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Mrkumareze:
very soon, Nigeria will turn to Philippines where almost all their women are separated or divorced .

Socialisation is the father of all this sh*t, we left our culture for a white man's own, now we couldn't even manage homes .. out forefathers married more than 5, they all lived happily.
The earlier we come back to our culture, the better for us..

Do you mean Modernisation?

Immaculate and Charles

May your years be longer than the Mediterranean.

Mrkumareze:
very soon, Nigeria will turn to Philippines where almost all their women are separated or divorced .

Socialisation is the father of all this sh*t, we left our culture for a white man's own, now we couldn't even manage homes .. out forefathers married more than 5, they all lived happily.
The earlier we come back to our culture, the better for us..

Why do you call these people celebrity there is nothing to celebrate in them

Zonefree:
Again, any rich man going into marriage with a Nigerian girl is being unwise.

Marriage with a Nigerian girl is for the downtrodden.

same with your parents decision

ebukajay184:
IGBERETV report

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What I have to say in this context is that we as a people have lost our most prized possession and that is our values. I will not equate my argument with the subjects in this topic cos it's normal that celebrities all over the globe are none for being fake in their dealings. But I speak from the general contextual terms surrounding this institution called marriage as it was handed over by our fore fathers.

A guy made mention of our cultural approach to marriage and some folks are busy saying thrash against his submission. The truth of the matter is that we have embraced the very negative side of westernization and forgotten to hold the positive side.
Every Nigerian lady after watching Netflix wants to behave like the whites, and our dear Nollywood is not helping matters as they tend to script movies that do not portray our very values and some dumb skulls will take it to heart like, it's the way to go.

In those days, Divorce is Taboo in Igbo land as it is very difficult to send a woman parking out of her husband's house without the consent of the family. You don't even have the right to maltreat a woman when the parents and siblings are still alive, talk more of beating her for they are consequences for this actions.

But this day, we all want to be more English than the British Man. Even Christianity frowns at divorce so this ugly trend sweeping our society today is a result of a general breakdown of moral associated with copying what we are not smart enough to understand.

Very soon we will drift towards not taking care of our aged parents in the coming future cos that is what we are seeing in foreign movies or copied from the whites as a result of travelling overseas.. We should stick to what works for us and jettison that which was originally made for the whites cos no matter how hard we try, we can nevwr be like the whites..Atleast our bad leaders will remind you where you are when the chips are down.

ebukajay184:
IGBERETV report

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Regards the issue of marriage and divorce. All I have to say is that this is more psychological and sometimes even spiritual than what you can understand normally.
The psychological aspect is the failure of some guys to read in-between the lines and understand the trend at which ladies operate and the background your lady is coming from and co-relating to what you want as a person.

Not every woman is meant for marriage either by design or default. If you are mature and sane enough you will notice it as you guys play along except if you are naturally daft or carried away by her knacking skills.
Some guys again fail to understand that there are classes of ladies.know this and know peace. Mingle with your class or slightly below your class and don't make any mistake in marrying a woman that you love more than she loves you.
Again, don't flaunt wealth around a lady as an arbiter to win her love. You will never tell the degree of love and don't marry a highly materialistic lady when you know you are not from a rich home.
Make sure you study her family background before you go into marriage, and check the kind of relationship the parents enjoy amongst themselves again if you are the highly moral type be very observant before you marry a lady whose mum died earlier in life and ended up in the hands of guidance cos her orientation must be very different either a good one or the bad.

As for you, follow this simple tips-
Treat your woman with respect.
Cherish her as your own.
Give her all the attention in the world.
Tell her the truth always except in some special occasions.
Pet her always and learn to pacify her.
Buy her gift.
Take her out.
Don't cheat on her. Cos it's better you marry a woman that you love than marry for a reason and cheat.
Make her opinion count.
Make her feel important
Always seek advise from her and end up making your decision as the man.
Knack her wella.
With this few tips you see them loving you like an idiot cos women are better lovers than we guys. A woman's love never dies except you give her a reason to kill the love.

Merry Christmas.

faithfull18:
What should we now do with the list

If u show visa officer this list, na one time dem go stamp visa for u

kazyhm:
Actually, inferiority complex won't allow black skin individual to appraised where they have been and where they are......you think anything foreign is progressive.


If you adopted an idea that further compounding your problems; making simple issues complex and cumbersome.....aren't you suppose to pause and check what you're doing wrong ?

The foreign ideology is even taking solutions away from your grasp.... relying on laws and legislation for personal issues and decisions......

You have no indepth knowledge of African culture and religion, if you have you would not be writing this naive comment you are writing here.

Mind you, the West did not enforce their culture or religion, it was the attraction and benefits of their culture and religion that encouraged our ppl to abandon most of our culture and religion to adopt that of the west.

Prenuptial aggrements should become a thing.

Financial/wealth planning for celebrities should become a thing.

ebukajay184:
IGBERETV report

14 Nigerian Celebrity Marriages That Crashed in 2022 (Photos)



https://igberetvnews.com/1434676/14-nigerian-celebrity-marriages-crashed-2022-still-counting-photos/

blueAgent:
You have no indepth knowledge of African culture and religion, if you have you would not be writing this naive comment you are writing here.

Mind you, the West did not enforce their culture or religion, it was the attraction and benefits of their culture and religion that encouraged our ppl to abandon most of our culture and religion to adopt that of the west.

Well, understand Nigeria is with diverse cultural heritage.....but speaking of Yoruba culture and marriage dispute resolution approaches....I understand what I'm talking about....hence I can't speak for the generality of Nigeria....

kazyhm:
Well, understand Nigeria is with diverse cultural heritage.....but speaking of Yoruba culture and marriage dispute resolution approaches....I understand what I'm talking about....hence I can't speak for the generality of Nigeria....

Di you mean in yoruba culture and land, their are no divorces?

blueAgent:
Di you mean in yoruba culture and land, their are no divorces?

There are plenty divorces.....but culturally, there are ways the separation are handled....and everybody will be alright....


But this western idea has really messed stuff up......after divorce, you'll see partners that never want have anything to do with each other anymore.

Infact, most time the cost of the litigation to get the divorce is enough to train the children.