparrot(op): 9:29am On Nov 13, 2022
reuben81:
u also is a very stubborn person,from the earlier post u ask her the assignment now u are denying it,and u seems to be a very proud person
I asked for her own assignment to help her and not because I needed a job to be doing assignments for people desperately.

Mind you, I agreed I'm going to give her her cut going forward, but the way she went about it was very hostile.

And yes, I am proud!
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Nobody: 9:41am On Nov 13, 2022
Dailyparrot:
No sir. I'm not desperate for the assignments. I'm not jobless. The assignments are side gig for me. If I'm not doing them, I've got something else that will fetch me even a higher amount of money.

The major reason I contacted her was to help her get her assignments done and earn from it. It's me actually helping them not that I rely on it for survival.

I never meant it to be a business and I didn't ask her to link me up with anyone.

So, she can hold her connect. I'm not sending her a dime from the money the cousin sent but I'm willing to give her going forward since that's what she wants.
Confirm guy. I'm impressed with your response.
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Olaolex: 10:23am On Nov 13, 2022
Sucre6:
Some of you here are being too emotional and sentimental, business is business, I like her kind of person, she don't mix business with pleasure and that's how it's should be, she might be rude but she sure know her ways around doing business. She could bring op more client but she want to first of all draw that commission boundaries. And I respect her for coming out straight up
Read well. There was no initial agreement that she's going to collect her share. I'll just urge op to find her something
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by LILTJAY: 10:46am On Nov 13, 2022
normal igbo people lifestyle undecided
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by MrMcJay(m): 12:30pm On Nov 13, 2022
Not everyone is a friend. Some are acquaintances, some are just people you know.
Not every idiot you call your friend.

Expectation breeds disappointment.
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by MrMcJay(m): 12:31pm On Nov 13, 2022
Dailyparrot:
No sir. I'm not desperate for the assignments. I'm not jobless. The assignments are side gig for me. If I'm not doing them, I've got something else that will fetch me even a higher amount of money.

The major reason I contacted her was to help her get her assignments done and earn from it. It's me actually helping them not that I rely on it for survival.

I never meant it to be a business and I didn't ask her to link me up with anyone.

So, she can hold her connect. I'm not sending her a dime from the money the cousin sent but I'm willing to give her going forward since that's what she wants.
Tell her cousin to add to the money he paid you so you can pay this hungry girl her shar. That she has been disturbing you.

That is how you handle hungry people. She obviously lacks self-respect so you should not give her any.
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by reuben81: 12:59pm On Nov 13, 2022
Dailyparrot:
I asked for her own assignment to help her and not because I needed a job to be doing assignments for people desperately.

Mind you, I agreed I'm going to give her her cut going forward, but the way she went about it was very hostile.

And yes, I am proud!
u should learn how to appriciate for the fact u called her,and she reciprocate,that's to tell u she's a good friend,mind u not everyone staying abroad is doing well,she could a hookup girl
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by MrTee28(m): 1:09pm On Nov 13, 2022
Mindlog:
Oga you can't be angry over unethical practices, students outsourcing assignments is a violation of the honour code they signed up to uphold during induction because submitting assignments done by another person is against academic integrity.

Since you are in that space, you can't be talking about character....give to Ceaser what belongs to Ceaser
This is the comment I have been scrolling down to see. Gracias
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by jelel6: 2:47pm On Nov 13, 2022
Dailyparrot:
In a similar incident, another girl I met at the Lagos state NYSC orientation camp who has remained my friend even after she got married just traveled to the UK to do her masters.

She brought her own assignment to me and I billed her based on the relationship we've had over the years.

Now, this girl sent the money and demanded that I should send part of the work to her in case something happens to me.

I really don't understand that statement. I've known this girl for years and never for a day did she try to reach me and I was unreachable. So because she sent me a meager 25k, something will suddenly happen to me that I will not be able to deliver her work to her.

Why are some girls this mean and wicked at heart?
But what's actually wrong in a client asking you to deliver completed work in bits and pieces? Put yourself in the person's shoes. She gave you a valid reasons why she wanted to have any completed work delivered - so she can carry on and complete the rest if circumstance warrants. She was not trying to question your professionalism. In fact, she's suggesting ways to ensure you maintain it to some degree IF things go south.

For context, I was working on a project for a new client when I received a call that my cousin had a nasty accident. I had to deliver what I had done already so the client won't think I was playing with their work. I've lost documents save locally on my devices, and had to start from scratch. The client was really angry. I could have delivered some units as soon as I completed them.

She paid you in full, be thankful for that. Other service renderers get their money when they reach certain milestones in the project.
Besides, quit the mentality that you're doing them a favor. You're getting paid. If you stop offering the services you render, other people will fill the void. There's nothing special about the work you can do.

As for the girl asking for kickbacks, I understand why you may feel some kind of way giving her a cut. But just as you thought she shouldn't be requesting kickbacks from you because of your friendship, she may also be expecting a small giveaway for the same reason. I hope you know some people make their living from connecting customers to service renderers.


Personally, I would give her a cut since she's expecting some (I would have offered her anyways), and be glad she requested instead of holding ill feelings about it. But whether I continue taking her referrals would be based on how I perceive her approach. I have worked with too many nice and reasonable people to begin entertaining unbridled arrogance.
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by fannybaby(f): 4:07pm On Nov 13, 2022
Hmmmmmm
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by zed7: 4:16pm On Nov 13, 2022
Lol, calm down, it's very tough abroad. Every penny matters and that's why your friend is 'opening eyes' for you. No free lunch there.

What exactly do you mean you do assignments for people abroad? Have you people taken this your lazy and fraudulent ways abroad too? You should be arrested for even saying you do assignments for people.

An assignment is not for fun, it's to reinforce learning.
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Nwaotu10(m): 5:41pm On Nov 13, 2022
PlayMaker14:
“Goat Na Goat, If You Like, Carry Am Go UK, Na Still Goat


Don't give her a dime of that money, if you do, she'll feel your survival depends on her..

From her chat, you will notice she's daft and might end up going into full-time runs.


Don't give her a penny.
Follow this advice if you don't want her to disrespect you further and perhaps, look down on you afterwards.
I discerned she was maniacal from her submissions.
Smh angry
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Mindlog: 6:04pm On Nov 13, 2022
zed7:
Lol, calm down, it's very tough abroad. Every penny matters and that's why your friend is 'opening eyes' for you. No free lunch there.

What exactly do you mean you do assignments for people abroad? Have you people taken this your lazy and fraudulent ways abroad too? You should be arrested for even saying you do assignments for people.

An assignment is not for fun, it's to reinforce learning.
Uncle said he is helping humanity by getting paid to do assignments for students, I guess he deserves a Nobel Prize. cheesy
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Cutehector(m): 6:06pm On Nov 13, 2022
She is not different from the regular agbero on the streets of lagos.
Re: My Terrible Experiences With My Two Female Friends (photos) by Nobody: 7:19pm On Nov 13, 2022
She has zero manners, seems like UK changed her.

Return back the money her friend sent to you and tell her that you can't help out anymore.
Dailyparrot:
There has been an upsurge in the number of young Nigerians traveling to the UK for studies.

I'm sure most people here must have known one or two close friends that have left Nigeria to the UK in the last 2 years.

There's this girl I met at Lagos NYSC orientation camp during my service year. We became friends and have been in touch all this while. She is from my home state and her family house in the village is close to mine. She left Lagos to Port Harcourt after our service but I used to see her during Christmas whenever I travel to the East.

I checked her WhatsApp status recently and noticed the background of her photos didn't look like Nigeria. I asked her and she told me that she has left Nigeria to UK to do her masters.

I congratulated her and told her that I do assignments for people especially students in diaspora. She said okay that her cousin has been looking for who to assist her with her assignment. The cousin traveled together with her for the studies.

So, she gave my number to her cousin who got in touch with me. We reached an agreement and she sent part of the money so I can get started with the assignment. I billed her lower than what I would ordinary have billed her because of the relationship I have with the cousin.

Fast forward to few days later, this my friend chatted me up asking for her cut from the money her cousin paid me. I was more than shocked because I never saw it coming and I'm sure the cousin would be so disappointed if she gets to know that her cousin came to me to collect a kickback from the money she paid.

I told her that she didn't tell me it was a business for her so I could factor that in while billing her cousin.

She said she has two people who need help with their assignment. I told her that I will give her the commission from those new people since she's indicated that's what she wants.

But this girl has talked to me in a very condescending manner. I don't know if it's because she went to UK or what. I have known this girl for years but I never knew her to be like this.

Why are some girls this mean?
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