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I graduated in 2017, finished service in 2019 and got a job that same here. I was doing okay until 2020 Corona virus of which I was laid down from work.

Fast forward to 2022 I was married to my erstwhile fiancee who has been so close to my family and I don't want to continue in "sin". I took on a teaching job just to cater for my wife, parents and siblings. I have job hunted so hard hoping for the best to come. Recently my two siblings got admission at the same time and the whole responsibility is on me. Well, while in my undergraduate days, my dad took loans to sponsor me, my siblings hawked in the street to be able to support me. Now I have to take care of all of them. Several times I thought of giving up. But I just can't run away from my responsibility.

In the midst of these, I always tell myself not to be despair. Even the rise in cost of things made things worse. Even my wife has threatened to leave. Infact when there is no money, love is a bit reduced. But the thought of my parent and siblings keeps me going, I must be there for them.

I am really going through a lot. Please to those out there who are in my shoe, I want to encourage you that sucide is not an option. Find something to make you keep pushing. Think of your loved ones who are so dear to you and stay alive.

DON'T GIVE UP!

Stay alive thatbis the watch word.

I wish u the best in all u do.

You chose a career (teaching), you chose a wife(family), remember to chose The Most High and pray regardless of the challenges

AkporsMechanical:
I graduated in 2017, finished service in 2019 and got a job that same here. I was doing okay until 2020 Corona virus of which I was laid down from work.

Fast forward to 2022 I was married to my erstwhile fiancee who has been so close to my family and I don't want to continue in "sin". I took on a teaching job just to cater for my wife, parents and siblings. I have job hunted so hard hoping for the best to come. Recently my two siblings got admission at the same time and the whole responsibility is on me. Well, while in my undergraduate days, my dad took loans to sponsor me, my siblings hawked in the street to be able to support me. Now I have to take care of all of them. Several times I thought of giving up. But I just can't run away from my responsibility.

In the midst of these, I always tell myself not to be despair. Even the rise in cost of things made things worse. Even my wife has threatened to leave. Infact when there is no money, love is a bit reduced. ❌ But the thought of my parent and siblings keeps me going, I must be there for them.

I am really going through a lot. Please to those out there who are in my shoe, I want to encourage you that sucide is not an option. Find something to make you keep pushing. Think of your loved ones who are so dear to you and stay alive.

DON'T GIVE UP!

Don't ever feel encouraged with the wrong statement just like the bolded above ⬆️..

IF THERE IS NO MONEY 🤑 LOVE, RESPECT, MARRIAGE EVEN FEELINGS FOR OPPISITE SEX WILL LEAVE AND DISAPPEAR AND THATS WHY YOUR WIFE IS TELLING OR THREATHING YOU SHE WILL LEAVE SOMEDAY

So forget all this love love love of a thing if there is no money forget love or marriage ..

Only married individual will understand my eulogy in disguise 🥸

HugeElephant:
You chose a career (teaching), you chose a wife(family), remember to chose The Most High and pray regardless of the challenges

Alright sir...thank you very much sir!

Ibechris2:
Stay alive thatbis the watch word.

I wish u the best in all u do.

Amen, thanks a lot