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Dear one, give yourself an average good life before you say "I do" to someone else for a couple of reasons.

1. Though no one is perfect, but get rid of any character/behavior you know that is not good. Do not allow your future spouse to deal with everything.

2. Make friends not enemies: it might be surprising to you to know that some persons got married to their spouse and also got married to their enemies. Do not allow your future spouse get to make enmity with someone they know nothing about. Your relationship with people will eventually affect your spouse's relationship with them.


3. Be financially okay: yes 'okay' not perfect. You don't need all the money in the world to make your spouse happy, but when there isn't enough of it, your spouse is not happy either. Money is like gas that keeps the engine running. Have a good financial life even though not perfect,it should be enough.


Till I come your way again. CIAO!!

philus66:
Dear one, give yourself an average good life before you say "I do" to someone else for a couple of reasons.

1. Though no one is perfect, but get rid of any character/behavior you know that is not good. Do not allow your future spouse to deal with everything.

2. Make friends not enemies: it might be surprising to you to know that some persons got married to their spouse and also got married to their enemies. Do not allow your future spouse get to make enmity with someone they know nothing about. Your relationship with people will eventually affect your spouse's relationship with them.


3. Be financially okay: yes 'okay' not perfect. You don't need all the money in the world to make your spouse happy, but when there isn't enough of it, your spouse is not happy either. Money is like gas that keeps the engine running. Have a good financial life even though not perfect,it should be enough.


Till I come your way again. CIAO!!

Wisely said.

Thanks for this.