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Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by AntiChristian: 11:08am On Sep 17, 2023
TimT:

Lol..so we should be like Jesus.. lol... remember Jesus came to die ooo... lol..
Can you be celibate and still die young... @33yrs
Wahala grin grin


I no be like Jesus!

I don marry! I don born children!
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by AntiChristian: 11:09am On Sep 17, 2023
daylae:
The church is pure and without blemish through the righteousness of Christ Jesus Himself who is the head of the church and not by the righteousness of man. That's why the gate of hell cannot prevail against it, even with the "minis and micros" you pointed out.

Which church Jesus build?
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by TimT: 11:10am On Sep 17, 2023
AntiChristian:


I no be like Jesus!

I don marry! I don born children!
grin grin ; Okay congrats...

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Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by sematec(m): 11:18am On Sep 17, 2023
una too spoil for this country wink

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Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Desammyst(m): 11:21am On Sep 17, 2023
TimT:
It will be hard, very hard for African Christian move on with life o... They are so focused on this issue of Sex matter as if it's the only content of 10 commandments...
Bible say avoid adultery... it's Sin.. okay..
But Christian close eyes to the remaining 9 "warning" contained in the 10 commandments.. lolz ..
It's shows the level of hypocrisy...
And besides, aside religion, Sex is a natural activity.. we can engage in it anytime and anyhow we want... just a few cautions...
But Christian want us to live a boring life on earth... lol .
No sex before marriage... now after wedding, Christian say "Only Missionary style"… lol grin
I thought bible says "blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God"...
So now if I want to carry my own wife leg hang for window, my heart is no more "pure"... grin grin
No wonder there are lots of versions of the Christian Bible..
Everybody wan write their own version grin grin

The same Bible says "By their fruits you shall know them".

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Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by TimT: 11:22am On Sep 17, 2023
Desammyst:


The same Bible says "By their fruits you shall know them".
Okay.. grin grin
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by OGHENAOGIE(m): 11:25am On Sep 17, 2023
Rayban25:


I can see the shoe fits you very well. And a slowpoke is a slowpoke whether I tell you or not.
u are obviously an idiot.. who made a judge... Are u God get out...
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Blitzking: 11:26am On Sep 17, 2023
God isn't stupid for creating sexual urge in all humans and if he wanted it to be enjoyed at a particular time he would av activated the urge immediately after marriage. Those laws are man made. Diseases were as a result of ppl going beyond the borders of God's laid down method like men sleeping with men...wome. sleeping with women and humans sleeping with animals.

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Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Nobody: 11:27am On Sep 17, 2023
OGHENAOGIE:
u are obviously an idiot.. who made a judge... Are u God get out...

this shoe too fit you. because i no mention any moniker.... of course im not God but my own na to tell truth. whether you accept it or not is your wahala. What you do with it is what God will use and judge you simple.

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Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by sweetrace(f): 11:43am On Sep 17, 2023
TimT:
It will be hard, very hard for African Christian move on with life o... They are so focused on this issue of Sex matter as if it's the only content of 10 commandments...
Bible say avoid adultery... it's Sin.. okay..
But Christian close eyes to the remaining 9 "warning" contained in the 10 commandments.. lolz ..
It's shows the level of hypocrisy...
And besides, aside religion, Sex is a natural activity.. we can engage in it anytime and anyhow we want... just a few cautions...
But Christian want us to live a boring life on earth... lol .
No sex before marriage... now after wedding, Christian say "Only Missionary style"… lol grin
I thought bible says "blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God"...
So now if I want to carry my own wife leg hang for window, my heart is no more "pure"... grin grin
No wonder there are lots of versions of the Christian Bible..
Everybody wan write their own version grin grin

There is NO where in the bible that says missionary only.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by TimT: 11:52am On Sep 17, 2023
sweetrace:


There is NO where in the bible that says missionary only.
I know... But same way bible said "The Lord is our Judge"... yet some people still help God to pass judgement here on earth... so Ask your pastor is it's okay to do other styles grin grin..
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Nwagod26: 12:50pm On Sep 17, 2023
TimT:
It will be hard, very hard for African Christian move on with life o... They are so focused on this issue of Sex matter as if it's the only content of 10 commandments...
Bible say avoid adultery... it's Sin.. okay..
But Christian close eyes to the remaining 9 "warning" contained in the 10 commandments.. lolz ..
It's shows the level of hypocrisy...
And besides, aside religion, Sex is a natural activity.. we can engage in it anytime and anyhow we want... just a few cautions...
But Christian want us to live a boring life on earth... lol .
No sex before marriage... now after wedding, Christian say "Only Missionary style"… lol grin
I thought bible says "blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God"...
So now if I want to carry my own wife leg hang for window, my heart is no more "pure"... grin grin
No wonder there are lots of versions of the Christian Bible..
Everybody wan write their own version grin grin


It beats my imagination why sex has become a headline in discussion. Is sex our national problem? Thank God Nigeria didn't bring Christianity upon the world if not, they would have projected Jesus Christ as wicked and unforgiving. Those peddling this nonsense also include those who cannot perform sexually or ones who before now felt sex was a right only to the man in marriage. The world is growing, the world is becoming knowledgeable and as such, people should not use their dogmatic approach ti life to cage others

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Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by HISSCRIBE1995: 12:50pm On Sep 17, 2023
amalgram69:
Sex is to be enjoyed by married couples alone.
But if you're already enjoying it, enjoy wink

are you a muslim or
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by FuckTheMod: 12:55pm On Sep 17, 2023
THESE ARE ABSOLUTE FACTS AND IT AFFECTS FEMALES THE MOST.

ONES THE SEAL IS BROKEN, SHE'S A SLÚT AND A RED FLAG.

NEVER BELIEVE ANYTHING SHE SAYS ABOUT HER SEXUAL PAST.
MOST TIMES, IT'S 99.9% LIES...


A girl with more than 2 BODYCOUNT is not worth loving or trusting.

THERE ARE HIGHER TENDENCIES THAT SHE'S

- EMOTIONALLY DAMAGED
- PHYSICALLY DAMAGED
- SHE'LL MOST LIKELY CHEAT
- SHE HAS NO LOVE TO GIVE BUT WILL ALWAYS COMPLAIN
- GIVE HER THE WHOLE WORLD AND IT WON'T STILL BE ENOUGH FOR HER.

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Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by HISSCRIBE1995: 12:55pm On Sep 17, 2023
AntiChristian:
Jesus spent approximately 33 years on earth without sex! Or let's say the Bible no mention am!

Why can't you be like Jesus who was celibate?

My problem is just that nothing much was written about Jesus from 1 year old to 30 years!

So not much about Jesus sexual life is known from the Bible!

Even sons of God left heaven to patronise beautiful slay queens till they gave them belle in Genesis 6:1-4.


so what are you trying to say ?

the thing that matters is that you should seek more understanding ,and dont think youve already attain enough knowledge .
attacking christianity should not be the only thing you're doing as "antichristain " but seek out the truth .

only jesus saves

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Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Geovanni412(m): 1:01pm On Sep 17, 2023
Rich4god:
Sex before marriage is mainly the cause of high rate of infidelity we have currently....

There is no way that you as a man or woman having slept with multiple partners before marriage will now think that you will remain faithful to your married partner. Only about two percent of people can stay faithful.

Stay away from sex till marriage.

That's the best thing that you can do for Yourself.

And believe me, the moment you are celibate, people who are celibate too will be attracted to you and that's how you will get your partner.

Forget all those who keep saying that their is no virgin man or woman, it's a lie... Virgins plenty for this country, na just your life style dey attract bad people to yourself.



The virgin girls will still fall for the bad boys

This life no get script

Some of the most promiscuous girls you may know in university were virgins before they entered the school up until they met one bad guy

Why were they not attracted to the good guys?

My take is this...some people are virgins because of lack of opportunity. Some are virgins or sexually pure because they choose to be so even in the midst of the opportunity to do otherwise.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by AntiChristian: 1:04pm On Sep 17, 2023
HISSCRIBE1995:


so what are you trying to say ?

the thing that matters is that you should seek more understanding ,and dont think youve already attain enough knowledge .
attacking christianity should not be the only thing you're doing as "antichristain " but seek out the truth .

only jesus saves

How many people did Jesus save before he left?
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by dontrulee: 1:10pm On Sep 17, 2023
You people just dey waste your time.
Nothing wey you go talk.
People will continue to keep on having sex before Marriage. Infact today, many people will engage in fornication and adultery.

When I was still a bad boy, every Sunday I score at least 5 ladies and they were all highly religious.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by HISSCRIBE1995: 1:15pm On Sep 17, 2023
AntiChristian:


How many people did Jesus save before he left?

as many as believed in him to them he gave power to become the sons of God
even them which believe in his name .

and you also can be one of them .

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Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Nobody: 1:45pm On Sep 17, 2023
What is the point after abstaining from sex befre mariage, then after marriage u discover ur partner is impotent or both of ur bodies are imcopatible sexually. No be wahala be dat? So i advocate that when ur relationship has reached advance stage, u can introduce intimacy. God wont cancel you guys for that. U are only trying to apply Wisdom in what you do whch is profithable to direct.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Kobojunkie: 1:50pm On Sep 17, 2023
cutecommend:
Sexual Purity is on the decline even in the Christian fold. Many so-called christians are engaging in it even before marriage. Some partners sleep with themselves before wedding, some sleep with their exes before wedding, some slept around in their youthful days and are still fornicating. Some are gays, some are lesbians, some marry with these identities, covering it from their partners.
What are the problems of lack of sexual purity before marriage?
(1) It causes rise in adultery. A person who has slept around before marriage, whether male or female, has more tendency to commit adultery than a decent person, except there is genuine repentance.
(2) Stagnancy in Spiritual Life: Except their is true confession of sins repentance, a person who sleeps around before marriage, whether with his or her partner, EX, colleagues etc, may find it hard to rise or grow spiritually.
(3) Divorce: The problems of soul-tie caused from sex before marriage might lead to divorce. A married person who has not broken soul ties with former partners (especially evil partners) through prayers, may face issues that could lead to divorce..
Rubbish! So, Jesus Christ who allowed divorce , only restricting remarriage to the case of fornication, is, according to your postulation, of Satan? undecided

Religion/Churchianism is indeed of the antichrist. undecided
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by donmik: 2:32pm On Sep 17, 2023
TimT:
It will be hard, very hard for African Christian move on with life o... They are so focused on this issue of Sex matter as if it's the only content of 10 commandments...
Bible say avoid adultery... it's Sin.. okay..
But Christian close eyes to the remaining 9 "warning" contained in the 10 commandments.. lolz ..
It's shows the level of hypocrisy...
And besides, aside religion, Sex is a natural activity.. we can engage in it anytime and anyhow we want... just a few cautions...
But Christian want us to live a boring life on earth... lol .
No sex before marriage... now after wedding, Christian say "Only Missionary style"… lol grin
I thought bible says "blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God"...
So now if I want to carry my own wife leg hang for window, my heart is no more "pure"... grin grin
No wonder there are lots of versions of the Christian Bible..
Everybody wan write their own version grin grin

Guy, you are just ranting out of the point of discussion.
Speak for yourself, not for Christians cos that you can't doesn't mean others won't
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Kemadealadire(f): 2:36pm On Sep 17, 2023
I agree, the disadvantages are more plus the men aren't trying at all.

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Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by AmeLonRo(m): 3:07pm On Sep 17, 2023
Hollyharjii:
Why is it that sex issues full the front page as early as this on a Sunday morning?


Because sex is a big issue that is being trivialised. Better have sex talk sessions with your children before they are taught elsewhere. They will so tech them badly elsewhere that you will not like yourself.

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Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Rubyjade: 3:24pm On Sep 17, 2023
My friend who works ina hotel said 67.8% of married people are the ones that use the hotel and amazed at the level of adultery in Nigeria.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by TimT: 3:24pm On Sep 17, 2023
donmik:


Guy, you are just ranting out of the point of discussion.
Speak for yourself, not for Christians cos that you can't doesn't mean others won't
Okay pastor
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by BePrepared: 3:34pm On Sep 17, 2023
AntiChristian:
With all these minis and micros going to church....

The church can never be pure!

I once lived among 'pure' Muslims.

Plz don't let me open that page
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by PrimadonnaO(f): 3:36pm On Sep 17, 2023
Collinsaik:
What is the point after abstaining from sex befre mariage, then after marriage u discover ur partner is impotent or both of ur bodies are imcopatible sexually. No be wahala be dat? So i advocate that when ur relationship has reached advance stage, u can introduce intimacy. God wont cancel you guys for that. U are only trying to apply Wisdom in what you do whch is profithable to direct.


You're saying.

Sin against God a little. It's wisdom. He won't be angry.

...at that "advanced" stage of the relationship, once you've sinned, and realised from that one-time sex that the sex wasn't so fantastic, you can break up.

..and you move on to relationship number 2. Sin a little again to test the waters.

...and then perhaps relationship number 3.

When does it stop?

And who's told you that God endorses that kind of wisdom?

Please stop explaining God outside of who the Bible has told us God is

Yes, God won't strike you dead for fornication. But know that the action greatly displeases Him.

You'd have also given the devil a legal access into your life. You've opened a spiritual channel.

You'd have also compromised your spiritual journey. May take a lot to get back to that place of consecration.

********
By all means, pre-marital sex should be avoided.

It's a burden.

A cankerworm

It's not easy to be sexually pure. But the more you consecrate and focus on God, the easier it becomes.

Abstinence is next to impossible without a strong infilling of the Holy Spirit in addition to discipline.

Discipline alone will fail you. You'll stumble and rise repeatedly.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Myer(m): 3:38pm On Sep 17, 2023
AntiChristian:
With all these minis and micros going to church....

The church can never be pure!

Sadly some church-goers have chosen to be cojoined with tares and have become sons of perdition rather than sons of God.
But God knows how to save His own, and He simply wants them and His labourers to be pure.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by FarmTech(m): 4:19pm On Sep 17, 2023
The entertainment industry is the number 1 culprit. See how they promote sexual immorality. See how they make a show as useless as bbn to be popular. And teens with depraved minds are watching. I pity the future.
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Fearyourcreator: 4:26pm On Sep 17, 2023
TimT:
It will be hard, very hard for African Christian move on with life o... They are so focused on this issue of Sex matter as if it's the only content of 10 commandments...
Bible say avoid adultery... it's Sin.. okay..
But Christian close eyes to the remaining 9 "warning" contained in the 10 commandments.. lolz ..
It's shows the level of hypocrisy...
And besides, aside religion, Sex is a natural activity.. we can engage in it anytime and anyhow we want... just a few cautions...
But Christian want us to live a boring life on earth... lol .
No sex before marriage... now after wedding, Christian say "Only Missionary style"… lol grin
I thought bible says "blessed are the pure in heart for they shall see God"...
So now if I want to carry my own wife leg hang for window, my heart is no more "pure"... grin grin
No wonder there are lots of versions of the Christian Bible..
Everybody wan write their own version grin grin
So far this is one of the ten commandments why are you angry ... Oh,,, it's your area of specialization
Re: The Problems Of Lack Of Sexual Purity Before Marriage. by Kobojunkie: 4:54pm On Sep 17, 2023
Christians/Churchians/Religious entities are indeed hyperfocused on sex! Na dem go go watch sex tapes come comment on it. Na dem go see BBL jobs. Na dem go see and know whether the dressing of those who don't even give a flying fk about their religion dey wear. Seriously hyperfocused on sex, they are. Even the married men among them think of sex as though a life source.... na wa oo! undecided

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