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The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by cutecommend(op): 8:52am On Sep 17, 2023
Sexual Purity is on the decline even in the Christian fold. Many so-called christians are engaging in it even before marriage. Some partners sleep with themselves before wedding, some sleep with their exes before wedding, some slept around in their youthful days and are still fornicating. Some are gays, some are lesbians, some marry with these identities, covering it from their partners.
What are the problems of lack of sexual purity before marriage?

(1) It causes rise in adultery. A person who has slept around before marriage, whether male or female, has more tendency to commit adultery than a decent person, except there is genuine repentance.

(2) Stagnancy in Spiritual Life: Except their is true confession of sins repentance, a person who sleeps around before marriage, whether with his or her partner, EX, colleagues etc, may find it hard to rise or grow spiritually.

(3) Divorce: The problems of soul-tie caused from sex before marriage might lead to divorce. A married person who has not broken soul ties with former partners (especially evil partners) through prayers, may face issues that could lead to divorce..

Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by AntiChristian:
With all these minis and micros going to church....

The church can never be pure!
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by TimT: 10:37am On Sep 17, 2023
It will be hard, very hard for African Christian move on with life o... They are so focused on this issue of Sex matter as if it's the only content of 10 commandments...
Bible say avoid adultery... it's Sin.. okay..
But Christian close eyes to the remaining 9 "warning" contained in the 10 commandments.. lolz ..
It's shows the level of hypocrisy...
And besides, aside religion, Sex is a natural activity.. we can engage in it anytime and anyhow we want... just a few cautions...
But Christian want us to live a boring life on earth... lol .
No sex before marriage... now after wedding, Christian say "Only Missionary style"… lol grin
I thought bible says "blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God"...
So now if I want to carry my own wife leg hang for window, my heart is no more "pure"... grin grin
No wonder there are lots of versions of the Christian Bible..
Everybody wan write their own version grin grin
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Hollyharjii: 10:38am On Sep 17, 2023
Why is it that sex issues full the front page as early as this on a Sunday morning?
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Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by AntiChristian: 10:38am On Sep 17, 2023
Jesus spent approximately 33 years on earth without sex! Or let's say the Bible no mention am!

Why can't you be like Jesus who was celibate?

My problem is just that nothing much was written about Jesus from 1 year old to 30 years!

So not much about Jesus sexual life is known from the Bible!

Even sons of God left heaven to patronise beautiful slay queens till they gave them belle in Genesis 6:1-4.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by karzyharsky(m): 10:39am On Sep 17, 2023
Everytime sex sex sex. Enjoy your sexing jare
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Lovelife433(m): 10:39am On Sep 17, 2023
AntiChristian:
Sex sha
especially the female youths. The way they craves for sex this days is something to worry about.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Nobody: 10:39am On Sep 17, 2023
Some morons will still come and argue against these valid points to suit their stupidity

That's how you know those that have been given over to a reprobate mind
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Dennisochampa: 10:40am On Sep 17, 2023
This one has been there from the time of Sodom and Gomorrah.
Premarital sex has always been and will always be.
Imagine asking a 25 years old single lady if she's a virgin and her response was "are you kidding me, no I'm not".
People see sex these days as a norm even right from secondary school so much that it's now very odd In our society to get married as a virgin.
May God continue to help us....
Our generation and society is rotten.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Rich4god(m): 10:40am On Sep 17, 2023
Sex before marriage is mainly the cause of high rate of infidelity we have currently....

There is no way that you as a man or woman having slept with multiple partners before marriage will now think that you will remain faithful to your married partner. Only about two percent of people can stay faithful.

Stay away from sex till marriage.

That's the best thing that you can do for Yourself.

And believe me, the moment you are celibate, people who are celibate too will be attracted to you and that's how you will get your partner.

Forget all those who keep saying that their is no virgin man or woman, it's a lie... Virgins plenty for this country, na just your life style dey attract bad people to yourself.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by bonnyhope: 10:42am On Sep 17, 2023
It is now normal to have sex before marriage

Socialisation has MORALIZED all the IMMORALITY
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Nobody: 10:44am On Sep 17, 2023
Hollyharjii:
Why is it that sex issues full the front page as early as this on a Sunday morning?
Because believe it or not sexual immorality has caused a lot of moral decline in our society if you dont know. Everywhere you look now soft or hard porn is being promoted and youth are no longer safe.

Just look at bb naija..that is soft porn and you can start developing lustful desires in no time. If you're not sexually disciplined you're in trouble.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Shinjawestern: 10:44am On Sep 17, 2023
AntiChristian:
Sex sha
Some islamic terrorists do kidnap young gals and keep them for sex they claim to be following the footsteps of their prophet
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Jokerman(m): 10:46am On Sep 17, 2023
How does one commit sexual impurity in marriage?
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by AntiChristian: 10:47am On Sep 17, 2023
Shinjawestern:
Some islamic terrorists do kidnap young gals and keep them for sex they claim to be following the footsteps of their prophet
Was Moses too an Islamic terrorist?
Cos he did same!

Whose footsteps did he follow?

Jesus's or Jesus's father?
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Shinjawestern: 10:49am On Sep 17, 2023
AntiChristian:
Was Moses too an Islamic terrorist?
Cos he did same!

Whose footsteps did he follow?

Jesus's or Jesus's father?
Moses did what grin grinhuh?
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Hollyharjii: 10:49am On Sep 17, 2023
Rayban25:
Because believe it or not sexual immorality has caused a lot of moral decline in our society if you dont know. Everywhere you look now soft or hard porn is being promoted and youth are no longer safe.

Just look at bb naija..that is soft porn and you can start developing lustful desires in no time. If you're not sexually disciplined you're in trouble.
Hmm, you're absolutely right especially with this example you made.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Tayorshd87(m): 10:52am On Sep 17, 2023
Tell them abeg
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Tayorshd87(m): 10:53am On Sep 17, 2023
Hollyharjii:
Why is it that sex issues full the front page as early as this on a Sunday morning?
I thought I was the only one thinking about this
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by AntiChristian: 10:55am On Sep 17, 2023
Shinjawestern:
Moses did what grin grinhuh?
Numbers 31:17-18

They killed every men and non-virgin women but kept virgin girls only!
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Hollyharjii: 10:56am On Sep 17, 2023
Tayorshd87:
I thought I was the only one thinking about this
You're not the only one thinking about it ooo
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Vifx: 10:58am On Sep 17, 2023
Una funny o
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Nobody: 10:58am On Sep 17, 2023
TimT:
It will be hard, very hard for African Christian move on with life o... They are so focused on this issue of Sex matter as if it's the only content of 10 commandments...
Bible say avoid adultery... it's Sin.. okay..
But Christian close eyes to the remaining 9 "warning" contained in the 10 commandments.. lolz ..
It's shows the level of hypocrisy...
And besides, aside religion, Sex is a natural activity.. we can engage in it anytime and anyhow we want... just a few cautions...
But Christian want us to live a boring life on earth... lol .
No sex before marriage... now after wedding, Christian say "Only Missionary style"… lol grin
I thought bible says "blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God"...
So now if I want to carry my own wife leg hang for window, my heart is no more "pure"... grin grin
No wonder there are lots of versions of the Christian Bible..
Everybody wan write their own version grin grin
I wish I can hug🤗 you right now🥂
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Crafteck1: 10:58am On Sep 17, 2023
Lies
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by phemmyfour: 10:59am On Sep 17, 2023
cutecommend:
Sexual Purity is on the decline even in the Christian fold. Many so-called christians are engaging in it even before marriage. Some partners sleep with themselves before wedding, some sleep with their exes before wedding, some slept around in their youthful days and are still fornicating. Some are gays, some are lesbians, some marry with these identities, covering it from their partners.
What are the problems of lack of sexual purity before marriage?

(1) It causes rise in adultery. A person who has slept around before marriage, whether male or female, has more tendency to commit adultery than a decent person, except there is genuine repentance.

(2) Stagnancy in Spiritual Life: Except their is true confession of sins repentance, a person who sleeps around before marriage, whether with his or her partner, EX, colleagues etc, may find it hard to rise or grow spiritually.

(3) Divorce: The problems of soul-tie caused from sex before marriage might lead to divorce. A married person who has not broken soul ties with former partners (especially evil partners) through prayers, may face issues that could lead to divorce..
Nonsense

Preach sexual purity from the angle of "It's against God's command "

Those that kept themselves till marriage still experience divorce, commit adultery, involve in threesomes and other type of sexual fantasy you can think of
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by OGHENAOGIE(m): 11:00am On Sep 17, 2023
Rayban25:
Some morons will still come and argue against these valid points to suit their stupidity

That's how you know those that have been given over to a reprobate mind
what's the difference between u and them u are throwing Insults isn't that sin.. mtcheew
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by inno2020: 11:01am On Sep 17, 2023
TimT:
It will be hard, very hard for African Christian move on with life o... They are so focused on this issue of Sex matter as if it's the only content of 10 commandments...
Bible say avoid adultery... it's Sin.. okay..
But Christian close eyes to the remaining 9 "warning" contained in the 10 commandments.. lolz ..
It's shows the level of hypocrisy...
And besides, aside religion, Sex is a natural activity.. we can engage in it anytime and anyhow we want... just a few cautions...
But Christian want us to live a boring life on earth... lol .
No sex before marriage... now after wedding, Christian say "Only Missionary style"… lol grin
I thought bible says "blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God"...
So now if I want to carry my own wife leg hang for window, my heart is no more "pure"... grin grin
No wonder there are lots of versions of the Christian Bible..
Everybody wan write their own version grin grin
God will bless you bro.
You are extremely intelligent

Do i even have time to read stories britain wrote called bible.
Go Isreal and ask the people of Israel who Jesus is on YouTube, most of them said they don't believe in Jesus.

I must say exposure is very important

Black man just love everything white men does meanwhile the same white people came to Africa to steal our original oracles and gave us story book bible

May God open our eyes
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by daylae(m): 11:02am On Sep 17, 2023
AntiChristian:
With all these minis and micros going to church....

The church can never be pure!
The church is pure and without blemish through the righteousness of Christ Jesus Himself who is the head of the church and not by the righteousness of man. That's why the gate of hell cannot prevail against it, even with the "minis and micros" you pointed out.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by TimT: 11:05am On Sep 17, 2023
AntiChristian:
Jesus spent approximately 33 years on earth without sex! Or let's say the Bible no mention am!

Why can't you be like Jesus who was celibate?

My problem is just that nothing much was written about Jesus from 1 year old to 30 years!

So not much about Jesus sexual life is known from the Bible!

Even sons of God left heaven to patronise beautiful slay queens till they gave them belle in Genesis 6:1-4.
Lol..so we should be like Jesus.. lol... remember Jesus came to die ooo... lol..
Can you be celibate and still die young... @33yrs
Wahala grin grin
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Nobody: 11:05am On Sep 17, 2023
OGHENAOGIE:
what's the difference between u and them u are throwing Insults isn't that sin.. mtcheew
I can see the shoe fits you very well. And a slowpoke is a slowpoke whether I tell you or not.
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