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Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by Emekayoung(m): 3:30pm On May 06, 2024
Adewale1603:
He firstly sent you 50k just for calling him on phone, and later He started sending you 500k, 200k, 300k... randomly. The man na ritualists or politician ?
I only see this in Nollywood movies.
She has been furckking the man regularly that's why he keeps sending money to her frequently. Women can lie for Africa,fear those creatures o.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by YemyTemmy: 3:36pm On May 06, 2024
lordm:
All this cock and bull crap.
no be cork and bull matter ooo, crazy things are happening.... never trust woman, no matter how religious she appears
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by REALretep(m): 3:37pm On May 06, 2024
maxiuc:
grin

Yeye woman

When they man gave you the money why didn't you tell your husband about it and go with your husband to thank him instead you went to his house alone just delulu yourself I really pity that man because he's in for it
[color=indigo] Exactly
There's no mistake at all in this. Her mind was already made up before leaving her house to visit a man that has been disturbing her for years and defiling herself subsequently.
She's speaking up now because she has realized that her marriage is on the brink of doom and she is the one that will be blamed and disgraced
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Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by sylve11: 3:38pm On May 06, 2024
brazenwalls:
But she had her bath and looked fresh to go and say "Thank you"...
Na wa o grin shocked cool
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by IMPARTIAL: 3:43pm On May 06, 2024
[quote author=onumadu post=129800520]Firstly, understand that you are a human being, and human beings are not perfect (including the hypocrites here calling you all types of names and accusing you).
As a human being, you fell for hardship (that is why poverty is very dangerous).
Understand this and forgive yourself.
Secondly, tell your husband everything now. Return the man's money, too. ALL OF IT.
I presume you are married to a mature man (not a kid like those ranting here).
I also assume that you are telling the truth about this being a one time mistake and not your character flaw.
If your husband has always known you as a normal trustworthy woman, and he is not the deeply insecure type (BTW I warn women to never marry insecure man no matter what), he is likely to forgive and let bygone be bygone.
Just like Jesus told the woman caught in adultery, GO AND SIN NO MORE. cool[/qu

TRY THIS AND THE MARRIAGE ENDS.

HOWEVER, YOU KNOW THE KIND OF MAN YOU MARRIED. WILL HE Accept YOU?

IF IT IS ME, I DOUBT IF I WILL SLEEP WITH THE WOMAN AGAIN.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by jahsharon: 3:44pm On May 06, 2024
Fineman2:
Women are too cunning and dishonest
It is hereditary. She will soon get pregnant for the sugar daddy, and hang the pregnancy on the husband.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by TossTos(m): 3:49pm On May 06, 2024
Na to invest the money and move on ..
You don cashout from him be that

You know how to make him forget you..
Dey ignore am ...
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by oluxy(m): 3:51pm On May 06, 2024
Fineman2:
MARRIED WOMAN SEEKS ADVISE AFTER MISTAKENLY SLEEPING WITH NEIGHBOR FOR FINANCIAL AID


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Nothing like mistakenly or one thing led to the other, nothing like that.

You have had it in mind before now just that you didn't think it would happen the way it happened.

No excuses in cheating for man or any woman.

Let look at it this way,
Would you have agreed to let one thing or the other happen between you and a man that is just passing by on the street?

Your man is going to find out one way or the way.
One thing will lead to the other and he will by that also finds out.

Just prepare for the worse.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by Vowels(m): 3:52pm On May 06, 2024
First, don't tell your man you cheated. If you do, everything your house will change. Secondly, flex your money.

Lastly, I don't blame you. I blame the man. Na man dey do man.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by Seunpapa65: 3:53pm On May 06, 2024
I just finished backing person babe now the guy too dey hang shoulder although no be my fault
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by deanoffaculty: 3:54pm On May 06, 2024
Fineman2:
MARRIED WOMAN SEEKS ADVISE AFTER MISTAKENLY SLEEPING WITH NEIGHBOR FOR FINANCIAL AID


Family Matters on Splash105.5FM Ibadan

https://www.facebook.com/61550192202878/posts/pfbid0m8FfiBb5N5CRYoi59qX7NdrQT4gXBTikn3WGqGMfurur9UjPeRwVW4VEh5Yxexxgl/?app=fbl
The word "mistakenly" is the only thing I don't like about this story. You Bleep be say you Bleep....which one be "mistakenly"?
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by Chukerokeke90: 4:02pm On May 06, 2024
Probably chose a day she was s*xable, groomed her asante kotoko too. Couldn't go to say Thank you in the company of one of her 5 children. Fear both men and women. When a gender sets it's mind to do evil, you'll see evil creativity!

brazenwalls:
But she had her bath and looked fresh to go and say "Thank you"...
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by Muyiddeen(m): 4:10pm On May 06, 2024
I no believe these story! Lies from A-Z
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by yahoodetector: 4:12pm On May 06, 2024
favour32:
One male, go don drink ogogoro and write one cock and bull story, una go believe am.
So this looks like a male to you abi? Go and borrow sense!!

Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by Annymation(m): 4:15pm On May 06, 2024
Biko, how is it a mistake when paragraph 2, line 5 says one thing led to another? This was an intentional bonking that was carefully carried out steps by steps.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 4:19pm On May 06, 2024
onumadu:
Firstly, understand that you are a human being, and human beings are not perfect (including the hypocrites here calling you all types of names and accusing you).
As a human being, you fell for hardship (that is why poverty is very dangerous).
Understand this and forgive yourself.
Secondly, tell your husband everything now. Return the man's money, too. ALL OF IT.
I presume you are married to a mature man (not a kid like those ranting here).
I also assume that you are telling the truth about this being a one time mistake and not your character flaw.
If your husband has always known you as a normal trustworthy woman, and he is not the deeply insecure type (BTW I warn women to never marry insecure man no matter what), he is likely to forgive and let bygone be bygone.
Just like Jesus told the woman caught in adultery, GO AND SIN NO MORE. cool
Men don’t easily forgive cheating no matter the circumstances or situations leading to it. It’s very hard for we men to forgive a cheating girlfriend, talk less of a wife. I will just advise she stops conversing with the man and focus on her husband. She seems to be a good woman.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by MyVILLAGEpeople(m): 4:20pm On May 06, 2024
Sapasenator:
She mistakenly stumbled and fell on an erect dic*k.

It happens lets forgive her.

On a serious note, every one has a price once hardship set in.


On that bolded part ehnn. Nobe lie. Hardship will make one do the unthinkable
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by occfx: 4:23pm On May 06, 2024
Fineman2:
Women are too cunning and dishonest
She knows exactly what she was doing... She want there to pay back the 50k with her pussssay. Now wahala don burst. Kiss your marriage bye because, guy man must find out. Your emotions will never remain the same and whatever you do now, will not end well. If you tell your oga problem, if you no tell am problem. Finally, if you leave the marriage, the man will dump you and look for another home to scatter. That's how they operate and devil rewards them for that. Suffering is part of life... Just endure it and work harder. The small money you get with peace of mind is better than millions you get without peace of mind
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by Blackdisciple(m): 4:28pm On May 06, 2024
@Bold.

There is a man whose house is not so far from one of the four branches of my husband’s store. The man has been disturbing me for about 5years now. One day, we could not sell a single thing in our store, so on my way home, I thought to call this man to see if he could help with something. He sent me 50,000naira. I was so happy and felt indebted to this man. So a week after, I decided to go thank him at home. His family stay abroad. Omajuwa, I honestly was not planning anything than to thank him o but one thing led to another and we had sex.

In all a woman will always locate that person they ignored who has been disturbing them especially if they are staying close to each other.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by Ubdavis(m): 4:31pm On May 06, 2024
Fineman2:
Women are too cunning and dishonest
Are men not cunning and dishonest too?

Not supporting evil but it's not a particular gender thing.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by Monaboo(m): 4:34pm On May 06, 2024
How do you mistakingly sleep with your neighbor for money?
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by femi4: 4:39pm On May 06, 2024
Fineman2:
MARRIED WOMAN SEEKS ADVISE AFTER MISTAKENLY SLEEPING WITH NEIGHBOR FOR FINANCIAL AID


Family Matters on Splash105.5FM Ibadan

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fake story

You ve not touched the money, yet you n your husband are struggling....make it make sense
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by godwon01(m): 4:43pm On May 06, 2024
Mistakenly what ? Not acceptable. Is she a kid. Generous auntie of the community.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by aremubabs: 4:56pm On May 06, 2024
"One thing led to another..."



I hate this statement, and cheats like to use it a lot.





Which thing led to another? You went to show appreciation at his house. So, what thing led to another?





Usually, when sex happens like this, it is never accidental or unplanned. Both parties wanted it.






It is a different thing if she was raped or if he asked her for sex before helping her, and she was really in a terrible situation.






But when a cheat says, "one thing led to another..."





I only understand it as that they planned to have sex. Perhaps, she even shaved and wore new panties before going to meet him. You would be surprised that she went there prepared to have sex.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by Jamie1000:
Lol. That man will still sleep with you untill you're divorced. Then, he will tell you're too old. You know what to do. But. You ppl are too emotional to accept truth as it is. No one opens toto by mistake. Except rape, but you actually went to his house.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by wink2015(m): 5:07pm On May 06, 2024
lordm:
All this cock and bull crap.
There is always a lesson for human to learn from others experience.

Just take the lesson and protect yourself.

Cock and whatever
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by Akalia(m): 5:12pm On May 06, 2024
onumadu:
Firstly, understand that you are a human being, and human beings are not perfect (including the hypocrites here calling you all types of names and accusing you).
As a human being, you fell for hardship (that is why poverty is very dangerous).
Understand this and forgive yourself.
Secondly, tell your husband everything now. Return the man's money, too. ALL OF IT.
I presume you are married to a mature man (not a kid like those ranting here).
I also assume that you are telling the truth about this being a one time mistake and not your character flaw.
If your husband has always known you as a normal trustworthy woman, and he is not the deeply insecure type (BTW I warn women to never marry insecure man no matter what), he is likely to forgive and let bygone be bygone.
Just like Jesus told the woman caught in adultery, GO AND SIN NO MORE. cool
All you wrote na trash.

So if your wife offers her body voluntarily to another man and you later found out, so you would give her a pat on the back or rather treat the issue with kids' glove?

How some men dey reason dey baffle me at times.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by RushManni: 5:18pm On May 06, 2024
Fineman2:
Women are too cunning and dishonest
Exactly. Although not all women. But this one is. You could see how she stated : the man has been disturbing her for 5 years now

Na there I just give up. They somehow would put in something to justify their act and that was where it became glaring she really wanted to sleep with the man

Otherwise why would you give us a reason why you could do what you did if that thing you did wasn't meant to happen at all at all irrespective of any circumstance

Just go read that line again and laugh ..... She's deceiving herself
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by Akalia(m): 5:21pm On May 06, 2024
jayce232:
Oga 70% of women will fall for this
What is keeping most home in our society is because the man is keeping up financially. The moment a man start failing financially, the woman will start thinking of wealthy men making advances at her. If any man think I'm lying, let him stop providing for his home for just one month & see his wife reaction.
I hate to admit this but you are damn right. Honestly, women are just too fragile.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by RushManni: 5:23pm On May 06, 2024
onumadu:
Firstly, understand that you are a human being, and human beings are not perfect (including the hypocrites here calling you all types of names and accusing you).
As a human being, you fell for hardship (that is why poverty is very dangerous).
Understand this and forgive yourself.
Secondly, tell your husband everything now. Return the man's money, too. ALL OF IT.
I presume you are married to a mature man (not a kid like those ranting here).
I also assume that you are telling the truth about this being a one time mistake and not your character flaw.
If your husband has always known you as a normal trustworthy woman, and he is not the deeply insecure type (BTW I warn women to never marry insecure man no matter what), he is likely to forgive and let bygone be bygone.
Just like Jesus told the woman caught in adultery, GO AND SIN NO MORE. cool
Bro, you dey cap nonsense here especially at the part you stated that we are humans and aren't perfect, in this case.

Pleaseeee let's call a spade a spade.

U think she can return that money ? You're joking

Or you think they won't have sex again ?

Well, I leave you with that mirage you see as reality

Imperfection has limit

Just like a man using his child for rituallll and you say he is imperfect ?

Imperfection has limit

Some things are deliberately..... If a woman DOESN'T want to sleep with you, there is nothing you do that'll let her do that.

He didn't rape her

It was the same "one thing led to another..." grin grin grin ;DLol..... Abeg allow yourself to wake up; but that's if you really want.
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by sylve11: 5:26pm On May 06, 2024
Seunpapa65:
I just finished backing person babe now the guy too dey hang shoulder although no be my fault
shocked cool
Re: Married Woman Seeks Advice After Mistakenly Sleeping With Neighbor For Money by Greenfusion: 5:28pm On May 06, 2024
onumadu:
Firstly, understand that you are a human being, and human beings are not perfect (including the hypocrites here calling you all types of names and accusing you).
As a human being, you fell for hardship (that is why poverty is very dangerous).
Understand this and forgive yourself.
Secondly, tell your husband everything now. Return the man's money, too. ALL OF IT.
I presume you are married to a mature man (not a kid like those ranting here).
I also assume that you are telling the truth about this being a one time mistake and not your character flaw.
If your husband has always known you as a normal trustworthy woman, and he is not the deeply insecure type (BTW I warn women to never marry insecure man no matter what), he is likely to forgive and let bygone be bygone.
Just like Jesus told the woman caught in adultery, GO AND SIN NO MORE. cool
My question to you is, if you are a man and your wife tells you thus story, how would you react?
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