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Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by kingthreat(m): 12:10pm On Aug 21, 2023

Baby mama drama. If you didn't screw the mum raw, this would not have happened. Deal with it.

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Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by Zooposki(f): 12:32pm On Aug 21, 2023

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by meum: 12:34pm On Aug 21, 2023*

You don’t feel anything for her anymore unless you see her with your son. Dey play.

Stop playing with that boy’s future. Anytime you see the Mama una go “have something” but don’t want to join hands and give the innocent boy good education.

Like you have said enroll him in a good school (maybe not expensive) & get a good lesson teacher for him. Don’t rush him.

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by Abufo: 12:38pm On Aug 21, 2023

edoncast:
Good evenning nairalanders ,

I once created tgis topic
https://www.nairaland.com/7654416/ex-came-2-days-ago

While the love of my son made me to pay lot of visits to my ex dad house in Ajegunle alongide Sango road ,i find out my son stayed 2 months at home before registering him into 1 mushroom school and his mum never allowed me to know what class he was .He spent just 1st term of his Nursery 2 with me and was doing fine before his mum decided to shock me .The visits made us to had things together again.

Before the kids holiday started ,she came around once and we did stuff together and immeaditely the school break started ,she brought my son and in all,i would say we have stayed almost 3 weeks together.(She went back to her place at Ajegunle on friday , .She never returned any of the items she packed. I find out her siblings and dad got a room for her .So,she got the room filled with all my belongings .If i ask her about it ,she tells me to forget about it and i didnt even complain.To say the truth ,the love i have for her have diminished a lot and it is up to the level that i dont feel anything for her if i dont see her .I only develop feeling for her if i see her with my son .

Now,my son have been with my younger sister since 15 days ago
and i find out that boy cant even write or read but could only fit for Nursery 2 instead of Basic 1 he was supposed to be promoted to if his mum didnt take him away .My sister is a teacher and she is good at teaching very well.From the lesson she enrolled him and her sons ,i was made to know that boy cant even cope in Basic 1 .Even ,he will only manage to be in Nursery 2.

I had to shed some tears on hearing this .I called my elder sister and told her i will not allow him to go back to Ajegunle.I plan to create time for him when school resumes .I am enrolling him into Nursery 2 and also get a teacher for him .I will make sure i close early from work to do my own part .

About his mum,i am not interested any longer .She have really done a lot of damages to my life mentally,financially and emotionally .The worst of it is my son eduaction .She have messed me up so much .I was supposed to get a new accommodation before she packed away my stuffs but i spent all the money i saved to get new items .I started over again and thank God ,i am moving out of this house latest september ending .

I am so devastated and i pray God give me the strength to teach my son the way i want and may God bless his brain too .I have decided to live alone woth him so i can train him the way i want and in God way .He is 5 years and 3 months old

we rush children thru school in Nigeria.............here in U.S. that child will be in Kindergarten playing and learning the letters and numbers. the half baked teacher abi seargent major claims in my school "primary 1 should read question and answer".........that is why we are graduating strange people all over Nigeria!

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Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by LyfeJennings(m): 12:38pm On Aug 21, 2023

Exmilitant:
op focus on improving yourself financially, educationally and, spiritually.
The Male Child is naturally attached to his mother. Even if you sacrifice your life for him, mama always has a spot in his heart.

And how in heaven do you plan to teach that boy when your spelling and grammar sucks.

lmao
walahi, baba nla OLORIBURUKU NI E
AJE!!!!!!
As far as this forum is concerned, nobody craze pass U

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by Thomthom(m): 12:38pm On Aug 21, 2023

Exmilitant:
Cry baby cry. Accountant you come dey make mistakes with figures. na your kind dey crash economy.
leave dat boy with him mama o, make you no carry your busybody spoil things.

nawa for u oo

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by sisisioge: 12:46pm On Aug 21, 2023*

It is well, I'm sure he will catch up well if you're prepared to really help his education. My only worry is giving him stability. Biko enough of staying with grandpa,mommy, aunty, cousin, etc....be steadfast with your resolve to keep him with you. May God bless you both.

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Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by gabbytabby: 12:47pm On Aug 21, 2023

Children know what you teach them.

Put your son in Primary one and within 6 weeks he will catch up with his mate. I am talking from experience. The additional coaching and attention would also help but don’t be worried.

School in Europe under 6 is really a play centre and if you take them to 9ja they will be deemed not to be at level.

edoncast:
Good evenning nairalanders ,

I once created tgis topic
https://www.nairaland.com/7654416/ex-came-2-days-ago

While the love of my son made me to pay lot of visits to my ex dad house in Ajegunle alongide Sango road ,i find out my son stayed 2 months at home before registering him into 1 mushroom school and his mum never allowed me to know what class he was .He spent just 1st term of his Nursery 2 with me and was doing fine before his mum decided to shock me .The visits made us to had things together again.

Before the kids holiday started ,she came around once and we did stuff together and immeaditely the school break started ,she brought my son and in all,i would say we have stayed almost 3 weeks together.(She went back to her place at Ajegunle on friday , .She never returned any of the items she packed. I find out her siblings and dad got a room for her .So,she got the room filled with all my belongings .If i ask her about it ,she tells me to forget about it and i didnt even complain.To say the truth ,the love i have for her have diminished a lot and it is up to the level that i dont feel anything for her if i dont see her .I only develop feeling for her if i see her with my son .

Now,my son have been with my younger sister since 15 days ago
and i find out that boy cant even write or read but could only fit for Nursery 2 instead of Basic 1 he was supposed to be promoted to if his mum didnt take him away .My sister is a teacher and she is good at teaching very well.From the lesson she enrolled him and her sons ,i was made to know that boy cant even cope in Basic 1 .Even ,he will only manage to be in Nursery 2.

I had to shed some tears on hearing this .I called my elder sister and told her i will not allow him to go back to Ajegunle.I plan to create time for him when school resumes .I am enrolling him into Nursery 2 and also get a teacher for him .I will make sure i close early from work to do my own part .

About his mum,i am not interested any longer .She have really done a lot of damages to my life mentally,financially and emotionally .The worst of it is my son eduaction .She have messed me up so much .I was supposed to get a new accommodation before she packed away my stuffs but i spent all the money i saved to get new items .I started over again and thank God ,i am moving out of this house latest september ending .

I am so devastated and i pray God give me the strength to teach my son the way i want and may God bless his brain too .I have decided to live alone woth him so i can train him the way i want and in God way .He is 5 years and 3 months old

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by Prettyclown: 12:52pm On Aug 21, 2023

Guy this is too much, he just needs an advice not ur stupidity..nawaoo

Exmilitant:
4503k and you dey brag say you dey financially well of? Dey play..
Oboy, stop being emotional. You dullard no Sabi book. Q.E.D

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by maticar: 12:54pm On Aug 21, 2023

edoncast:
450k .ur brain should have told u that was an error .

Me dullard ?

If i am dull,i will not be an Accountant in 2 different places at a time .

You are just a jobless kid ,No need to reply u again.The funniest part is that i might be talking to a JAMBITE or a school DROP OUT .Faceless forum it is where someone living with his or her parent hurl insults at free will to someone old enough to be his or dad !!!

Bye .

you go dey quote small pikin dem for nairaland

most of these clowns here are teenagers

just try and take things easy bro

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Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by HOD74(m): 12:56pm On Aug 21, 2023

I teach for over 25 years. My lovely brother. I will advise you to get the best nursery and primary school for that kid and then teach bible ways of decurom and with prayers , God will bless your effort. Remain bless my brother. Mean while stop answering some lunatic with kolos mentality in this platform biko.

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by toprealman: 12:57pm On Aug 21, 2023

edoncast:
Good evenning nairalanders ,

I once created tgis topic
https://www.nairaland.com/7654416/ex-came-2-days-ago

While the love of my son made me to pay lot of visits to my ex dad house in Ajegunle alongide Sango road ,i find out my son stayed 2 months at home before registering him into 1 mushroom school and his mum never allowed me to know what class he was .He spent just 1st term of his Nursery 2 with me and was doing fine before his mum decided to shock me .The visits made us to had things together again.

Before the kids holiday started ,she came around once and we did stuff together and immeaditely the school break started ,she brought my son and in all,i would say we have stayed almost 3 weeks together.(She went back to her place at Ajegunle on friday , .She never returned any of the items she packed. I find out her siblings and dad got a room for her .So,she got the room filled with all my belongings .If i ask her about it ,she tells me to forget about it and i didnt even complain.To say the truth ,the love i have for her have diminished a lot and it is up to the level that i dont feel anything for her if i dont see her .I only develop feeling for her if i see her with my son .

Now,my son have been with my younger sister since 15 days ago
and i find out that boy cant even write or read but could only fit for Nursery 2 instead of Basic 1 he was supposed to be promoted to if his mum didnt take him away .My sister is a teacher and she is good at teaching very well.From the lesson she enrolled him and her sons ,i was made to know that boy cant even cope in Basic 1 .Even ,he will only manage to be in Nursery 2.

I had to shed some tears on hearing this .I called my elder sister and told her i will not allow him to go back to Ajegunle.I plan to create time for him when school resumes .I am enrolling him into Nursery 2 and also get a teacher for him .I will make sure i close early from work to do my own part .

About his mum,i am not interested any longer .She have really done a lot of damages to my life mentally,financially and emotionally .The worst of it is my son eduaction .She have messed me up so much .I was supposed to get a new accommodation before she packed away my stuffs but i spent all the money i saved to get new items .I started over again and thank God ,i am moving out of this house latest september ending .

I am so devastated and i pray God give me the strength to teach my son the way i want and may God bless his brain too .I have decided to live alone woth him so i can train him the way i want and in God way .He is 5 years and 3 months old

You are comparing your son with others and that is giving you heartaches. Press the rest button. Let him start afresh. Be cheerful and watch him be his best.
Stop comparing!
Some of our super eagles footballers that didn’t go to school are earning in a day what most people earn in a year!

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by bluefilm: 1:00pm On Aug 21, 2023

edoncast:
Good evenning nairalanders ,

I once created tgis topic
https://www.nairaland.com/7654416/ex-came-2-days-ago

While the love of my son made me to pay lot of visits to my ex dad house in Ajegunle alongide Sango road ,i find out my son stayed 2 months at home before registering him into 1 mushroom school and his mum never allowed me to know what class he was .He spent just 1st term of his Nursery 2 with me and was doing fine before his mum decided to shock me .The visits made us to had things together again.

Before the kids holiday started ,she came around once and we did stuff together and immeaditely the school break started ,she brought my son and in all,i would say we have stayed almost 3 weeks together.(She went back to her place at Ajegunle on friday , .She never returned any of the items she packed. I find out her siblings and dad got a room for her .So,she got the room filled with all my belongings .If i ask her about it ,she tells me to forget about it and i didnt even complain.To say the truth ,the love i have for her have diminished a lot and it is up to the level that i dont feel anything for her if i dont see her .I only develop feeling for her if i see her with my son .

Now,my son have been with my younger sister since 15 days ago
and i find out that boy cant even write or read but could only fit for Nursery 2 instead of Basic 1 he was supposed to be promoted to if his mum didnt take him away .My sister is a teacher and she is good at teaching very well.From the lesson she enrolled him and her sons ,i was made to know that boy cant even cope in Basic 1 .Even ,he will only manage to be in Nursery 2.

I had to shed some tears on hearing this .I called my elder sister and told her i will not allow him to go back to Ajegunle.I plan to create time for him when school resumes .I am enrolling him into Nursery 2 and also get a teacher for him .I will make sure i close early from work to do my own part .

About his mum,i am not interested any longer .She have really done a lot of damages to my life mentally,financially and emotionally .The worst of it is my son eduaction .She have messed me up so much .I was supposed to get a new accommodation before she packed away my stuffs but i spent all the money i saved to get new items .I started over again and thank God ,i am moving out of this house latest september ending .

I am so devastated and i pray God give me the strength to teach my son the way i want and may God bless his brain too .I have decided to live alone woth him so i can train him the way i want and in God way .He is 5 years and 3 months old

Lamentations of a SIMP.

The things we read online on a daily basis.

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by Ensa777(f): 1:25pm On Aug 21, 2023

Coly2012:
Who teaches how to read and write in nursery 2?

Nursery is the foundation and if tampered with,the child will forever struggle with his academics.
They learn to write,read using phonics and do simple counting ,calc,identification of shapes and no.
Your advice isn't cool at all

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by Collins4u1(m): 1:28pm On Aug 21, 2023

I'm sure Love has called you face to face and said "edoncast, I will kill you".

keep behaving like utara ede, until they pack your life too.

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Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by shiwex: 1:44pm On Aug 21, 2023

Check to see if he ha a medical condition. He might be autistic.

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by Xkale1996(m): 1:55pm On Aug 21, 2023

edoncast:
Good evenning nairalanders ,

I once created tgis topic
https://www.nairaland.com/7654416/ex-came-2-days-ago

While the love of my son made me to pay lot of visits to my ex dad house in Ajegunle alongide Sango road ,i find out my son stayed 2 months at home before registering him into 1 mushroom school and his mum never allowed me to know what class he was .He spent just 1st term of his Nursery 2 with me and was doing fine before his mum decided to shock me .The visits made us to had things together again.

Before the kids holiday started ,she came around once and we did stuff together and immeaditely the school break started ,she brought my son and in all,i would say we have stayed almost 3 weeks together.(She went back to her place at Ajegunle on friday , .She never returned any of the items she packed. I find out her siblings and dad got a room for her .So,she got the room filled with all my belongings .If i ask her about it ,she tells me to forget about it and i didnt even complain.To say the truth ,the love i have for her have diminished a lot and it is up to the level that i dont feel anything for her if i dont see her .I only develop feeling for her if i see her with my son .

Now,my son have been with my younger sister since 15 days ago
and i find out that boy cant even write or read but could only fit for Nursery 2 instead of Basic 1 he was supposed to be promoted to if his mum didnt take him away .My sister is a teacher and she is good at teaching very well.From the lesson she enrolled him and her sons ,i was made to know that boy cant even cope in Basic 1 .Even ,he will only manage to be in Nursery 2.

I had to shed some tears on hearing this .I called my elder sister and told her i will not allow him to go back to Ajegunle.I plan to create time for him when school resumes .I am enrolling him into Nursery 2 and also get a teacher for him .I will make sure i close early from work to do my own part .

About his mum,i am not interested any longer .She have really done a lot of damages to my life mentally,financially and emotionally .The worst of it is my son eduaction .She have messed me up so much .I was supposed to get a new accommodation before she packed away my stuffs but i spent all the money i saved to get new items .I started over again and thank God ,i am moving out of this house latest september ending .

I am so devastated and i pray God give me the strength to teach my son the way i want and may God bless his brain too .I have decided to live alone woth him so i can train him the way i want and in God way .He is 5 years and 3 months old

don't allow ur son to go back
To ajegule

That area no sexy at all

Find
Original honey and original garlic powder

Mix it together
Early in the morning
Give him one spoon
By the will of God
His brain will Sharpen
He will be intelligent in school

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by Kobicove(m): 2:06pm On Aug 21, 2023

libertyfather:
I dont know why it men that care more of their child wellbeing as in knowledge and perfect upbringing.....women care less

I don't think this is true, it largely depends on the individual

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by Coly2012(m): 2:10pm On Aug 21, 2023

Ensa777:
Nursery is the foundation and if tampered with,the child will forever struggle with his academics.
They learn to write,read using phonics and do simple counting ,calc,identification of shapes and no.
Your advice isn't cool at all

so are you trying to tell me that if a child did not learn all that he/she needs to learn at nursery 2 that child can not read or write again?

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by GBPUSD: 2:14pm On Aug 21, 2023*

A 5 year old should be in nursery 2. That's the standard. What is a 5 year old going to do in Basic 1?

Why do you people keep rushing these kids?

My child is not starting primary school till he's 6/7.

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by wrongman665(m): 2:20pm On Aug 21, 2023

Exmilitant:
4503k and you dey brag say you dey financially well of? Dey play..
Oboy, stop being emotional. You dullard no Sabi book. Q.E.D

4503k

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by matm: 3:02pm On Aug 21, 2023

edoncast:
Good evenning nairalanders ,

I once created tgis topic
https://www.nairaland.com/7654416/ex-came-2-days-ago

While the love of my son made me to pay lot of visits to my ex dad house in Ajegunle alongide Sango road ,i find out my son stayed 2 months at home before registering him into 1 mushroom school and his mum never allowed me to know what class he was .He spent just 1st term of his Nursery 2 with me and was doing fine before his mum decided to shock me .The visits made us to had things together again.

Before the kids holiday started ,she came around once and we did stuff together and immeaditely the school break started ,she brought my son and in all,i would say we have stayed almost 3 weeks together.(She went back to her place at Ajegunle on friday , .She never returned any of the items she packed. I find out her siblings and dad got a room for her .So,she got the room filled with all my belongings .If i ask her about it ,she tells me to forget about it and i didnt even complain.To say the truth ,the love i have for her have diminished a lot and it is up to the level that i dont feel anything for her if i dont see her .I only develop feeling for her if i see her with my son .

Now,my son have been with my younger sister since 15 days ago
and i find out that boy cant even write or read but could only fit for Nursery 2 instead of Basic 1 he was supposed to be promoted to if his mum didnt take him away .My sister is a teacher and she is good at teaching very well.From the lesson she enrolled him and her sons ,i was made to know that boy cant even cope in Basic 1 .Even ,he will only manage to be in Nursery 2.

I had to shed some tears on hearing this .I called my elder sister and told her i will not allow him to go back to Ajegunle.I plan to create time for him when school resumes .I am enrolling him into Nursery 2 and also get a teacher for him .I will make sure i close early from work to do my own part .

About his mum,i am not interested any longer .She have really done a lot of damages to my life mentally,financially and emotionally .The worst of it is my son eduaction .She have messed me up so much .I was supposed to get a new accommodation before she packed away my stuffs but i spent all the money i saved to get new items .I started over again and thank God ,i am moving out of this house latest september ending .

I am so devastated and i pray God give me the strength to teach my son the way i want and may God bless his brain too .I have decided to live alone woth him so i can train him the way i want and in God way .He is 5 years and 3 months old

The child needs to start from the scratch: ie alphabets, formation of 2 letter words, simple sentences with a patient teacher.Best in the company of 2 or more other kids.Dull kids pick up more when learning among pears than alone.
He will pick up.I know 12 year olds who can't read and write but started from d scratch, and today they are doing well.
Forget kids on nairaland telling u dt education is not important.If they were not educated at all, they won't be on nairaland
I know adults who live in regret today b/c they can't fill simple form in d bank.

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by ChiefOkporghe: 3:08pm On Aug 21, 2023

OP, in your previous thread you stated you had a girlfriend who was around when your ex came and looted your things.

Now, in this thread, you're saying your ex did visit you and you guys did some stuffs together. Like she spent about 3 weeks or so together with you and your son.

Where was your current girlfriend when your ex came around and stayed for a while?
Are you still with your post-ex girlfriend or you've broken up?

Also, you managed to squeeze in love for your ex into your post.
Like you don't love her again except only when she's with your son.

To me, you shouldn't even be talking about love for your ex at this stage.

From what you've written, you seem to be someone who is disorganized and cannot make his mind about something. You can easily look back when you put your hand on the plow.

I wonder how you will be able to raise your son though.

Meanwhile for your son, reinforce his learning with animated learning videos that can teach him counting and basic maths, spellings and pronunciation/iddentification of words and things.

I wish you and your son the best. Plus your ex.

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by yankison(m): 3:45pm On Aug 21, 2023

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Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by TheGift: 3:58pm On Aug 21, 2023*

Sorry, but I thought it was even a
More serious issue.

There is nothing wrong with your Son. Don't go and start planting negative vibrations in Him about His intelligence.

Don't. Judge His intelligence based on some formal standard of education that has been shown in some cases to make people stupid in relation to their real talent.

Five years old is to small for him to be put under that kind of pleasure. Focus on teaching Him things like empathy, resilience, self confidence, self love, friendship and never giving up.

In countries like Norway, kids don't even start school till about the age of 7 and they still have one of the best educational systems in the world, that carries every kid along.

I have a friend who just posted today that her son got all A's in the last three terms, meanwhile he couldn't speak when he was four years old.

Finally, please, please and please STOP COMPARING your kids with other kids.

Good luck!

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by phemmyfour: 4:01pm On Aug 21, 2023

edoncast:
Good evenning nairalanders ,

I once created tgis topic
https://www.nairaland.com/7654416/ex-came-2-days-ago

While the love of my son made me to pay lot of visits to my ex dad house in Ajegunle alongide Sango road ,i find out my son stayed 2 months at home before registering him into 1 mushroom school and his mum never allowed me to know what class he was .He spent just 1st term of his Nursery 2 with me and was doing fine before his mum decided to shock me .The visits made us to had things together again.

Before the kids holiday started ,she came around once and we did stuff together and immeaditely the school break started ,she brought my son and in all,i would say we have stayed almost 3 weeks together.(She went back to her place at Ajegunle on friday , .She never returned any of the items she packed. I find out her siblings and dad got a room for her .So,she got the room filled with all my belongings .If i ask her about it ,she tells me to forget about it and i didnt even complain.To say the truth ,the love i have for her have diminished a lot and it is up to the level that i dont feel anything for her if i dont see her .I only develop feeling for her if i see her with my son .

Now,my son have been with my younger sister since 15 days ago
and i find out that boy cant even write or read but could only fit for Nursery 2 instead of Basic 1 he was supposed to be promoted to if his mum didnt take him away .My sister is a teacher and she is good at teaching very well.From the lesson she enrolled him and her sons ,i was made to know that boy cant even cope in Basic 1 .Even ,he will only manage to be in Nursery 2.

I had to shed some tears on hearing this .I called my elder sister and told her i will not allow him to go back to Ajegunle.I plan to create time for him when school resumes .I am enrolling him into Nursery 2 and also get a teacher for him .I will make sure i close early from work to do my own part .

About his mum,i am not interested any longer .She have really done a lot of damages to my life mentally,financially and emotionally .The worst of it is my son eduaction .She have messed me up so much .I was supposed to get a new accommodation before she packed away my stuffs but i spent all the money i saved to get new items .I started over again and thank God ,i am moving out of this house latest september ending .

I am so devastated and i pray God give me the strength to teach my son the way i want and may God bless his brain too .I have decided to live alone woth him so i can train him the way i want and in God way .He is 5 years and 3 months old

Relax, he's still young. He ll eventually catch up. Children develop at different pace

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by okunwaye(m): 5:12pm On Aug 21, 2023

Exmilitant:
op focus on improving yourself financially, educationally and, spiritually.
The Male Child is naturally attached to his mother. Even if you sacrifice your life for him, mama always has a spot in his heart.

And how in heaven do you plan to teach that boy when your spelling and grammar sucks.

You're Speaking for yourself right? 😏

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by placeofallure(f): 5:22pm On Aug 21, 2023

Exmilitant:
op focus on improving yourself financially, educationally and, spiritually.
The Male Child is naturally attached to his mother. Even if you sacrifice your life for him, mama always has a spot in his heart.

And how in heaven do you plan to teach that boy when your spelling and grammar sucks.

His spelling and Grammar?? That was the first thing I checked out when he said he will teach him by himself.

OP, I understand your concern for your boy, but let me tell you, he's not the first 5 year old that cannot read. This IQ of a thing, cognitive abilities, are hereditary, take it or leave it. Even your sister that's offering to help, I doubt she's good enough for the boy though she has good intentions. She's also not very sound.

Then talking from experience, let the boy retake nursery 2, don't think about the money, God will provide for you. You'll be glad you did.

I don't like women who are careless with parenting. Your estranged wife or baby mama is one such woman. I won't advise you let her take the boy, she'd destroy him. You are a man who will go to work everyday, how do you deal with the additional task of raising a child that young? Please think carefully before you make a drastic or irrational choice. Your boy must turn out well, that's your priority.

Some schools or establishments do after school runs, you may want to consider that.

Re: I Am So Worried About My 5-year Old Son by Ayoade19(m): 6:46pm On Aug 21, 2023

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Good evenning nairalanders ,

I once created tgis topic
https://www.nairaland.com/7654416/ex-came-2-days-ago

While the love of my son made me to pay lot of visits to my ex dad house in Ajegunle alongide Sango road ,i find out my son stayed 2 months at home before registering him into 1 mushroom school and his mum never allowed me to know what class he was .He spent just 1st term of his Nursery 2 with me and was doing fine before his mum decided to shock me .The visits made us to had things together again.

Before the kids holiday started ,she came around once and we did stuff together and immeaditely the school break started ,she brought my son and in all,i would say we have stayed almost 3 weeks together.(She went back to her place at Ajegunle on friday , .She never returned any of the items she packed. I find out her siblings and dad got a room for her .So,she got the room filled with all my belongings .If i ask her about it ,she tells me to forget about it and i didnt even complain.To say the truth ,the love i have for her have diminished a lot and it is up to the level that i dont feel anything for her if i dont see her .I only develop feeling for her if i see her with my son .

Now,my son have been with my younger sister since 15 days ago
and i find out that boy cant even write or read but could only fit for Nursery 2 instead of Basic 1 he was supposed to be promoted to if his mum didnt take him away .My sister is a teacher and she is good at teaching very well.From the lesson she enrolled him and her sons ,i was made to know that boy cant even cope in Basic 1 .Even ,he will only manage to be in Nursery 2.

I had to shed some tears on hearing this .I called my elder sister and told her i will not allow him to go back to Ajegunle.I plan to create time for him when school resumes .I am enrolling him into Nursery 2 and also get a teacher for him .I will make sure i close early from work to do my own part .

About his mum,i am not interested any longer .She have really done a lot of damages to my life mentally,financially and emotionally .The worst of it is my son eduaction .She have messed me up so much .I was supposed to get a new accommodation before she packed away my stuffs but i spent all the money i saved to get new items .I started over again and thank God ,i am moving out of this house latest september ending .

I am so devastated and i pray God give me the strength to teach my son the way i want and may God bless his brain too .I have decided to live alone woth him so i can train him the way i want and in God way .He is 5 years and 3 months old

With due respect sir, stop having sex with your baby mama whenever she comes around.
For your son's education sake, I'll admonish you adhere to your sister's advice.

Also, our brain differs, I knew how to read and write when I got to basic three, in basic 6 i took 1st position for that session.

The boy will catch up. Getting him a personal teacher too will help shape his academic prowess.

What about your girlfriend in the previous post that was at home when your baby mama came to pack your stuffs?

It seems you love engaging in coitus?

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