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My wife has a 16yrs old son who is so attached to her. We do not have kids though she has had several miscarriages but I fear that her is deliberately avoiding to have kids for me.

I fear woman but I fear person wey no fear woman pass

You are raising another man's son when you have NONE of your own?

You are a real man.

Namaster:
You are raising another man's son when you have NONE of your own?

You are a real man.

A virtuous man.

You're both a disgrace and a disgusting excuse of a man.

We've said it over and over: Men, avoid single mothers. They of no good and will never be of any good. Avoid them like the plague.

But because you severely lack options and suffer a terrible, debilitating low self-esteem, you decided to marry a washed up, overused, dirty, single mother.


Yes, she won't have kids for you. Instead she'll focus on using your resources tu train her son.


Shame on you.
You disgust me.

Why would she not want to get pregnant for you? If your wife is truly having miscarriages, yet you accuse her, do you know how painful such accusation is? Most women would not be satisfied with one child, they will want to have 2-3 kids, so call your wife and talk to her, seek medical help or spiritual help as need be.

crackhaus:
A virtuous man.

A woman's dream man

ChybuzzDD:
A woman's dream man

He is a godly man.

Anytime women mentioned this line...just have a rethink.

LilMissFavvy:
Why would she not want to get pregnant for you? If your wife is truly having miscarriages, yet you accuse her, do you know how painful such accusation is? Most women would not be satisfied with one child, they will want to have 2-3 kids, so call your wife and talk to her, seek medical help or spiritual help as need be.

It's obvious the woman is the financial heavyweight of the relationship. That's why he wants to get her pregnant by all means and why he's concerned about her NoK. The growing numbers of gold-digging men we have today is worrying to say the least. If only the woman knew she's better off being a single mother.

The woman in the story seems financially comfortable, reason OP is bothered by her son being her next of kin.

You believe she is deliberately miscarrying, the big question is WHY?

Southeast21:
My wife has a 16yrs old son who is so attached to her. We do not have kids though she has had several miscarriages but I fear that her is deliberately avoiding to have kids for me.

I fear woman but I fear person wey no fear woman pass

Are you financially able to cater for a child? She is already raising some other man’s child alone and you want her to add more because you married her?

This is why I believe single mothers are better off single. You are here lamenting about her relationship with her own son, a boy that didn’t grow up with a father, and has only the mother. She literally has to be both father mother to this child, and you want that to change because you gave her a ring?


I think the answer here is clear, if you don’t like the way things are than divorce her and move on. I’m sure she and her son will be fine without you!

The toxicity of this place can actually break homes or relationships. I don't know why any sane person will bring their problems here.

This man will definitely start hating his wife after reading reactions from here. Always go to a counsellor or respected family members instead of allowing people still writing exams to tell you how to handle marriage.

The fact that you think she's deliberately miscarrying is enough to state the kind of person you are. You stated she has had miscarriages do you know how traumatizing it must have been for her each time.

And you don't want your wife's son to be attached to her as how? When you eventually have children with her don't you want her to be attached to your children.

Make pikin no love him mama again? Abi na make mama no love pikin?

Hustler, miscarriage is a painful occurrence n most importantly it brings emotional melt down to the patient. Note if she doesn't want a baby family planning is easily accessible n finally her NOK ought to be her soon not u, please stop sounding entitled.

I like to guess,op is after her money.

Mindlog:
The woman in the story seems financially comfortable, reason OP is bothered by her son being her next of kin.

You believe she is deliberately miscarrying, the big question is WHY?