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How Do I Overcome Thoughts Of My Family Members Dying? by HellVictorinho7(op): 8:30am On Mar 08, 2023
embarassed cry embarassed LordReed,FRANCISTOWN,falcon1, brain54, etc.
Re: How Do I Overcome Thoughts Of My Family Members Dying? by datola: 8:40am On Mar 08, 2023
Cover them in the blood of Jesus and also confess in their names "I shall not die, but live, and declare the works of the Lord" - Psalm 118:17.

Believe God and live a good life.

It is well in Jesu name
Re: How Do I Overcome Thoughts Of My Family Members Dying? by Nobody: 8:40am On Mar 08, 2023
You’ll outgrow it. I once excluded myself and locked myself up to cry bitterly that my great grandmother died and felt pity for my dad that he didn’t have a grandma. This is someone that died long before my existence lmao. I’m still being mocked with it till today grin . It’s all love for your family and nothing more.
Re: How Do I Overcome Thoughts Of My Family Members Dying? by HellVictorinho7(op): 9:22am On Mar 08, 2023
IyaebeTheGreat:
You’ll outgrow it. I once excluded myself and locked myself up to cry bitterly that my great grandmother died and felt pity for my dad that he didn’t have a grandma. This is someone that died long before my existence lmao. I’m still being mocked with it till today grin . It’s all love for your family and nothing more.
hmmm, i should not love my family ,right? i have to save this page. whatever this life means,anyways
Re: How Do I Overcome Thoughts Of My Family Members Dying? by Nobody: 9:38am On Mar 08, 2023
There is nothing you can do about dying.

You will die, family members, everyone around you, myself included.

In about 90 years from now, allof us will be dead and long gone.

There was a time we were not here and there will come a time we will not be here.

Quit being afraid of death and determine to make the best use of the time you have.

Even Jesus died at some point.
Re: How Do I Overcome Thoughts Of My Family Members Dying? by LordReed(m): 10:02am On Mar 08, 2023
Intrusive thoughts are inevitable just like death. And just like habit formation the more you give in to Intrusive thoughts the more they come. You can do the Jedi mind trick, "these are not the thoughts you are looking for", by forcing yourself to think of something else when such thoughts come. The more you refuse to wallow in it the less they will come.
Re: How Do I Overcome Thoughts Of My Family Members Dying? by HellVictorinho7(op): 11:52am On Mar 08, 2023
LordReed:
Intrusive thoughts are inevitable just like death. And just like habit formation the more you give in to Intrusive thoughts the more they come. You can do the Jedi mind trick, "these are not the thoughts you are looking for", by forcing yourself to think of something else when such thoughts come. The more you refuse to wallow in it the less they will come.
noted
Re: How Do I Overcome Thoughts Of My Family Members Dying? by HellVictorinho7(op): 11:54am On Mar 08, 2023
Skyview01:
There is nothing you can do about dying.

You will die, family members, everyone around you, myself included.

In about 90 years from now, allof us will be dead and long gone.

There was a time we were not here and there will come a time we will not be here.

Quit being afraid of death and determine to make the best use of the time you have.

Even Jesus died at some point.
that has to be it, all will die.
Re: How Do I Overcome Thoughts Of My Family Members Dying? by Vickho: 9:24pm On Mar 08, 2023
HellVictorinho7:
hmmm, i should not love my family ,right? i have to save this page. whatever this life means,anyways
Victor omerigwe try and pray
Re: How Do I Overcome Thoughts Of My Family Members Dying? by HellVictorinho7(op): 9:46pm On Mar 08, 2023
Vickho:
Victor omerigwe try and pray
in other words,u r speechless,have we met b4?
Re: How Do I Overcome Thoughts Of My Family Members Dying? by FRANCISTOWN: 10:59pm On Mar 08, 2023
HellVictorinho7:
embarassed cry embarassed LordReed,FRANCISTOWN,falcon1, brain54, etc.
Hi dear HellVictorinho7
Let's not tackle this from face value.
Something must have triggered the thoughts.

So by any chance, have you lost a list of family members within a short period of time?

Do you have any family member who is sick and you are scared of losing the person?

Do you have any family member with a terminal illness?

One thing you should understand about life is that, life is indeed a cycle. Humans are field of vibrating energies. I know many people will come at me for this, but I have some proofs to back it up. Death is not the end of life. We'll keep living and dying and being born again and we die again.
People who asked you to pray are not wrong, prayer gives a kind of consolation but people with common sense knows that prayer has never worked since time immemorial. Prayer is just like weed, temporary highness (It gives you the feeling of temporary peace) but the problem is still there.

If a member of the family is sick and you are scared of losing the person, prayer is not what you should result to. If you can afford the hospital bills, don't hesitate to take the person to the hospital ASAP. if you can't afford the hospital bills, there are some NGOs that treat certain sicknesses for free, even cancer.

You can as well run a parallel investigation, there may be a kind of disease that runs in the family lineagery. This is very important.
Re: How Do I Overcome Thoughts Of My Family Members Dying? by HellVictorinho7(op): 11:12pm On Mar 08, 2023
FRANCISTOWN:
Hi dear HellVictorinho7
Let's not tackle this from face value.
Something must have triggered the thoughts.

So by any chance, have you lost a list of family members within a short period of time?

Do you have any family member who is sick and you are scared of losing the person?

Do you have any family member with a terminal illness?

One thing you should understand about life is that, life is indeed a cycle. Humans are field of vibrating energies. I know many people will come at me for this, but I have some proofs to back it up. Death is not the end of life. We'll keep living and dying and being born again and we die again.
People who asked you to pray are not wrong, prayer gives a kind of consolation but people with common sense knows that prayer has never worked since time immemorial. Prayer is just like weed, temporary highness (It gives you the feeling of temporary peace) but the problem is still there.

If a member of the family is sick and you are scared of losing the person, prayer is not what you should result to. If you can afford the hospital bills, don't hesitate to take the person to the hospital ASAP. if you can't afford the hospital bills, there are some NGOs that treat certain sicknesses for free, even cancer.

You can as well run a parallel investigation, there may be a kind of disease that runs in the family lineagery. This is very important.
can u help me with 5k? poverty can cause death too, my older brother has suffered 2 much, the diseases are 4rm poverty this time
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