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You dey find ASSylum for nairaland?

U want to kii urself??U gay pple like making ur sexuality the core of ur existence and its pathetic


U think of u are straight, ur Nigerian parents will hail u for planning to go and fvck... Lol...
As if u don't know the average Nigerian parents ....

Guy...U are 19......go and face ur book or wateva it's is u are aspiring to becoming in life..... Ur sex life will sort itself out as u become more independent...

Timoleon:
You dey find ASSylum for nairaland?

Lol...

DarrenW2:
■ while I was chatting one of my friends from a gay group on Facebook we were planning to hook up , that was before I met my current boyfriend, my sister got suspicious of me and checked my phone and sent screenshots of my chat to our parents, it was one of the worst days of my life, they beat the shit out of me ,soon after my mom started thinking I'm gay , so recently they caught me again despite all the protection and security I have on my phone, they managed to get into it and read my chats with my boyfriend, and when my dad found out he was furious, he threatened my boyfriend and me that he would arrest us and lock us up , because my country is a homophobic country , and the people there are very ignorant, Nigeria is my country, right now I'm contemplating suicide, I would have killed myself already but the fear that my parents would locate my boyfriends whereabouts and do something bad to him, I am currently suffering from depression, I have nothing good going for me currently, I haven't even accepted myself as gay or bi , I hate myself for making my parents feel so bad about their first son , I hate myself, I want to leave this world, 😭😭😭 I need help, any way you can help me please 🥺 , any comment is allowed say what you have in mind but be respectful of course

If you are waiting for someone else to accept you before you accept yourself, that ain't never gonna happen my friend. In this life, you first need to work hard at loving yourself first, then others will either love you too or go fk themselves. (Just be sure not to be some sort of jerkwad or arsehole with excuses.)

So, first things first, you need to accept yourself. You are not going anywhere if you don't do that first. You are gay and that is who you are—no spirits or demons attacking you. Then plan on getting mental health counseling for the depression issue. Talk to your gay friends out there. They might know a good counselor who can help you deal with your depression issues. Your identity issues, if you can resolve that yourself, great, else, get counseling for that as well. As for what to do at this point in your life, you are gay and life is not going to be handed to you on a platter so you should be ready now to step out of yourself and find what you can begin doing. What are your talents? What are you right now good at? Think of how you can improve on them and build something of them. Hit the library or school if you have to, and work hard at whatever it is you decide to do.

Kill yourself nah wetin still dey hold you?

No time to waste.They should handover you to Soldiers. I assure u that u go dey alright within 1 days with them.Best bet is to transport you to one of the Military barracks UP North.U go testify

Gaybriel

OP is looking for greencard

Go to USA embassy and talk to them

MaziObinnaokija:
No time to waste.They should handover you to Soldiers. I assure u that u go dey alright within 1 days with them.Best bet is to transport you to one of the Military barracks UP North.U go testify

You must be very stupid

advanceDNA:
U want to kii urself??U gay pple like making ur sexuality the core of ur existence and its pathetic


U think of u are straight, ur Nigerian parents will hail u for planning to go and fvck... Lol...
As if u don't know the average Nigerian parents ....

Guy...U are 19......go and face ur book or wateva it's is u are aspiring to becoming in life..... Ur sex life will sort itself out as u become more independent...

Do you know what it means to not be accepted by society, or what it means to know that God hates you , and it's not something that can be changed, do you know what it means to not be accepted by your own parents, straight people are lucky, very lucky I wish I am straight, the road to success will be easier, gay people have it harder in life , gay people first have to find peace within themselves and their environment and families , so please I need help , I don't need people to judge me , I've already been judged already, you don't know who I am , you don't know what I've been through so please don't judge me , pls

DarrenW2:




You must be very stupid

Same like ur stupid father

MaziObinnaokija:
Same like ur stupid father

Hey mind your words

DarrenW2:


Hey mind your words

Tell that to the elderly ones in ur father's house above 50.Kid

DarrenW2:

Do you know what it means to not be accepted by society, or what it means to know that God hates you , and it's not something that can be changed, do you know what it means to not be accepted by your own parents, straight people are lucky, very lucky I wish I am straight, the road to success will be easier, gay people have it harder in life , gay people first have to find peace within themselves and their environment and families , so please I need help , I don't need people to judge me , I've already been judged already, you don't know who I am , you don't know what I've been through so please don't judge me , pls

Judge?? U don't even know the meaning of that word...

Gay or straight.....u are 19....the real problem with u is you being pathetic, calling a pity party on ur self

try loving urself and the person u are aspiring to be first and start working to wards it...instead of looking for people to validate u

...sexuality is a small part of our humanity...but ur stupíd lgbt gang and their acceptance / hatred doctrine only make u think and feel miserable because ur folks or the world dont love that small part of you.....

So what..?? Look around u.......everyone is different and weird in their own there's...it's no big deal that someone, including ur parents wont like that part of you...someone else will.....cant u gay folks just get that Instead of threatening ur self with suicide

Imagine being a dwarf, an imbécile, a siamese twins joint in the head or a fvcking retard and see just how horrible life is .....

U have better things to focus on than worrying about ur parents and world that's gives no shiit about you .....

DarrenW2:
■ Do you know what it means to not be accepted by society, or what it means to know that God hates you, and it's not something that can be changed, do you know what it means to not be accepted by your own parents, straight people are lucky, very lucky I wish I am straight, the road to success will be easier, gay people have it harder in life , gay people first have to find peace within themselves and their environment and families , so please I need help , I don't need people to judge me , I've already been judged already, you don't know who I am , you don't know what I've been through so please don't judge me , pls

There is no place where it is written in stone that if society does not accept you, then you are not worth anything. As for your parents, you are not the only one out there with those. When gay people were being persecuted in America, they had nowhere to run to. They had to stand and face the system to carve a place for themselves. They did it not through pity parties but by providing they do have something beneficial to contribute as individuals despite their sexual orientation, something most everyone out there equally has to do if you think about it. Go get help from a psychiatrist for your depression please and stop wallowing in the unnecessaries!

Kobojunkie:
If you are waiting for someone else to accept you before you accept yourself, that ain't never gonna happen my friend. In this life, you first need to work hard at loving yourself first, then others will either love you too or go fk themselves. (Just be sure not to be some sort of jerkwad or arsehole with excuses.)

So, first things first, you need to accept yourself. You are not going anywhere if you don't do that first. You are gay and that is who you are—no spirits or demons attacking you. Then plan on getting mental health counseling for the depression issue. Talk to your gay friends out there. They might know a good counselor who can help you deal with your depression issues. Your identity issues, if you can resolve that yourself, great, else, get counseling for that as well. As for what to do at this point in your life, you are gay and life is not going to be handed to you on a platter so you should be ready now to step out of yourself and find what you can begin doing. What are your talents? What are you right now good at? Think of how you can improve on them and build something of them. Hit the library or school if you have to, and work hard at whatever it is you decide to do.

So Kobojunkie is a GayLORD....OMG....see person wey I dey follow argue scriptures..
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No wonder he's always twisting and mixing and turning every scriptures up and down.
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May God deliver you.
If I told you to do 30 days fast to deliver urself from the Gay spirit tormenting u now...u will start quoting scriptures wrongly.....

NiRfreak:
■ So Kobojunkie is a GayLORD....OMG....see person wey I dey follow argue scriptures. No wonder he's always twisting and mixing and turning every scriptures up and down. May God deliver you. If I told you to do 30 days fast to deliver urself from the Gay spirit tormenting u now...u will start quoting scriptures wrongly.....

Just see the ramblings of a religious nutjob who fancies that his religious delirium makes him a better person than OP. Nonsense!