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Grammy-winning Nigerian singer, Temilade Openiyi, popularly known as Tems, has shared her opinion about the agenda of most men when it comes to relationships.

According to her, a lot of men approach relationships with no agenda other than sex.

The host, Korty EO asked, “Have you been in love before?”

Tems replied, “A lot of guys, they are very obvious… There is no agenda but to penetrate.”

The ‘Essence’ crooner also opened up about being constantly misunderstood and bullied because of her reserved nature and how she handled it.

“Everything I did seemed to annoy everybody. They would say, ‘Why are you so slow? Why are you talking so slow? Talk like you are alive.’ And I would say, ‘You are very stupid. Are you crazy?’ I was upset all the time,” she said.

Tems added that she found solace in her musical talent.

Namaster:
The reason for this is NOT far-fetched. You are more likely to have a more stimulating conversation with a rock than with the average Nigerian girl.

Case in point is this interview:

Interviewer: Have you ever been in love?

Tems: “A lot of guys, they are very obvious… There is no agenda but to penetrate.”

And she's one of the smarter ones.

Namaster:
The reason for this is NOT far-fetched. You are more likely to have a more stimulating conversation with a rock than with the average Nigerian girl.

Namaster:
And she's one of the smarter ones.

Namaster:
The reason for this is NOT far-fetched. You are more likely to have a more stimulating conversation with a rock than with the average Nigerian girl.

Case in point is this interview:

Interviewer: Have you ever been in love?

Tems: “A lot of guys, they are very obvious… There is no agenda but to penetrate.”


And she's one of the smarter ones.