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Cheating Wife by Nextlife1: 1:39pm On Dec 03, 2022
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.

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Re: Cheating Wife by MufasaLion: 1:42pm On Dec 03, 2022
When will you people (both genders) learn to stop bearing the burden that was never meant for you?

Doesn't she have a father or mother that could enroll her in school? You left educated women to marry someone you'll be funding her education, what for?

Your premium heartbreak is about to start!

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Re: Cheating Wife by Kollins11: 1:43pm On Dec 03, 2022
What stupid advice do you need? Are you normal at all? dey swear for you? What kind of SIMPle breed are you? angry
I'm always angry when I read stories like this from a married man.

Never you wife a Nigerian liability wh0re but una no go hear. Your wife belongs to the street. I'm sure you saw lots of red flags when you both were dating but you were hoping she would change afterwards.

it's a total disrespect for a married woman to cheat on her husband. A Cheating wife can kill you one day. Thats the truth. Bundle her like firewood and kick her out of your house.

I would rather die than to marry a Nigerian liability wh0re. That gender are all useless... All of them.

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Re: Cheating Wife by Zonefree(m): 1:43pm On Dec 03, 2022
Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.
So, you get mind go pay bride price for an untrained Nigerian liability?

You still get mind dey send her go school.

After schooling, you'll still establish her.

All these just for procreation

Now, see the result.


To pay bride price for an untrained Nigerian girl is 4th most foolish things on earth!

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Re: Cheating Wife by Nextlife1: 1:46pm On Dec 03, 2022
MufasaLion:
When will you people (both genders) learn to stop bearing the burden that was never meant for you?

Doesn't she have a father or mother that could enroll her in school? You left educated women to marry someone you'll be funding her education, what for?

Your premium heartbreak is about to start!
We are married for more than 5 years now and I love her
Reason for me to send her to study.

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Re: Cheating Wife by Ebubu: 1:47pm On Dec 03, 2022
MufasaLion:
When will you people (both genders) learn to stop bearing the burden that was never meant for you?

Doesn't she have a father or mother that could enroll her in school? You left educated women to marry someone you'll be funding her education, what for?

Your premium heartbreak is about to start!
so if you marry a wife with a degree, you can’t sponsor her for Masters education if she desires to be a lecturer?

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Re: Cheating Wife by Zonefree(m): 1:47pm On Dec 03, 2022
Nextlife1:

We are married for more than 5 years now and I love her
Reason for me to send her to study.
You allowed your love for a Nigerian girl becloud your sense of reasoning. Now, another small boy dey smash your beloved wife with reckless abandon.

Pele o.

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Re: Cheating Wife by Solofresh2: 1:48pm On Dec 03, 2022
Kollins11:
Typing cool
how far grin

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Re: Cheating Wife by Solofresh2: 1:49pm On Dec 03, 2022
I don't have any advice for you
People like you should learn the hard way

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Re: Cheating Wife by Zonefree(m): 1:50pm On Dec 03, 2022
Ebubu:

so if you marry a wife with a degree, you can’t sponsor her for Masters education if she desires to be a lecturer?
She's meant to use her degree to sponsor herself for Masters Education. Unless her degree is useless which doesn't require her studying further!

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Re: Cheating Wife by Nextlife1: 1:56pm On Dec 03, 2022
All I needed is kind advise I believe we still have good people here on nairaland
Am so confused now.
I have told her about it she is still writing her final year exam I don't want her to fail exam because of this problem reason am keeping it to myself for now.

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Re: Cheating Wife by MufasaLion: 1:57pm On Dec 03, 2022
Ebubu:

so if you marry a wife with a degree, you can’t sponsor her for Master's education if she desires to be a lecturer?

No, I won't solely sponsor her, but can co-sponsor her.

A woman that's employed and have ambitions will always work towards it, and by the time she's interested in pursuing more degree, she would have had some savings for the tuition. I will only support with what I can comfortably forgo, without expecting anything back from her.

Also, it's wrong to put all your savings into a business, education or anything. Wise people always set goals for themselves and meet the target. There should be separate savings for education, vacation etc.,which won't affect your main or other savings.

There are many woman sponsoring their own Master's, and Ph.D. is even free. And there are many women that are brilliant and will surely get fully-funded scholarship for Master's and Ph.D.

And in this guy's case, he's likely to be sponsoring his wife's undergraduate program, which is even more expensive and unwise.

So, it all depends on what type of woman you wanna be with!

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Re: Cheating Wife by Nextlife1: 1:59pm On Dec 03, 2022
Kollins11:
What stupid advice do you need? Are you normal at all? dey swear for you? What kind of SIMPle breed are you? angry
I'm always angry when I read stories like this from a married man.

Never you wife a Nigerian liability wh0re. Your wife belongs to the street but una no go hear. I'm sure you saw lots of red flags when you both were dating but you were hoping she would change afterwards.

it's a total disrespect for a married woman to cheat on her husband. Bundle her like firewood and kick her out of your house.
No she was not like that when I meet her
And we love each other we have children together.

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Re: Cheating Wife by Kollins11: 2:12pm On Dec 03, 2022
Nextlife1:

No she was not like that when I meet her
And we love each other we have children together.
Baba, I put it to you that she was like that. Your wife is a wh0re but you were blinded by her fake love. She was waiting for a SIMPle man to wife her quickly so she could continue her dick gobbling from one man to another.

I'm 100% sure you went down on your knees proposing begging her to marry you. I'm happy you're learning the hardest way.

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Re: Cheating Wife by stacyadams: 2:17pm On Dec 03, 2022
Nextlife1:
All I needed is kind advise I believe we still have good people here on nairaland
Am so confused now.
I have told her about it she is still writing her final year exam I don't want her to fail exam because of this problem reason am keeping it to myself for now.


Mosdii please come and teach this bro the rule 101 on Nigerian girls. grin

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Re: Cheating Wife by MufasaLion: 2:20pm On Dec 03, 2022
Nextlife1:

We are married for more than 5 years now and I love her
Reason for me to send her to study.

Wether you have been married for a decade or century, your actions are not justifiable. It's unwise to do what you are doing. Even the elites that their kids will end up marrying rich folks, will always enroll their kids in school, some till Ph.D. level before/after marriage.

You people (both genders) always let love becloud your reasoning hence the reason you always settle for less. Your wife was not exposed to some lifestyle before marriage but now that she's schooling, she's met men of different social class which has made her feel more valuable and reckless at the same time.

Also, men like you that have plans to enroll their woman in school should also upgrade their own life in terms of education, enlightenment and social class because women like your wife will be carried away easily by some basic things.

Women are hypergamy in nature, so it's part of the reasons you're being cheated on and disrespected.

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Re: Cheating Wife by Nextlife1: 2:32pm On Dec 03, 2022
Am grateful for all your advice it's going along way calming me down thanks.

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Re: Cheating Wife by Fountainofyouth(f): 3:13pm On Dec 03, 2022
Eyah Pele, divorce her and move on.

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Re: Cheating Wife by GboyegaD(m): 3:29pm On Dec 03, 2022
I can't advise you on what to do however, let her finish her exams and then bring up the issue. During the discussion, watch out for both verbal and non-verbal cues. Process them and pray to whatsoever you believe in to guide you.

You did no wrong sponsoring her education. It is part of what marriage is about so don't guilt trip yourself. Marriage is about uplifting one another and big kudos for you for bot trying to suppress your wife.

Most importantly, if you can, do not disclose anything happening in your home to friends and family. Come online to rant if you need to. If you choose to forgive her, those you tell may never.

In it all, I pray may the peace of the Lord that surpasseth human understanding be with you and may His Holy Spirit guide you and you home in this moment in Jesus Name, Amen.

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Re: Cheating Wife by sisisioge: 3:36pm On Dec 03, 2022
Lol! This arrangement never pans out well. She will always meet her classmate or lecturer that she likes. Poor you.


Na so one babe being sponsored by her husband for my Uni back in the days was dating her class mate and one lecturer. She eventually fell in love with the lecturer sotey, when she was pregnant she was still sleeping with him. It was confusing for us back then cos we thought the pregnancy ought to be for her husband. Who knows how it ended eventually. Hope your children resemble you grin

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Re: Cheating Wife by GboyegaD(m): 3:47pm On Dec 03, 2022
sisisioge:
Lol! This arrangement never pans out well. She will always meet her classmate or lecturer that she likes. Poor you.

Na so one babe being sponsored by her husband for my Uni back in the days was dating her class mate and one lecturer. She eventually fell in love with the lecturer sotey, when she was pregnant she was still sleeping with him. It was confusing for us back then cos we thought the pregnancy ought to be for her husband. Who knows how it ended eventually. Hope your children resemble you grin

We both agree not everyone ends up cheating, right?

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Re: Cheating Wife by Nextlife1: 4:15pm On Dec 03, 2022
Please if you know the best way I can handle this kindly share it with me please.
It's not easy on be.

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Re: Cheating Wife by sisisioge: 4:27pm On Dec 03, 2022
GboyegaD:


We both agree not everyone ends up cheating, right?

Yes, but the chances are slim. Especially if the lady is still pretty young and inquisitive. It gets worse if the sponsor is undereducated and older embarassed

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Re: Cheating Wife by TayehJiboluwa(m): 4:35pm On Dec 03, 2022
It is very hard for a young wife that is still schooling not to cheat with her colleagues and other men. Most guys that did this regretted it, including a friend of mine. If I were you, I would make her sign a oath with her blood not to cheat on me before the commencement of her schooling. Both men and women do it anyway. This body is not wood. She can't stop now. Get sufficient evidence and show it to her parents and family then let her go, if you want to progress in life.

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Re: Cheating Wife by GboyegaD(m): 5:20pm On Dec 03, 2022
sisisioge:


Yes, but the chances are slim. Especially if the lady is still pretty young and inquisitive. It gets worse if the sponsor is undereducated and older embarassed

It is well.
Re: Cheating Wife by 1Sharon(f): 5:25pm On Dec 03, 2022
Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.

Were you denying her sex at home?

As soon as your wife starts cheating, just know there's something that you are not doing, go down on your knees and pray, don't let another man break your home. Always appear neat the way you were the very first time you approached her and don't yell at her all the time, show her care and love so that she will not look outside, sometimes walk around naked and don't wear anything to bed, always try to catch her attention. Thanks and God bless you as you do so.

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Re: Cheating Wife by ahnie: 5:28pm On Dec 03, 2022
Only few sensible men dey online.the rest no follow at all.
Richy4
Mindlog
Sir Gbos

Una get my respect

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Re: Cheating Wife by Richy4(m): 5:34pm On Dec 03, 2022
ahnie:
Only few sensible men dey online.the rest no follow at all.
Richy4
Mindlog
Sir Gbos

Una get my respect

Thanks our dearest Ahnie. smiley..

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Re: Cheating Wife by sisisioge: 5:39pm On Dec 03, 2022
ahnie:
Only few sensible men dey online.the rest no follow at all.
Richy4
Mindlog
Sir Gbos

Una get my respect

Mindlog is a guy? Totally agree with your no 1 grin

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