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Exceed15:
Looool... It will shock she's the one in pain. Forget social media stunt

If she isn't in pain, go and give her the pain na


I don't know what gives you people the notion that a woman's happiness must be tied to a man

Chai peter have you gone for DNA?Your children no even look like you neither your wife.

Go and tell dis to millions of men and women divorced. U don’t even know if d marriage was what they regret. U think ppl don’t regret marriage? Wait till u have a bad marriage. U can almost run mad. I wish it upon u so ppl can judge u dis way. Fool

CoronaVirusRelo:
We know how they react when they are in pains!

They start with social media pictures as if all is well with them!

In months, when full reality dawns on them, hate speeches will follow.

buygala:
While Paul is busy flaunting that regurgitated bone-meal with long Jaw.. Ivy abi wetin be her name sef


Aunty Anita enjoy your peace and cute kids jare..Leave Paul and his midlife crises


And yes.. You can dick-hop as you wish .. Na fvck you fvck, you no kill pesin

So pauls happiness is your pain?

ecolime:
Na their meal tickets be that na.


Easy for wives of rich dudes to leave over flimsy reasons. Fight for child custody and alimony.

Once handled, all they do is go to the gym daily, live the single babe life, enjoy life & flex from custody support, watch movies all day & ride young dicks. when bored.

I don't blame young guys opting for Baby mamas nowadays. As a married man, make una handle your women with wisdom.

Always think 10 steps ahead.

Those who are not married yet should think about this before jumping into it.

Oga welfare officer for women affairs, please stop been a SIMP.

buygala:
If she isn't in pain, go and give her the pain na


I don't know what gives you people the feeling that a woman's happiness must be tied to a man

Crafteck1:
So pauls happiness is your pain?

I don't care about Paul's State of mind


My own is that Anita can do as she pleases.. Just as Paul has chosen to manage his midlife crises with a long-jawed Skeleton

God1000:
From the Ex-wife of basketbmouth to Paul's wife.

But must all the kids be in custody of women after the separation? I'm just curious.

Men no get time to care of children

Just be sending money for upkeep

Tamilore11:
Go and tell dis to millions of men and women divorced. U don’t even know if d marriage was what they regret. U think ppl don’t regret marriage? Wait till u have a bad marriage. U can almost run mad. I wish it upon u so ppl can judge u dis way. Fool

You are not making a point and just using emotion.

I know pained ladies when I see one! 99% of them starts with social media like all is well. Even the song they listen to on Instagram or Snapchat, will tell you they are pained!

Marriage is not perfect! Those happy marriages you believe are perfect, they have their up’s and downs!

The biggest mistake couples would make, is believing that their is a perfect woman or man outside. It’s a mirage!

She called for the divorce and not ready to work things out! It took a toll on paul too. But life goes on!

All those who instigated her to leave marriage will all disappear soon, and that’s when true reality will start setting-in

God1000:
From the Ex-wife of basketbmouth to Paul's wife.

But must all the kids be in custody of women after the separation? I'm just curious.

That's their life insurance, aka Child support! No kids, no child support!

Tatae900:
Oga welfare officer for women affairs, please stop been a SIMP.

Everything for una for simping

So for me to wish a lady well na simping

Please get a life and stop parroting nonsense

Wotoporiously speaking

merry Christmas to them too

nwekeugochukwu:
Singer Paul Okoye's ex-wife, Anita and their children celebrate Christmas together, IGBERETV reports.

Photos of them together was shared on her Instagram handle with the caption;



https://www.instagram.com/p/Cml6Ejyrqd6/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

This is what I choose to call Artificial joy.
Nobody is truly happy in that family.
Women know you not that the bible said that the glory of children is their father?

Another one yet again

It's like men are just using women to rare children only

buygala:
I don't care about Paul's State of mind


My own is that Anita can do as she pleases.. Just as Paul has chosen to manage his midlife crises with a long-jawed Skeleton

They are probably both happy or maybe not, we are not in THEIR SHOES so why sweat on the matter. Wetin hin dey fund them per month, how many people who are with their spouses can do quater of that?

God1000:
From the Ex-wife of basketbmouth to Paul's wife.

But must all the kids be in custody of women after the separation? I'm just curious.

Except you are Just Whining or Perhaps you are still a young lad.

We all knows who takes care of the Kids better coupled with other Circumstances "In regards of the Female" which needed not be emphasized.

At a point In life, One would get In touch and agree with Reality.

Crafteck1:
They are probably both happy or maybe not, we are not in THEIR SHOES so why sweat on the matter. Wetin hin dey fund them per month, how many people who are with their spouses can do quater of that?

And how do you know how much Paul is funding her and the kids?...

Don't forget that Paul is a has-been washed out musician.. So the money fit no dey as e dey before

buygala:
And how do you know how much Paul is funding her and the kids?...

Don't forget that Paul is a has-been washed out musician.. So the money fit no dey as e dey before

No matter how washed out psquare are, person wey carry person, not one, not 2 and not 3 commot for this hell hole go stay and school for yankee na mini God.

Kajaard:
You are everywhere on every thread 24 hours at anytime of the day every day of the week. You don't have a day job?

Even on normal work days you are on every thread on nairaland. Damn.

Lol Dem is a resident on NL, that hairy dude lives here.

Crafteck1:
No matter how washed out psquare are, person wey carry person, not one, not 2 and not 3 commot for this hell hole go stay and school for yankee na mini God.

And how do you know they are all in the abroad, and that Paul is solely or even played any part in their being there?

Tamilore11:
Plz shut up!!! Shut up plz!!!! Jesus Christ!! There is more to life than marriage for God sake!!!! Even richest man in the world, his wife left him. Some ppl get tired of marriage. Na by force?? She will regret it because of wat? U think everybody has ur backward mentality? U know whether she even regret marrying paul in the first place?? U know whether it’s now she feels happy? Can u plz shut up.

Why will you drag Bros J into this matter on his birthday na.

CoronaVirusRelo:
Those ladies are in pains!

Ignore the social media happiness they trying to paint!


Majority of them regret after leaving. When some have been fvcked and refvcked, then it dawns on them their is no perfect man.

But is it easy? What if the man is a womanizer or a chronic womanizer? You'd say the woman should put up with it but would the man put up with the woman if she only kissed a man on the cheek? InFidelity is infidelity whether it is from the man or the woman! It is abominable to God and he promises to punish adulterers (Read Hebrews 13:4)

I will neither judge a woman who stays nor one who leaves because of infidelity (Read Matthew 7:1-4). That's the only scriptural reason permitted to divorce and remarry.

Other good reasons may be domestic violence or sexual abuse of the spouse or even the children or the children of others.

Chinjo2:
These generation of wives have a lot to learn from our mothers who endured marriage for over 50 years and are still there. Out of sheer pride a d arrogance she has decided to deny these lovely kids fatherly attention. Ask her what happened now and she will never say she had fault.

This! This is the problem. Why should marriage be endured? Something that is supposed to be for life.

If one has to endure something for the rest of one's life, but the only way to happiness is simply leaving that thing, don't you think it wise for the person to leave?

Separated but still flexing Paul's money and forming tough lady abi feminist

buygala:
And how do you know they are all in the abroad, and that Paul is solely or even played any part in their being there?

I dont, thats why i refrain from the blame game, whatever gives person joy, na to chase am, live is too short, in few years, the actors, spectators, commentators would all be gone.

God1000:
From the Ex-wife of basketbmouth to Paul's wife.

But must all the kids be in custody of women after the separation? I'm just curious.

The kids are their cash cows to still plunder the man, else what business would one have with a used and discarded object?

ImoleNaija:
E be like say na Xmas pics, with children and no husband, these divorcees dey take hold body.

who husband help!

grandstar:
But is it easy? What if the woman is a womanizer or a chronic womanizer? You'd say the woman should put up with it but would the man put up with the woman if she only kissed a man on the cheek? InFidelity is infidelity whether it is from the man or the woman! It is abominable to God and he promises to punish adulterers (Read Hebrews 13:4)

I will neither judge a woman who stays nor one who leaves because of infidelity (Read Matthew 7:1-4). That's the only scriptural reason permitted to divorce and remarry.

Other good reasons may be domestic violence or sexual abuse of the spouse or even the children or the children of others.

Do you believe in perfect marriages?


It does not exist! All you mentioned happens in a average marriage, the way couples handle it, is what’s different!

If all you listed were good reason to divorce, everyone would be divorced by today.

Those strong marriages you crave, you wouldn’t want to know what they have been through!

Let’s start from our parents, ask your mum or dad what they have been through and you will just laugh and same time see reasons why it lasted!

We men are prone to fvck ups, that I won’t deny, but we always apologize at every fvck up! A man will always tender apology even in death. We are good at apologizing, and that’s what we put in. A woman must also learn to forgive if she wants it to work.

That’s how marriage works! Nothing like perfect marriage!

Nor be small thing